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Shocking dates

October 23 2013

What date have you been on that has been really bad or just not gone to plan? Have you ever had an awkward situation?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sometime ago, on another site,I had been chatting with a gentleman in Sydney, we agreed to meet when I was in town a week later. When we got together a week later he asked me what brought me to town, I said I was visiting a GF who was back from the UK for a couple of weeks, he said that's a coincidence my sister in law is back from the UK for a couple of weeks and is staying with us......you guessed it......same person! .....afraid that was waaaay too close to home and a line I wasn't prepared to cross........I still wonder if his wife knows he is Bi????? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    One in particular .   After being on RHP for about 8 months I joined a regular dating site and went on a date with a man from that site.   Because I had been on a few meet ups already from RHP I got a bit confused and started talking to this guy about kinks and bondage and then proceeded to ask him if he was interested in "playing"   The look of horror on his face!!   I cant understand why I never heard from him again!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    absolutely filthy fingernails. I was as polite for as long as I could be and left as quickly as I could!

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Artificial leg lady comes to mind...... DG

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    11 years ago

    In the early days of my time on RHP, met a guy who looked fit and presented the image of he could go for hours, but when we got in bed, I felt I have wasted my time with him! Not to mention that he turned up almost an hour passed our meeting time!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    11 years ago

    Are you also known as Deuce Bigolo?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Met a lady from another site and as we started to chat and the laughs came the next thing the ex hubby sat down n the whole thing went south from there ?? Still unsure if he was the ex or the current as it was all most like she just been busted lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    it lasted 20 years,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Got to a whole new level of heat in the midst of an incredibly passionate stolen kiss one night ...                   ... my pony tail had been hovering over a candle & went up in flames.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Met someone from another dating site , on his profile he was supposed to be 32 yo with hot six packs and gorgeous , so as agreed to meet at a Restaurant in fortitude Valley , so i went 7.30 pm walked toward the restaurant and i saw a man Wave at me and smiled at me , but i am thinking that was not the man i am goin to meet of coz and infact thinking he was waving at some one behind me or something , but then no he was starring at me , so i decided to look around me/behind me maybe he was goin to meet friend that walking rite behind me , so i turned around and checked there were no one but me, to my shocked /horror he is a guys about 30kg's over with strands of hairs and like 45 yo, oh my God !!...i have been tricked by this person , what a Bastard !!...but being nice person i decided to go through with it .,and luckilyhe was funny and the worse part me being nice to him he actually thought i was goin to have something to do with him, so me just saying no ! not gonna happened ...and that was it and funnilly enough the same person try to contacted me again about a month ago and i recogniced the fotos from a year or so ago and i have i told him that , i knew him and that he was a liar shouldnt be tricking people with false profile/bullshit pictures that nothing like him and guess what he said ," you will be the first person ever to Complain !! no one ever before !! " oh my God ! i was speechless , and so i decided to give him my piece of mind , i bet he will remeber me forever and will never come near my profile ever again , some people just out of touch with reality sometimes ,unbelieveable !.. but then again that was , my earlier days experienced with online meeting as for now , that will never happened again !!...if you promised me sick packs and they are not there ,when i come to see you and dont look like your pictures at all i am just gonna run for my life ,ha,ha.. , i am out of there ,i aint gonna be nice when people try to trick me, no way !

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JayJay_66' One in particular .   After being on RHP for about 8 months I joined a regular dating site and went on a date with a man from that site.   Because I had been on a few meet ups already from RHP I got a bit confused and started talking to this guy about kinks and bondage and then proceeded to ask him if he was interested in "playing"   The look of horror on his face!!   I cant understand why I never heard from him again! I can't believe he didn't call again either JJ ! lol. His loss Cheers, W.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JayJay_66' One in particular .   After being on RHP for about 8 months I joined a regular dating site and went on a date with a man from that site.   Because I had been on a few meet ups already from RHP I got a bit confused and started talking to this guy about kinks and bondage and then proceeded to ask him if he was interested in "playing"   The look of horror on his face!!   I cant understand why I never heard from him again! Absolutely priceless - made me LOL. Good one !!!   Tall

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    I've done the vanilla sites.... My behaviour and personality don't change....so because of the significantly higher numbers of genuine female profiles on vanilla sites, theyve been less banilla, and more "double rich Belgian choc truffle with cream and custard".... than this place has been. People are people, wherever tou find them. :-) DG- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Not Deuce.... but I did see a woman who was 6foot5 for a while. Very tall. Very slim. Remember those scenes? I'm tall, but I still had the phrase "that's a huge bitch" in my head at times. Lol- Posted from rhpmobile

