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Shooting down "Slut Shamers"
February 07 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
to my mum when my brother and sister-in-law fed her some tidbits of my exploits in Sydney in a spiteful rage. (They were my safety back up and I let them know where I was in case something happened to me). They also made stuff up that wasn't true. God love my mum. She saw straight through their juvenile attack.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Well I do know off this one time at ***** **** and ****. **** **** to shut ******* because of the ***** listening. To me that says enough of ***** ********* I made the mistake of *****. I was not ******* *** only ***. The ****** would sit ******* the having a ***** and ******. This *** would **** about how the ****** heard. I think ***** was proud of the ***** the **** would hear. Talk about being * **** slut!! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I honestly didn't read it as slut shaming, to me it would be like someone getting a note on their car about bad parking - and the internet cheering on a reply claiming it was sexist because the driver was female
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RHP User
11 years ago
I appreciate the sentiments but please leave fb shit where it belongs... On fb. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' I appreciate the sentiments but please leave fb shit where it belongs... On fb. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... So there's nothing in Miss Kay's post that you could have commented on in a positive fashion? Like ... examples of times you've been having sex and discovered the neighbours could hear you? Or examples of times when someone's been offended at hearing you have sex and you've put them in their place? Or even like a simple chuckle at the response from the woman in Chicago? Does it really matter where the story comes from (real life, FB, fiction book or whatever)? And was it really necessary to shout the OP down like that?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well a young stud did say this morning "You sluts think your all that. You must have it easy here" I replied by saying I was disappointed with his response, especially since his profile states he is a "Real man", and told him I hoped he would grow some respect soon. But then I couldn't help adding "p.s. Yeah. We do. Jealous?"
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RHP User
11 years ago
The message was taped to mskay's door then I'd be all enthusiastic about it... But it's just some fb crap... Give me a like for this hero puppy... Swoon swoon... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ohhh wait, the rule only works for some Why, because people are worth it
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RHP User
11 years ago
Like there hasn't been worse topics on here? Nobody forces you to read let alone respond. Grab some big girl panties yourself. Please.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mselle... I don't wear em... I'm just over what I see as mindless reposting of moronic fb crap... Here or fb... If you have an opinion, I'm happy to hear it... If you have an experience, I'm happy to hear it... If you want to repost mindless drivel... Keep it to yourself... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm with Elle. You don't have to read it. Negativity doesn't suit you, I would suggest rethinking the panties.
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RHP User
11 years ago
While housesitting my cousin's place for 2wks, on his return he received a letter from the building saying to keep it quiet as ppl didn't need to hear what he was doing. I can't help that who I was seeing at that time was an absolute screamer. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've had a shitty week 😒 ...who's volunteering panties... 😋 Sorry xo Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Angry and pissy is my persona not yours :p :) Your arse still needs shaving :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You feelin lucky lurk...? 😋 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bahahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
... would want to complain about someone having some fun or orgasm. ? This weird type of guy has his head up his bum... Was away for a dirty weekend with 2 other couples once. The motel we stayed in must of had paper thin walls cause we could quite clearly hear my mate and his GF going for it.. Like most sane minded people, we just laughed and went about enjoying ourselves.. Next morning' the only thing I had to say was, next time you slap her bum , dont do it too hard ' it's already got a crack it.. . got a giggle out of both of them... Leave well enough alone...
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madotara69
11 years ago
I might slip a note under your happy van Hp simply out of concerns. For example, maybe I had been out lying around in some little clearing, scoping with the binoculars, just happen to sweep past some bloke wandering through the scrub, naked and for all the world possibly mistaken for a stag amongst the Hines. Good lord man, you could get shot. Just quietly. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe mado... There could be a spearing... 😈 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Well a young stud did say this morning "You sluts think your all that. You must have it easy here" I replied by saying I was disappointed with his response, especially since his profile states he is a "Real man", and told him I hoped he would grow some respect soon. But then I couldn't help adding "p.s. Yeah. We do. Jealous?" Did he respond? HP - are you feeling better today? Did Lurk come and shave your arse for you? I posted it as I was recently treated to a bit of slut shaming from my neighbour and I was totally unapologetic and told him what I thought of his small minded and misogynistic opinions. I asked him if he would ever say the same thing to a man, or would he slap his back and give him high fives? He looked straight at his feet. Jay Me - Love the slap quip. Dickfulloflove - Hope the letter was delivered in a sealed envelope!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissKay' Quoting 'Meander' But then I couldn't help adding "p.s. Yeah. We do. Jealous?" Did he respond? He did. He said "Not jealous now I see your pics". Then he blocked me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh dear, you did hit a spot there. And I've met you, you are gorgeous!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm improving misskay, thank you for asking 😘 You are all correct, I normally do pass by that fb crud... Failed the other day though... As to the douche that approached you , I think I commented in the thread at the time on his status in the community... But beyond that we do need to consider others, be it driving, listening to music or fucking our brains out... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mes, how on earth will you recover from that devastating blow... Come here I'll give you a hug... 😄 ...and I'm still waiting for lurk and his wax... 😛 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
If someone wishes to ACT in a promiscuous fashion, that's their choice....it's their life. But..... I have no sympathy when/if their realisation of their activities brings about a negative impact upon their life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm just waiting for the kettle to boil :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hugs to HP. Don't worry mate, I wake up on the wrong side of the bad every morning! I generally have a rule, don't speak to me before 10 o'clock! Hope you're back to your old self soon. S_OnTheLoose, if it were slid under the door, it would be a different story in my mind. In reponse to the OP, there's a difference between a slut and an ethical slut (ref to the book). One has ethics, one does not. No need to shame either. Like MissKay has pointed out, guys would be high fiving either if it were a bloke. Is that fair? Not by my standards.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wrong side if the bed, that is...
