Taby_DK

Taby_DK

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Shocking Content On Profiles!

January 29 2013

So I was browsing profiles today and I came across one in particular that made my blood boil. I will not name and shame but I will state that I found the content of this profile highly disturbing and racial (by my standards). It basicly stated that the person in question would not have anything to do with couples on this site who partake in this particular lifestyle and who have families as they found it disgusting. I know quite a few swinging couples that have families but also play and I find it insulting that anyone would suggest it is wrong to swing just because you have a family. It raises the question that if you feel that hateful towards the lifestyle why are you even on an adult dating site? This is not the first time I have heard of people disapproving of swingers in general or those with families. I often wonder why this is? As long as your not hurting anyone I don't see why swinging causes such a big who-har. I personally love the freedom of being able to attend swingers clubs/parties with my partner or casually chat with another couples about the finer art of swinging Taby.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    On a site similar to this, who trawls in the hope of striking up a conversation with women. When he's successful he will start to throw controversial, judgmental comments at them in the hope they'll fire up and get narky. If they do he reports them and gets them blocked from the site. It's his sport and clearly comes from a pretty messed up, petty mind. My advice is ignore, ignore, ignore. It's not worth devoting your energy to petty-minded people and there's nothing to be gained by feeding their attention-hungry psyches. As for how people can think what they think - that's simply the nature of difference. Different experience, upbringing, values, intellect, moral code, priorities etc. Unless you want to become a social activist and fight for the rights of swingers around the world I say live, let live, and hope others who can't do the same at least do no direct harm.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Taby,Just our 20 cents worth, family or no family is irrelevent.Actually, and as you will no doubt gather by our vintage, we have a family, and are very gratefull that sex in all it's wonderous forms is still on the agender for us and sex with others is makes a wonderul entree to our continued lives together. We are in love, in lust, horny little buggers even though we have beautiful children to contunue our blood line. They (our kids) are unaware, uninvolved and unencumbered by our choice to indulge in this "Life Style"The person with whom you have encountered (would love a message from you as to who they are:) are ignorant and to say the least, being on this site and stipulating this attitude publically, arrogant!So fark em!!!! I wonder if they/him/her are truely genuine! I wonder if they/him/her would change their tune once they have a family, they grow up to some degree and are able to participate again in this "life Style"Fark em again!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    As we enjoy it. We too have a young family, its our release from our working/family life to be with other like minded couples to have consented adult fun. This does not make us bad people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The person concerned is not interested in couples or people who swing but happily wants to pick up a fuck buddy for a romp in the hay?

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Hello TabyI have all ways thought that swinging became a thing from being called the norty forties.Back in the day, I remember thinking of the old fogies getting into it, and good on them. So most couples have had children and beginning to find time for this type of grown up fun. At least back when it became a statement. It wasn't long before that, if a couple did not go to church on Sunday Mornings, that couple would have been the talk of the town.Who knows, that couple might have been swinging with another one or couple in the next town.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Luvnya69'As we enjoy it. We too have a young family, its our release from our working/family life to be with other like minded couples to have consented adult fun. This does not make us bad people. yes it does! it makes you as 'bad' as the rest of us...... lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What a short-sighted, narrow-minded individual that was Taby_Daring. What does he expect that all sexual activity should stop as soon as a bouncing bundle of joy arrives for a couple? Kids just become a bit of an organisational issue when it comes to meets, just like they are an organisational issue when going out anywhere fancy. You just need to get a sitter (which can be hard) and plan your meets in advance. When the kids are older, that's when it becomes a bit more of an issue, you have to be very clandestine (in which case you get to sneak around like naughty teenagers again). It's only bad if the kids find out. I don't think anyone really wants to have that awkward conversation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I understand your shock and dissapointment with unshamed person..but its sad that all this narrow mindedness and preventative atitudes still sour our fun...Fact is the confidence and bond you have with your partner is far greater than unshamed Joe Dirt will ever feel for his sheep lol...guess we still have a long way to go..go for gold Taby :) Ps your cute lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The most shocking content I have come across on a profile and does not leave my mind is a woman who says she has three daughters list their ages and states two live with her!!!!!!!!!! WTF is she openly inviting strangers predators to her door. She has a vulgar name in an area know as cheap. This profile has often bothered me and scared me. I fear for those girls.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Beneath_blueeyes' The most shocking content I have come across on a profile and does not leave my mind is a woman who says she has three daughters list their ages and states two live with her!!!!!!!!!! WTF is she openly inviting strangers predators to her door. She has a vulgar name in an area know as cheap. This profile has often bothered me and scared me. I fear for those girls. I guess there are people out there who are that stupid!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    that this site would only attract like minded people.?Some people are here I am quite sure because they have an opposing view and will take any opportunity to prosyletize.Just think of them as part of the moral right and move on. There are many very judgemental people here,some are very forthright in their views and use every opportunity to reinforce those views.However they are entitled to those views and to express them.I may not agree with them but will defend their right to express them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Interesting......the judger being judged by open minds?? Who'd have thought?? :p

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    All of the above---LOL