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    11 years ago

    Yes , remember the scene well. lol I think all the characters from that movie can be found on these sites .i was chatting recently to a woman on here .... Don't know if she was just a bogan or had Tourets Syndrome . Funny thing was she typed ALL the swear words in her text sentences ... Bizarre !- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We met up with a couple from RHP at a local pub to play pool, enjoy a few drinks and to get to know them before deciding to play or not..Mr L was enjoying himself with D, a sexy flirty gal, I was not receiving the same type of attention from S, who just seemed to be a little distant. As the night progressed, Mr L was enjoying himself immensely with D, flirting, touching and so on. So I decided I'd throw a bit of bait out there to see what type of response I received. So when S was taking his shot into the corner pocket I decided to lift my dress and flash my naked pussy at him, which didn't even bat an eyelid. Hmmm I thought, did I miss something there? As I received more from the other patrons. Then all of a sudden S came over and started to smooth talk me (if that's what you would call it) by asking me, "Do you like to take drugs like E's and C when you're having sex?" Ahh, that was the calling card to grab Mr L from D and beeline it to the door. As I'm not out to fuck Major Tom who lives on the moon most of the time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I met a guy from RSVP in he Rocks. About ten minutes into our date I begain to feel really unwell and not long after I was in the bathroom throwing up the dodgy chicken I'd had for lunch. When I reappeared my date quickly excused himself and left me in the pub. I took at least another hour before I could stop vomiting for long enough to catch a cab home.   I wonder if he still tells that story...

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' I met a guy from RSVP in he Rocks. About ten minutes into our date I begain to feel really unwell and not long after I was in the bathroom throwing up the dodgy chicken I'd had for lunch. When I reappeared my date quickly excused himself and left me in the pub. I took at least another hour before I could stop vomiting for long enough to catch a cab home.   I wonder if he still tells that story... I hope the guy was not traumatized by this thinking he was the reason you were continually barfing around in his company.. But he should have been a gentleman and hung around to make sure you got home OK. I would have at least.   A. xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    He was covered in tar!!..yep he came straight from work and hadn't even bothered to wash his hands or face or change his clothes...the worst part of the whole sorry story was that a close friend of mine, walked into the cafe and joined the group at the table behind me....she only just managed to contain her mirth....I gulped down my coffee and bolted....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    OMG!!!!!! How did you manage to survive such a traumatic experience??? I would've made him wear his drink!!! *nods*- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Araps' Quoting 'JayJay_66' One in particular .   After being on RHP for about 8 months I joined a regular dating site and went on a date with a man from that site.   Because I had been on a few meet ups already from RHP I got a bit confused and started talking to this guy about kinks and bondage and then proceeded to ask him if he was interested in "playing"   The look of horror on his face!!   I cant understand why I never heard from him again! I can't believe he didn't call again either JJ ! lol. His loss Cheers, W. Yeah I know!! When I realised what I was saying and that this wasn't an RHP meet I decided just to plough on thinking it was probably the best offer he's had for a while and I think I almost had him until I mentioned the hogties I kept in my bag of tricks!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Picture this... a country lad, all of 18 years old, never been on a proper date before and had only moved to Sydney 2 months earlier so still trying to get his bearings.Goes out to Jacksons on George, alone since he has no friends, and sees this gorgeous lass with her friends at the bar.Rose lady comes around so said lad sends a red rose to the lass... just because he can.Lass gives lad phone number and after 2 days lad gets up the courage to call lass to seek a date.Lad picks up lass in taxi after meeting lass's parents and takes lass to dinner and a movie.Lad drops lass of at home after many hours of wining and dining, coffee and talk (note appearing to get on like a house on fire).Lass never talks to lad again and didn't give a hint as to why.Yep... that didn't go according to plan!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JayJay_66' Because I had been on a few meet ups already from RHP I got a bit confused and started talking to this guy about kinks and bondage and then proceeded to ask him if he was interested in "playing"   The look of horror on his face!!   I cant understand why I never heard from him again! A lovely lady tells you her kinks and asks to play... Nope... I just don't get it!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ... BORING .... just sayin' ....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'paintwalkabout' ... BORING .... just sayin' .... Does the type of site affect the date or the people on the site affect the date?Have considered venturing out into the "Mainstream" sites for a look. . .Comments on RHP Dating V Mainstream Dating... anybody? (back to the search engine it is for lil ol me)Um JayJay... Hogties?

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JayJay_66' Quoting 'Araps' Quoting 'JayJay_66' One in particular .   After being on RHP for about 8 months I joined a regular dating site and went on a date with a man from that site.   Because I had been on a few meet ups already from RHP I got a bit confused and started talking to this guy about kinks and bondage and then proceeded to ask him if he was interested in "playing"   The look of horror on his face!!   I cant understand why I never heard from him again! I can't believe he didn't call again either JJ ! lol. His loss Cheers, W. Yeah I know!! When I realised what I was saying and that this wasn't an RHP meet I decided just to plough on thinking it was probably the best offer he's had for a while and I think I almost had him until I mentioned the hogties I kept in my bag of tricks!! PMSL JJ, Don't let one rejection from vanilla dating scare you off as seems like a perfectly good strategy to me. At least once you have him hog tied up he can't run away W.