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RHP User
11 years ago
*of the bed X 2 HP - Absolutely, we should all be mindful and considerate. But consideration for we, the fairer sex (Fuck I want to gouge my own eyes out for saying that) shouldn't include judgment. But it does on a daily basis. It is seriously horrifically common. Do you have daughters? I do. It's seriously fucked up out there! I can laugh it off, I can be funny, BUT the message is still there and people are weaker than me.
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JohnAnn2227
11 years ago
We were on holiday in Vegas and had met a male friend in a club who we invited back to our room. The three of us were having a great time when we were interrupted by banging on the door. It was a woman from the next door room complaining about the noise we were making and as it was 2am we were being unreasonable and blah blah blah. John was trying to be polite but she was having nothing of it. So I walked naked to the door with my new friend (also naked and black and hung) and told her that she was interrupting the fuck of my life and either she come and join in and lose some of her tension or get lost and let us get back to it. She was speechless, sqealed in shock and practically ran back to her room. We didn't hear from her again that night. The next morning the three of us went down for the buffet breakfast and who did we see but our lovely neighbour and her poor husband. I just gave her the biggest smile and said "Gee for some reason I have the biggest appetite this morning". She couldn't even look at us from embarrassment. I feel that you have nothing to be ashamed of if you are happy and in private. Reasonable people recieve reasonable responses.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Misskay... Hypocracy sucks... I have one daughter... Lurk... How's that fucking kettle going ? Unrushed... Cheers man... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I informed a guy ,who was calling a woman a slut at the Casino,that ,if you think a woman is a slut for rejecting a man's advances,your mum would not have been a slut if she rejected your dad.She would have been doing a service to the community by saving our society from you! I think he wanted to hit me ... but then i gave him CrAzY EyE
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' The message was taped to mskay's door then I'd be all enthusiastic about it... But it's just some fb crap... Give me a like for this hero puppy... Swoon swoon... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... You should always try it yourself,before feeding it to others
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' If someone wishes to ACT in a promiscuous fashion, that's their choice....it's their life. But..... I have no sympathy when/if their realisation of their activities brings about a negative impact upon their life. - Posted from rhpmobile I'm going to guess you are baiting me here and I refuse to bite in this instance. But if that is serious bait, man..... I hope you are Tuna!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kizza1973' I informed a guy ,who was calling a woman a slut at the Casino,that ,if you think a woman is a slut for rejecting a man's advances,your mum would not have been a slut if she rejected your dad.She would have been doing a service to the community by saving our society from you! I think he wanted to hit me ... but then i gave him CrAzY EyE Vote for the Union xxx But seriously, it's a basic head space that is wrong, accepted and unchallenged. PLEASE prove me wrong, I beg you. I crawl on my bloodied knees begging you to prove me wrong in this instance.
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RHP User
11 years ago
we all love your eyes Kizz xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Nudierudie2' Quoting 'Highpriority'Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... Advice is like cooking You should always try it yourself,before feeding it to others Advice is like cum. You should always try it yourself before expecting others to swallow it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
You rule!
