Sick of time wasters? First...dont be one

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Honestly I find that people in general are just selfish and many are not too bright. There are some things that you can be assured of on a site like this.1) Many profiles will be fake and the single male couple seems to be the most prolific.2) Lots of people are just dipping a toe in the water and are unlikely to follow up by meeting3) Many female profiles are just here for the self esteem kick and won't meet4) A proportion of people will just be mental cases just like real life5) Some people are just trolls who like to piss others offHaving you time wasted, being lied to, sent 10yo pics, no shows and asswipe people are just some of the pitfalls we have to expect and be prepared for on a site like this but having said that, one you develop an effective bullshit filter you can meet the people who will help you have the time of your life.Just don't let the morons in life spoil your party.

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  Hanna_ybbn

  13 years ago

  Nicely put DRSHanna xx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  from exile Charlie! Cheers Felonius

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  What Dirtyroughsex said about sums it up. Particularly the bullshit filter. It doesn't take long before you can spot a fake or time wasting toe dipping, attention seeking, ping pong messaging MSN chatting, picture swapping fake a mile away. You soon learn tactics to cut to the chaise for us its a process of communicating that weeds them out way before you get to the stage of wasting our time.If you stick to your guns on how you go about things sure you might come across rude or demanding on how you go about things to the odd genuine person or couple. In the end its a small sacrifice to make and you come out on top having weeded out the 1000's of time wasters.Roughly how we go about it things on receiving a message.1. Echange PG's before further contact.2. PG or public gallery must contain a clear pic of M & F overall body and face of both M & F or no more contact3.If interested we express our attraction and establish if there is a attraction to us before further contact.4.If there is a mutual attraction we Ask if they would like to meet us in Person. If no then no then more contact.4. If its a green light for the above 4 steps from both couples then we give out our mobile number(special number we use just for RHP) and ask them to call - text. if they would like to meet and and we can make a time and place. If they don't like that then no more contactIf they agree and we don't get a call/text then we don't bother with the people anymore its that simple. If we get sent more messages on RHP from them we just message back you have our number. For us its about meeting real people in person and if they dont have it in them to call us then I'm sure things are not going to go to well when it comes to the idea of actually meeting us in person or god forbid actually playing with us.Works well for us.Tim Quoting 'Dirtyroughsex' Honestly I find that people in general are just selfish and many are not too bright. There are some things that you can be assured of on a site like this.1) Many profiles will be fake and the single male couple seems to be the most prolific.2) Lots of people are just dipping a toe in the water and are unlikely to follow up by meeting3) Many female profiles are just here for the self esteem kick and won't meet4) A proportion of people will just be mental cases just like real life5) Some people are just trolls who like to piss others offHaving you time wasted, being lied to, sent 10yo pics, no shows and asswipe people are just some of the pitfalls we have to expect and be prepared for on a site like this but having said that, one you develop an effective bullshit filter you can meet the people who will help you have the time of your life.Just don't let the morons in life spoil your party.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Profile photos are just window dressings.When we're looking for people, we read the profiles & stats and then go for the face pic swap.We get the phone call happening between the women after a couple of messages.There have been times where it has taken a couple of months to meet up, hey we all have things happening and we're in no rush; when you're talking to real people over the phone it doesn't matter.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  ....I've just realised I've become a time waster! . Still, thats another one ticked off the bucket list

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I cant see whay they waste their time..i guess it is their cheap thrill..but if they dont have a pic or the pic looks dodgy then , i move on..

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I sometimes wonder what attracts these people to the site, especially when some of the 'time wasters' have actually paid to be a member.Courtesy seems to disappear when they come on the site. if I send an email to someone they only have to type out a few words back if they are not interested, something like, thanks but not interested. As you state, its not limited, its males, females and couples.Having said this, there are some good fun people on the site, some I have met and become just friends with and that's cool.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Morticiaaa' ....I've just realised I've become a time waster! . Still, thats another one ticked off the bucket list I thought i would have no company at all...Enjoyed your profile Morticiaaa

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  To add Yep plenty of time wasters ,fakes and liars in here ...But most of us know who they are and you’ll spot them easy enough I know a lot of the women on here know how to spot a creepy ass , liar, time waster /fake and you will too. Hang in there as they tend to disappear after awhile and they often return but a name change only takes then so far before they are found out again. Makes you wonder why they bother !

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We both agree with most of what you are all saying (been there). Why don't we lobby RHP to add a star system for sellers just like Ebay do for reliable sellers. That is how we have all interacted with them and then have the option to give them a Genuine Rating (maybe 1/10stars. NOT performance based). This would appear on there profile then would and make them more accountable for there actions as well as showing all us just how genuine they are from the pepole that they have interacted with them. What do all of you think about that because it clear that we are all sick of it?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  ...simple really....   Kisses Focus

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