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Sign helping to spot people in the scene

August 18 2017

We were wondering whether there is any "secret sign" which could help to find other people in the "scene"? E.g. some sort of bracelet or a mark? It would be great when going to a normal club to have a way of spotting people that might be sharing similar interests. If there is none, maybe we could try introducing one? Ideally it would have to be something simple, not too visible for an "untrained eye", but easy to spot for someone looking for it. E.g. 2 black and 1 red dot arranged in a triangle on the back of your hand. Easy to make with a pen or marker and should be easy to spot and distinctive. What do you think?

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RHP User

7 years ago

I like the idea of starting up a new secret sign - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I have a huge spot light in my back yard with a giant S for swinger painted on it. Whenever I'm horny I just switch it on and project it into the sky :)

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

There have been quite a few on this subject , the most recent just a few weeks ago - swingers jewellery - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I agree, that would be great if there was. - Posted from rhpmobile

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MsJonesy

7 years ago

But I don't think it would stay a secret for too long. Word would get out (there is always some dude who can't keep his mouth shut because of idiocy or sheer excitement), the muggles would be scandalized, and some random dude on facebook would make up a new name for swingers (hmm....can't be fleek, bae, splogs 🤔) and 1000 new memes would be launched. Hang on a moment! All of that may legitimise and normalise swinging.... lets do it right now!! 😂

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RHP User

7 years ago

Would be a great idea to have a personal mark or even bumper sticker, but.. as Ms jonesy pointed out, it wouldnt be secret long.. - Posted from rhpmobile

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WineAndDine

7 years ago

Maybe it does not have to be really a secret? What would happen if it came out? Muggles would forget quickly. We could promote is as having a slightly more open relationship and willing to meet new people - not straight away calling it a "swingers sign". Swingers jewellery could be good, but then it has to be purchased which adds an extra complexity as you have to find it, order it, and maybe have something different for male and females etc. Hence the dots - easy to make, cost is just buying a pen. And could be placed anywhere - on the hand, arm, neck, back, ankle etc. It could be started just by "wearing" it to swingers clubs, play parties, naughty dates and then it could spread...

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RHP User

7 years ago

Why not a tag/key ring that we could attach to our handbag/keys/phone holder. - Posted from rhpmobile

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WineAndDine

7 years ago

Black ring sounds interesting, although there are a couple of problems with it as e.g. black wedding bands are popular and it requires extra effort as you need to adjust to the proper size. It couldn't be a tag or key ring as the purpose is to make it visible to others while in the club or pub or partying. So ideally it should be something that can be seen on someone while that person is dancing or holding a glass. Hence, we were thinking about something that you can do yourself - using a pen or marker - as it would be much more achievable. You wouldn't also wear it to work or any "normal" social interactions, so the secrecy of the meaning wouldn't be a must. ag/key ring that we could attach to our handbag/keys/phone holder.

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MsSexyDeviants

7 years ago

II usually just tell people though... If the are interested they'll soon let me know hahaha 😁

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MandingOmega

7 years ago

The only one that stands out and has recognition universally is the QoS (Queen of Spades) tattoos and paraphernalia..... - Posted from rhpmobile

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The_Antichrist

7 years ago

Way I see it is black and white.... Birds of feathers usually flock together..... Therefore if you're hanging out at swingers clubs and the like, chances are so are others.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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WineAndDine

7 years ago

In some European cultures the band is worn on the right and we have here people from lots of countries. Of course it would be better to buy a ring that fits - but not sure how easy would be to find one and in that case it would have to be adjusted. Anyway, maybe it could work - how do we spread a word about it? Ideally they would be advertised on play and naughty parties with a possibility to buy one or get for free if not too expensive. Antichrist - the aim is to find people in normal clubs. No need to tell everyone you are a swinger if you are at a swingers party:) Yes, QoS is recognised, but it is too specific for our needs:) - Posted from rhpmobile

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The_Antichrist

7 years ago

Then just tell em....you're not going to be advertising g it, you'll be talking away like champions else would there be any interest?? I'd hazard a guess at no... So all going well and you've got the interested vibe you'd feel comfortable enough to invite them back to yours or theirs or whatever right?? So... Why would you need some kind of code?? I do t see the logic if all else is on track....cos even a advertising sign ain't going to guarantee a connection right?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

You can buy Black rings made of Silicone.. no sharp edges! lol

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WineAndDine

7 years ago

Silicone rings - interesting. Just checked on ebay and can be bought for lest than 5 aud. Maybe it is worth a shot? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

We ordered a few to try 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile

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WineAndDine

7 years ago

Great, us too! We have added a section in our profile with the aim to promote the rings. Have a look and maybe add it yours as well :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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