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Showing affection in a "fuck buddy "relation ship
March 09 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
If they are married and forgot to tell ya. Also if someone you know sees you with a guy being affectionate, they do not know about rhp and they say ooh my god are you going to marry that hot guy I saw you with up the street? Where did you meet him? what does he do for a living? then all hell can break loose. You are doing it right, if a woman wants that and I am sure most will. Besides what if I have more than one fuckbudy? who is affectionate? Sure the conversations about me around the place would be rather ihteresting. When they leave my studio I have to be careful not to give a nice hot sexy kiss on the lips as my landlord is right next door. I prefer my kissn and cuddling indoors and not in public. Tactile men are rather yummy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Any physical contact, if unwelcome, is wrong.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe not as much with kissing (sometimes but not often) but definitely very touchy feely with my friends, including the ones I'm fucking. Cuddles are good :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
In my opinion, nope, not doing anything wrong....should be more of it! . Feel the lurve people, even if it's only for a short while
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe your FB is becoming a Buddy and this is a natural progression of this arrangement you find yourselves in. . Any realm can deepen in many ways, even shallow realms, especially shallow realms.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Everyone is different. Personally, even if I don't consider someone relationship material, I have to actually like them to sleep with them. And if I like someone then I show affection and expect the same in return. The out in public bit is an interesting one.....I don't spend a lot of time in public with my fwbs :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
If she doesn't seem comfortable with it, it might be that she's worried you want more so you can clarify that you don't, but that you just like showing affection.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Everyone is different. Personally, even if I don't consider someone relationship material, I have to actually like them to sleep with them. And if I like someone then I show affection and expect the same in return. The out in public bit is an interesting one.....I don't spend a lot of time in public with my fwbs :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Agrees with Morticiaaa, that there is nothing wrong if it feels good ......but if one partner is looking for more out of the situation than the other it will become an issue....so you might have to ask yourself honestly "am I sending mixed signals"just saying Vix
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hungryandhorny
13 years ago
hi , definately not doing wrong thing i like to show public affection also
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't get me wrong - I luv holding hands , kisses n cuddles But women can be emotional beings and interpret your signs of affection ie hand holding as something more that just a nsa/fwb...
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
what're you doing out in public anyway? You'll get arrested!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think the holding of hands and kissing in public is dependant on both the woman and man and their situation at the time. Miss Sarah worded it beautifully as did VixnJay. My understanding of being FB and having a NSA is a lot different to a relationship where both are committed to one and other. Women tend to see it differently to men.. Affectionate may be how u r Born_To_Be_Wild. BUT in a FBs world.... That is just what they are... a FuckBuddy. Well thats how I see it anyway. So born are you sure u are talking about a FB or NSA instead of a person you care about and spend time together not always just having sex!!! ie... a relationship etc etcxxTRIPSxx
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Clearskyahead
13 years ago
This phrase alone seems it all up. I have been in a very successful open-relationship for a number of years now and I have found that out of respect for my partner, I would refrain from being physically affectionate IN PUBLIC with any FB I may be involved with or may have been involved with in the past. Does it preclude me from being affectionate IN PRIVATE? Absolutely not! I do care for my FB in an intimate way that includes a show of affection, respect and care when IN PRIVATE. I have found that what remains of paramount importance is the initial outlining of each individuals' situation. If one is clear about it, then SIMPLICITY remains the order of the day. Instead of unwanted complications, misinterpretations and the likes.Be clear, about what is OK, and what is not. The rest, wlll be a walk in the park! Enjoy your FB. Respect their needs for discretion. Above all Be Honest and able to communicate openly.
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RHP User
13 years ago
so many valid points here & I agree thatit all depends on the person & the relationship coz regardless of wether they are a fuck buddy or its your wife some people like pda's & some people don't. Personally I don't want to be with anyone that I can't show affection towards & I don't mean having a pash in a bar but you have to work out what each others boundaries are, what both your expectations are then lastly see if your are suited to each other coz if you like to show this type of affections whilst out & your partner doesn't then you are barking up the wrong tree. Love makes the world go round... for me if you don't want to be affectionate no matter who is around or where we are then you know where the door is..
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RHP User
13 years ago
FWB are people who I feel comfortable and enjoy mutual intimate pleasures with. If I feel comfortable going out in public with a FWB then I feel comfortable holding their hand too. If it is a no public appearance arrangement then it stops at the door but there is usually kiss good bye until the next time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
LOL partygirl we could be brothers huh pmsl
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RHP User
13 years ago
God i love fake profiles partygal.... Amazing what some people get up to isnt it. ;)
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