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Siblings joining the dating game - no RHP for you!

March 14 2015

My sister just ended a 5 year relationship 5 months ago, We were recently chatting about her getting back on the online "horse". The first thing she asked me was what sites I was on. Understandably, she has now got RHP as a site she will avoid. I think that is great as we live locally and I could easily see how that could get awkward quickly. We don't live in a capital city so the fish pond is quite small. Anyone else had to worry about a smaller drag net? I recall 7 years ago she was dating gents on a site (when I was still married) but was dating the same guys as mates of mine who were also single. It's a small world after all! Any of you regional brethren suffer this, siblings or mates? Any funny stories about 'cross contamination'?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That was years ago before they knew we'd joined. It was years before they understood why their profile just 'disappeared'. *cough*

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Even in a large city, the 6-degrees of separation principle seems to pop up. Ive seen and found out a few close connections, and managed to keep them all rather disconnected

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When people first join they are guests...it doesn't mean they are passive...and even when they have been here for a while for various reasons they remain guests...I only joined as a member in January as I wanted to be able to message whomever I liked...I am not overwhelmed by messages unlike some women so I know consider flirts and will often message back...it's interesting to me how we make assumptions about people based on their membership status,their inability to construct a miniature version of 50 Shades,their profile pics or lack of...the one strike and you re out rule and btw,I am guilty of this myself xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sorry OP I posted on the wrong thread....to answer your question..My friends here have a different selection criteria so even though we live in a smallish town we are not meeting or contacting the same people...and yes women do talk to each other about who they meet xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We were chatting to a couple at shed 16 out in the smokers area when here sister and bro in law walked in! Neither knew the other was into swinging, made for a hilarious night Not to mention "that" discussion about bumping into people we know - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was checked out by her son! Lucky her prifike pick did not give it away. She blocked him and gave me and a few other women the heads up. A young guy if here who us a friend if my husbands did the same thing. I blocked him. My sister sometimes thinks about joining but I think this site is nit for her. I know people think relationships can be found here. But I don't think that. I just do not want my sister to end up target practice for horney cocks. That's my job 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    just called while I was out with fellow RHPer's in Brisbane asking what the site was called to join up her ex, I was so annoyed because I don't think he would survive on here and I felt like he was going to encroach on my territory, lol. He is the last person I would want to see with my boobs hanging out and I really don't want to be paranoid about it. Realistically though, anyone I know could potentially be on here so it may have been a bit of an overreaction.