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Should I be invisible?
May 20 2012
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
Depends on your ulterior motives I suppose :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Am I luring unsuspecting, innocent, manipulable males to their message doom, all unwittingly? Am I enticing poor, susceptible guys into wasting their messages on me?!?!?I would Say No....and No.....Let me elaborateThey are not all that innocentThey are Man-ipulated by choice( other wise it would be called being Womaninpulated even if it is hard to pronounce)We are all doomed its not just Males.Are You enticing? of course you are poor, susceptible guys wasting their messages on you .... they are not poor they are paid up members they have plenty of other messages to waste too
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RHP User
13 years ago
I looked at your profile and I'm of the opinion that any guy who messages you in the hope of some romantic or sexual encounter could do with a kick in the nuts. You couldn't be more polite or to the point and it would be a shame if nobody could perv on your profile.
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captainkaos
13 years ago
If they can't or wont read your profile it is their bad luck............... Although,,,,,, What are you doing tonight Vagabonde? Wanna fuck? lol. Only joking.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You can lead a man to a profile, but you can't make him read !I personally like to think that 'these' types have to go through you before they are let out on the more maleable ladies of RHP...it's a comforting thought
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are a couple and we can relate! No matter what you put in your profile it seems you will have some men annoying you that either cannot read, or can read but choose to completely ignore your words and try their luck anyway.Must be a male thing! After all if they send out 100 messages and get back one yes it was worth their while! Personally we just completely ignore all messages and winks from them and never reply! We used to reply once out of courtesy, but that became tedious, after all how courteous is it to message people that are not looking for you? Leave your profile visible, that we we can all still see the really nice pictures! Oh and yes they are pretty enticing! Just ignore the tryhards!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Makes little difference to me, and your Forum buddies know who you are, so why not. Unless your secretly hoping your prince/ss charming is going to ride into town upon their gallant laptop and sweep you off your keyboard.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
You could join the grey army Vagabonde, just put all your photos in your private gallery,and then you choose who gets a peek at your deliciousness. However ,I doubt it would make much difference to the numbers of men, heading like lemmngs to their message doom. You could post a warning, MESSAGE ME AT YOUR PERIL,or something similar. xHugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
I put myself on invisible after I got tired of all the 'hey sxc wanna fuck' messages followed by a 'well ur a stuck up bitch' reply when I wearily sent them an email saying they weren't my type.... And then after a few weeks of an utterly empty inbox I kinda got bored (forums were slow too), so now I'm back on haha.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is a joke...right? You just want those poor unsuspecting men to actually go look at your profile, probably read it and that is why you put this up isnt it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Rotflmao. Great answers :D I really didn't know what to expect, but I have to say that the response has been alot more positive and amusing than I could have hoped :D *curtsies* I do appreciate the compliments, I feel all warm and fuzzy, although i wasn't phishing for them, they have made me smile hard enough to make my cheeks hurt (something I really needed ATM, thanks guys). Profile will stay visible; pics need a rotation after that ! and my faith in humanity is somewhat better off than it was yesterday. And felonious, dear, the reason my profile is in its current arrangement, is my prince went and pilfered my poor unsuspecting heart whilst I wasn't looking, thus taking my body of the RHP mart.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Though given we all know what can happen when we make them. Did the cad break your heart?If so a song dedication for you.Slipknot's Dead Memories.Hang in there VagaFelonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
No no no, bugger still has and holds my heart :) main reason I'm still around is the forum addiction I got whilst single. The sadness is not relationship related at all. I love him, he loves me, it's all very nauseating and sweet :) I started this thread after logging in to another couple of "hey wanna fuk" messages (that's a no, kaos, lol) and wondering after reading another thread (I forget which) a comment along the lines of "if you're not looking then make it do you can't be seen *paraphrase* and stop wasting ppls time". I was all, whoops, that's me. So... decided to ask the masses :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Grrr :/
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RHP User
13 years ago
All good then! This is one of those times when i'm really pleased to have the bull by the tail.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
By invisible I assume you mean, under more account options, you'd be unticking the "I want my profile visible for others to find" box.If so I was about to strongly say YES. You can still message in the forums but people looking for dates or sex won't find your profile in their searches.However after viewing your profile I have changed my mind. You're sexy, charming and look so good in that corset that even I wanted to message you asking if you two would consider swinging... if you didn't live too far away :PSo no, stay visible.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have chosen to set mine to invisible at least that way I avoid annoying messages and can send out messages to members that appeal to me.
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
It's bad enough you moved to the wrong side of the county!*sulk*MS
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RHP User
13 years ago
If your not interested and just want to chat on forums without the idiots that cant read then that's fair enough, it would be nice if that stuff didn't happen and you didn't have to do things like that, kinda sucks.Also I wonder how many guys who send "hey wanna fuk" messages actually get laid lolEndor
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RHP User
13 years ago
The Invisible woman..... now imagine the Fun you could have
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Hey Hotti..." SORRY! Your carisma level... too high!!! User preferences... turn it down "... wanna..." trying to resist... "...WANNA..." *BANG
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RHP User
13 years ago
And MS, I'll be in town for a week next month, we should do... you know... coffee :)
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
I might actually have some free time by then!MS Quoting 'Vagabonde' And MS, I'll be in town for a week next month, we should do... you know... coffee :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think there's anything unethical in what you're doing Vagabonde. Men who can't/won't read and who send template messages aren't expecting much more than striking out completely. And rightly so.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you can be the Invisible Woman, can I be Batman?Mr C
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RHP User
13 years ago
MS; I'll SMS you details when I have exact dates :) and mr c, you can be batman on the condition that I get to help your lady into a catwoman outfit ;D reoooooowr! (damnit, now all I can think is just how much trouble I'd get myself into if I could turn invisible... assuming they could catch me, of course ;) hehe)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I switch it around, sometimes I stay invisible when I know I am not going to be interested much in replying to messages. 've just made myself visible again because I'm coming up to some holiday time, and it's nice to have someone to play with when you don'tneed to worry about rocking up to work with handprints on your face (for example).You, however, should say visible so we can all perve at you in corsetry. :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
I should leave it visible cos you're all a bunch of dirty perves, take more corset pics, and generally just continue as I am :P *shrug* kthnx :) nice to know.
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