  • twomagichands4u

    twomagichands4u

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JayJay_66' One in particular .   After being on RHP for about 8 months I joined a regular dating site and went on a date with a man from that site.   Because I had been on a few meet ups already from RHP I got a bit confused and started talking to this guy about kinks and bondage and then proceeded to ask him if he was interested in "playing"   The look of horror on his face!!   I cant understand why I never heard from him again! Happy to continue that discussion in his absence

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Amicus75' Quoting 'paintwalkabout' ... BORING .... just sayin' .... Does the type of site affect the date or the people on the site affect the date? Have considered venturing out into the "Mainstream" sites for a look. . . Comments on RHP Dating V Mainstream Dating... anybody? (back to the search engine it is for lil ol me) Um JayJay... Hogties?Hands and feet bound together.....checkout Wingman's pics

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't see a problem with that, looks like fun... so JayJay, what was the guys issue again??? No Strappy or Bruno offering maybe?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    last Summer, met up with a guy from a vanilla site ( yes, yet another vanilla site story) he appears in jeans and t-shirt, and velcro sandals!!!!! This was a dinner date, not a picnic-and even then id be leaving the sandals behind....and im not talking nice, leather Colarados...im talking cheap-should stay in the backyard-KMart ones....nice enough, so i tried to forget what was on his feet, until we ventured back to my place, and in the dark he started getting comfortable....that velcro peeling sound made me cover my mouth...didnt really speak to him much after that....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Are full of women and men are in demand aren't they? So I think it might be the men who get chased. Sounds like a better place for the men as DG says. Besides you will probably recognize people from RHP there too. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have had a couple of "misleading" photo type of dates. They turned out to be nice enough,I'm not that shallow that I would run on looks alone but I still felt that it was a bit dishonest to have pictures that were defiantly out of date.Kind of like seeing a picture of a big mac on the menu board then when you get one it doesn't look anything like the photo. Okay that's a terrible analogy but I thought it was funny. I also met with a girl and during small talk I told her what I did for a living,turns out her ex husband does the same thing also turns out he's an employee of mine. To close to home for me, the worst thing about it was Monday morning he tells me "I heard you went out with my with my ex wife,she's a really kinky girl you should get together" and proceeds to tell me all about their swinging adventures.Very awkward. My ex had a few horror stories the most awkward I think was her waiting at the rendezvous for her date to arrive,feeling a light tap on her back she turned around and it was her date in a wheelchair. He failed to mention he was a paraplegic.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    to meet him and he was drunk at 11am on a Saturday morning. I went home again.....angry... That's the last time I drove somewhere to meet. From then on I let them come to me.....and it works, I hadn't anybody bad since.

  • WHY_NOT_LOOK

    WHY_NOT_LOOK

    11 years ago

    Ok so I'm so confused now as to dating I swap around on both rhp and vanilla sites and mostly see the same profiles. It's just to hard to figure out who's being honest so easier not trying. Have I been on here to long and now know the bullshit too easy. The. Stories on first dates I have too many crazy stories to list but Gavmac you have heard a few ..- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Are full of women and men are in demand aren't they? So I think it might be the men who get chased. Sounds like a better place for the men as DG says. Besides you will probably recognize people from RHP there too. :p Talk to enough women in those vanilla sites miss M and they'll tell you, guys can be as bad in there, as in here..... granted, often through slightly different methods .... but the reason is the same...... lack of understanding about effective communication. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I posted on the RHP date request... i got a randome reply from a lady , quote "so how about it"?... i reply how about what ?.. how about coming over for a coffee and maybe a whole lote more..! So i check out her profile , in her thirties,blonde ,blue eyes, SEXY.... I asked for her number .and we talk a little. So i decide to go over . I'm dieing for that coffee. Lol.. On the way im imagining,what might happen. How im going to go hard and long.. Shes a stunner.. Any way i get there. House is stunning. Rich to boot ha.. knock on the door.. ;I cant wait, after all bye know im bursting for that coffee.. stiffy and alll... She opens the door. And smiles.. im looking around ,actually passed her.. then i realise its her... OH MY GOD...she doesnt look anything like her profil. Shes about 60 yrs old wrinkley.. body is dead straigh.. sagging everywhere.,and shes off her head Drunk,stinks.. I wanted to be polite so i went in and had mycoffee; i didnt understand most off what she was saying, she stunk off alchole. I told her i needed to go to the car as i had forgotton something in the car.. and when i gotout off there i never returned.. horror experience.. why do people say or pretend there someone else ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I find it shocking when the guy turns up having put in no effort whatsoever into their appearance. I hate nothing more on a first meet than when I turn up in a nice dress, heels, make-up and neat hair and am greeted by someone who looks like they just finished their gym session and didn't even bother to shower. I think some guys don't bother to look in a mirror before leaving the house. I'm not saying turn up in a three piece suit, just at least wear something a bit better than board shorts and an over-sized T shirt with a hole in it. It wouldn't hurt to smell nice either!