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Single Men at Venues
February 08 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
In Melbourne (house parties etc) for single men, but you'll be charged a premium. However, I have typically been quite welcome. But these are often advertised as "players parties" (extra men for the women/couples). I've not yet been to private invite, group of friends hang-out type engagements. I wouldn't go to the actual clubs alone, no vetting or control of numbers. Simply put, if they want single men, they will invite them. If not, they won't. If you are invited, you will be appreciated if you are genuine and respectful, as you should be as a couple also. I can send you a long list :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your on.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd be careful how or what you call yourself buddy in these forums. Whereas once you were a swinger, now you are just a player according to some people on this site! Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Got me thinking. As a male , and if you are half of a couple you are accepted as a genuine swinger and totally accepted. Become single and all of a sudden you are scrutinised as the dreaded single male, even though still the same person. I believe there will always be those who spoil it for the rest and give all the genuine single males a bad name. But how do you police this ? That's a toughy catchus.
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sweetfrangapani
9 years ago
I used to go to a Perth swingers club. They always had a bouncer and the owner always kept a close eye on me so I felt safe. However there were a few single guys that didn't understand that no means no. I hate being harassed by single guys that don't understand a polite NO definitely means NO! Especially when I'm not attractedto them. I think its important to expect rejection and not take it personally in these places. Not all single women will drop there pants just coz their approached by a single guy. I think manners and respect are most important for the single men at these venues Just my thoughts SF
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RHP User
9 years ago
as a single woman i prefer events where limited amounts of single men are allowed - i prefer to play with single people where at all possible so I would say go single - some women attending appreciate it!
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RHP User
9 years ago
If I go to a party I do want single guys to attend but find its rare. - Posted from rhpmobile
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BellaD77
9 years ago
Went to a club once on a Friday which was advertised as having selected single men- sounded like there was a very strict process for single men to be accepted but this was clearly not the case 😬 The two single men present were not only both in their 60's possibly 70's but we're also very unkempt and extremely creepy. As a single girl it would be awesome if there were more single men allowed but only if they actually stuck to their guns in being selective and not just trying to get top $$ cover charge for whoever will pay it!
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QLDtwo4fun
9 years ago
Most of the events we attend usually have extra single guys. Most of the girls are keen to avail themselves selves of one or two extra guys. The number of single guys is limited, and no means NO and if they get that wrong there aren't too many second chances. Single girls are also welcome. We never look for single guys on line, because they are easy to meet at parties.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
The likes of Attunga, Shed16, Blondeez et al, all cater for single men. In fact Attunga has a couples only night, only one Saturday a month, whereas for all the other Saturdays, single guys are allowed in - in other words single men get far more opportunity to attend, they are, after all, the cash cows.
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hotdelights
9 years ago
How do a single man OR single women becomes a swinger..... if he went to a pub or bar or swingers club no wonder y so many couples say if we want u we will contact u classified as a swinger ???? Maybe more chance to contact meet at other venues that alouds only singles
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Fembot69
9 years ago
I worked at club xs in Perth which is now shut down but we allowed single males there with basic rules. They had to have come with a female or couple that can 'vouch' for them so you couldn't just rock in off the street there needs to be some knowledge of your credibility. We also had very strict rules as in single guys were not allowed upstairs to play unless accompanied by a female or couple and any female or male who notices behaviour that is even slightly disrespectful they are ejected from the club no questions asked as the female holds the cards and has utmost respect. The reason for this is that women are sacred and precious and given they are in a situation that can be quite scary or off putting there needs to be extra allowances made for their comfort and protection. Network your profile and self to clubs and organisers on red hot pie, they use single guys at events for barmen and that way have single guys available if needed. Work out the main players, be nice, be respectful, don't burn bridges, don't be a douche and you'll get invited back again and again. Single guys are a dime a dozen but single guys that are cool, respectful and decent are few and far in-between.
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RHP User
7 years ago
The Bottom line I think is , without a female partner to swing with, Its just too hard. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Serendipity69
7 years ago
As a single guy who has been lucky enough to be invited to swingers gatherings, and truly appreciated the hosts placing their trust in me, I find a few simple rules are worth always sticking to.1: don't be pushy, the guy thrusting his cock in the face of the first girl to get naked is never appreciated.2: relax, the party isn't going anywhere. Find a good comfy spot, enjoy the show, we all have a bit of voyeur in us, and you will often find the party comes to you in one way or another.3. the meetup is very important: Be pleasant, engage in conversations but leave the opinions at home, this is not the environment for judgements, leave that to the ladies and the hosts. 4. Shower, be clean and take the time to dress to impress. It doesn't matter that you will likely be naked most of the night, you are still going to meet people and your presentation, and attendance to it is vital in making the right impression.5: keep your sense of humour. My experiences have seen more laughs, jokes, puns and a general light-hearted experience, where whilst people are truly getting very hot and horny, they also are light-hearted, don't take it too seriously and don't take any rejection personally.6: Relax, Respect and manners...
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Bottle that shit and sell it, you'd make a fortune. 😃
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egr2please69
7 years ago
Man i couldn't have put it any better myself. A players/swingers crowd i have luckily enough been allowed to participate in keep inviting me back for exactly the reasons you stated. Manners, respect, cleanliness and a sense of humour have taken me a long way and those i have seen not be up to scratch are shown the door never to return. So go for it Catchme68, gey out there, have fun and as Tom Cruise put it, put your manners back in. It will get you a long way and build a reputation that will open doors buddy 😊👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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