M34 F31

Show stopper

May 21 2014

So I'm a young female in a relationship with an amazing man but my nerves and my self conscience ways are getting the better of me. I really like the idea of putting on something incredibly sexy and putting on a show with a little music and some dancing for something different but the getting dressed part is fine but when it comes to standing there in front of him I lose all my nerves and out the window goes the amazing show I had planned. I'm on here telling you my life story as I want to get over my fears and thought some lovely ladies out there may have some ideas on how to either overcome or get around these issues. Thanks caite xx

Comments

Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

Consider it 'role play'..... fun... pretending to be a character. The way you vision yourself will not be how he visions your performance. ;-) He's with you now, so he accepts you now.... Just flow with the go and have a try. If it doesn't work, laugh. Just 'act' out the part.

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

I am very much the same. I love getting dressed up for him but if he asks me to do a stripdance, I wouldn't be able to. I'd rather he remove my clothes off me with his teeth ;) As for role playing, I'm just not a good actor but have done it several times and held back a few giggles which would have ruined the moment. And like DG said, laugh about it together if it doesn't work. I think as long as you're in tune with each other, it doesn't matter how you present yourself, he'll still love being with you. It's all about having fun and enjoying each other's company :) - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

But I'll add.... Your partner WANTS to see you no matter what you think of you; how you look; or what you say.... You can't lose :) - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

Maybe you should just try to build on your confidence rather than jumping in. Slowly go from dressing up, to small role playing encounters, then maybe a lapdance fully clothed while he is watching the idiot box up to a strip tease with lingerie and whole kit and caboodle.

reply

like
gazpacho

11 years ago

Ask him to do a show for you at the same time. Go on. It will be fun. Hugs Gaz - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

Do some subtle stuff first.In he kitchen , no knickers on or the apron only thing. he comes home your naked , just a little apron on and he says wTF you batt your eyes and say what you don't like muffins?

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

You get dressed/undressed everyday, why not practice taking your clothes off slowly and sexy when your on your own in front of the mirror before a shower? My tips are try to keep good posture and eye contact, peep over your shoulder when facing away from them. Google it, wiki has some good tips. Good luck I'm sure you will drive him crazy no matter how they come off. - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

It sounds like this relationship is a new one? Are you comfortable doing the 'show' when you're alone? If you can, how about video recording yourself dancing and playing it back to yourself. Keep doing that until you feel comfortable enough and maybe let him watch it with you then eventually move on to giving him a live show :) Hmmm I think I should practise what I preach as I still can't watch or listen to myself on video lol - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
Violetincredible

11 years ago

But I find it easier to do it for strangers first to gain your confidence in front of people whose opinions don't mean so much to you. I can do a show easily for strangers but struggle if the person I'm doing it for is special or knows me too well .... Xxviolet

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

From a guys point of view... If he's into you, he'll absolutely LOVE the show no matter how nervous or awkward or any performance anxiety you may feel. Watching a girl take off her clothes just for you is one of the biggest turn-ons I could ever get.

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'LadyTuscan' Do some subtle stuff first.In he kitchen , no knickers on or the apron only thing. he comes home your naked , just a little apron on and he says wTF you batt your eyes and say what you don't like muffins? Hell yeah - they are just awesome things to come home to!

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'Violetincredible' But I find it easier to do it for strangers first to gain your confidence in front of people whose opinions don't mean so much to you. I can do a show easily for strangers but struggle if the person I'm doing it for is special or knows me too well .... Xxviolet Well howdy stranger...

reply

like
BS_KS

11 years ago

Easy... K x - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

If any of you ladies need a very "independant" quality assessment on your technique........ Yep....call me..... :p Don't look at me with that tone of glare!!! Someone had to, and the others were too scared ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
Djd_2014

10 years ago

Picture him naked..... :| xx

reply

like

Show stopper

Comments

Tags

Boards

Forum help