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madotara69
11 years ago
Kizza, sort of goes with the(intimidation look) Righto, Hp maybe just feels there is a bit of swarvey and style and intended compliment, all the things for being the ethical gentleman slut, rare but certainly a disciplined art, not so selfish or in any way manipulative, it takes honesty and all care considered, it takes character. Something HP has shown throughout the whole time in RHP, Asking HP to consider an example for what it means to the entirety of the meanings to be an honourable "Ethical slut" may just feel quite degrading from such a site being uneducated and so vanilla to set a standard worthy to give his hard earned learning's. Fb aint RHP, and HP is a fine example to the Ethical slut. Never hurt a flea, but a growling tiger, tigress to purr for his attentions. Maybe Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ohh you lot know how to sweet talk a guy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've been replying Rhp messages on my phone on the train (holding it close to me, not on display) and had an old lady next to me try to read what I was writing... That's when I get the iPad out and google "big black chick" in image search... They stop looking then ;) Have however been abused by a woman for kissing another woman in public, she called me an uneducated whore.. I just kept walking but she followed me, Think she was surprised when I could explain the law to her, the bible, and flashed her a cheeky nip!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JohnAnn2227' We were on holiday in Vegas and had met a male friend in a club who we invited back to our room. The three of us were having a great time when we were interrupted by banging on the door. It was a woman from the next door room complaining about the noise we were making and as it was 2am we were being unreasonable and blah blah blah. John was trying to be polite but she was having nothing of it. So I walked naked to the door with my new friend (also naked and black and hung) and told her that she was interrupting the fuck of my life and either she come and join in and lose some of her tension or get lost and let us get back to it. She was speechless, sqealed in shock and practically ran back to her room. We didn't hear from her again that night. The next morning the three of us went down for the buffet breakfast and who did we see but our lovely neighbour and her poor husband. I just gave her the biggest smile and said "Gee for some reason I have the biggest appetite this morning". She couldn't even look at us from embarrassment. I feel that you have nothing to be ashamed of if you are happy and in private. Reasonable people recieve reasonable responses. Love your work on all counts on that one. Great response.........wished I could have seen her face on the night and at breakfast the next morning
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Slut shaming"...............what's the bet this becomes the new buzz word for the next few months. I just hope "YOLO" knows about this ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
i was once told.that a slut is a chick when has sex with one bloke then fails to was wash before having sex with another guy. or a woman who is a lazy house keeper. So the phrase dosent phase me in the slightest as an insult. just saying. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sweetnsingle13' I've been replying Rhp messages on my phone on the train (holding it close to me, not on display) and had an old lady next to me try to read what I was writing... That's when I get the iPad out and google "big black chick" in image search... They stop looking then ;) Have however been abused by a woman for kissing another woman in public, she called me an uneducated whore.. I just kept walking but she followed me, Think she was surprised when I could explain the law to her, the bible, and flashed her a cheeky nip! That's hilarious Sweet, similar thing happened to me, the lady said I was disgusting... Beats the hell out of being boring I replied ;) hehehe I work in the mining industry so on the bus ride to work I have to keep it low and make sure there's no reflections off the windows.. can't give my workmates any more ammunition for piss taking lol! That's my two bobs worth anyways... G xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
You're proud to be a lazy housekeeper ? 😄 Thanks for the hug mado, I've been on the road since Monday and with a dodgy back 😠 I just caught LDs post in anything /everything and read yours above... Feeling a bit teary at the moment, thank you... Xoxo Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'DARKSIDE76' "Slut shaming"...............what's the bet this becomes the new buzz word for the next few months. I just hope "YOLO" knows about this ? haha, I guess you don't ever run across too many of the feminist-type blogs/sites "insert term here"-shaming has been the suffix-du-jour for quite a while (see Jezebelle, Daily Life, Feministing, etc) e.g. the media might be fat shaming, but if they're using "real women" and the writer is thin, then its all "body shaming"
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RHP User
11 years ago
when you live in units or paper thin apartments.. I just laugh at boring neighbours who think our sex is too loud. and then we have to put up with their DOGS, Harleys, rap crap and yelling bogans...hahah Bring on loud sex please...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose'Quoting 'DARKSIDE76' "Slut shaming"...............what's the bet this becomes the new buzz word for the next few months. I just hope "YOLO" knows about this ? haha, I guess you don't ever run across too many of the feminist-type blogs/sites "insert term here"-shaming has been the suffix-du-jour for quite a while (see Jezebelle, Daily Life, Feministing, etc) e.g. the media might be fat shaming, but if they're using "real women" and the writer is thin, then its all "body shamin Well if this behaviour is present on the sites you mention, then it just further justifies why I don't go on those types of sites to begin with. But what I just said probably classes as "site shaming" ? Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'DARKSIDE76' "Slut shaming"...............what's the bet this becomes the new buzz word for the next few months. I just hope "YOLO" knows about this ? haha, I guess you don't ever run across too many of the feminist-type blogs/sites "insert term here"-shaming has been the suffix-du-jour for quite a while (see Jezebelle, Daily Life, Feministing, etc) e.g. the media might be fat shaming, but if they're using "real women" and the writer is thin, then its all "body shaming" Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'DARKSIDE76' "Slut shaming"...............what's the bet this becomes the new buzz word for the next few months. I just hope "YOLO" knows about this ? haha, I guess you don't ever run across too many of the feminist-type blogs/sites "insert term here"-shaming has been the suffix-du-jour for quite a while (see Jezebelle, Daily Life, Feministing, etc) e.g. the media might be fat shaming, but if they're using "real women" and the writer is thin, then its all "body shaming"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't worry, as a white male you'll likely never have to deal with anyone judging or shaming you based on your sexual activities...or basically blaming you for your own sexual assualt / rape...or any of the other wonderful things that many women and minority groups have to deal with, so you can just ignore all that feminist crap!! Aren't you lucky?!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'DARKSIDE76' Well if this behaviour is present on the sites you mention, then it just further justifies why I don't go on those types of sites to begin with. Not present. Discussed (and condemned where appropriate). And what Luckdragon said.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Don't worry, as a white male you'll likely never have to deal with anyone judging or shaming you based on your sexual activities...or basically blaming you for your own sexual assualt / rape...or any of the other wonderful things that many women and minority groups have to deal with, so you can just ignore all that feminist crap!! Aren't you lucky?!! white male shaming ;) I think in this argument, and forum, it could reasonably be argued that you're the one arguing from a position of privilege here not the white male. Personally, I disagree with the overuse of many of the catch-cries thrown around, not necessarily the concepts behind them. Meander: did you mean that the overuse isn't present the blogs I mentioned?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Meander: did you mean that the overuse isn't present the blogs I mentioned? Darkside said that this behaviour was present on these sites. I'm really only familiar with Jezebel and don't think they engage in shaming (with the possible exception of douche-shaming). But yes, even Jezebel agreed that the term slut-shaming is completely overused, and I would say that includes by them. (Interesting article: "Slut-shaming has been tossed around so much, it's lost all meaning", 12/12/2013.)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Actually, my last post should have said 'white heterosexual male'.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have to agree with > S_Ontheloose.......I didn't read it as slut shaming either, rather a noise complaint, same as if she had've had her music turned up too loud, however, they did mention that they would rather hear her loud music than her moans of ecstasy! It sure does sound like this person may be old or just one of those lonely old hermits who rarely gets out and socialises, and probably has forgotten what an orgasm feels like. I wouldn't be surprised if she/he pays that store a little visit to buy themselves some pleasure. I remember one unit I'd lived in many years ago, my neighbours were from Switzerland on holiday. Every night I'd lie awake hearing them going at it for over an hour. She'd moan the whole time and occasionally you'd hear him moan. I'd lie there listening to her moans getting louder and louder, sometimes she'd loudly squeal at the height of her orgasm, then it would go all quiet, until the next night. Let's just say I was sad to see them go.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
If it were merely a noise complaint they would have knocked on the door or slipped a note under the door. Not stuck it on the door for all to see. It is an obviously aggressive action attacking her personally. Well said Lucky. And sure, the term may well be overused, it doesn't mean the behaviour doesn't exist which saddens me greatly.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissKay' If it were merely a noise complaint they would have knocked on the door or slipped a note under the door. Not stuck it on the door for all to see. It is an obviously aggressive action attacking her personally. Well said Lucky. And sure, the term may well be overused, it doesn't mean the behaviour doesn't exist which saddens me greatly. maybe they didn't feel safe doing so, or didn't want a direct confrontation, or any number of reasons that aren't known. The assumption is entirely reliant on the fact that the person was trying to make the person be ashamed for having sex, but from the notice the only definite thing is that it relates to the noise. EVen if it were an aggressive attack on the person, you cannot state categorically that it is for anything other than the amount of noise generated - as if people don't leave notes on doors and get very aggressive about noise complaints. This isn't necessarily a feminist issue, but whipping it up as a feminist story gets longer lasting attention and page clicks (but i'll at least admit that I'm just 'supposing' without solid evidence)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nah, sticking an aggressive note like that on somebody's door is pretty confronting to say the least whether it be only for the noise. It only relates to the noise? Really? Um, do you want to read it again? I only posted it hoping to hear of some other great shoot downs, sadly none have been forthcoming....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Very few have been shared.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissKay'Very few have been shared. That's a good thing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Very true. Love your glass half full attitude.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Am actually a good housekeeper hp. But being called a slut has never worried me cause I know I am neither a bad housekeeper nor do I not wash after sex. So the words wasted on me. Lmao - Posted from rhpmobile
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
I really cant stand people who complain about shit like that ..seriously all the shit that goes on in the world and they still feel the need to complain about someone having sex lol We had a Japanese couple in our block of units opposite and facing our bedroom and balcony window.This sexy young couple use to have sex with the light on and blinds open on purpose I suspect..We thought it was awesome! it was a good show..Next door to us a low class (always drunk and aggressive) young neighbors didn't seem to like the show, they complained to the body corp and had the Japanese couple thrown out..In the meantime this couple that felt the need to complain partied every fri and sat night with music and noise blaring till 4 am ..Ofcourse that was ok as long as there was no sex involved right? Assholes !!
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