RHP

RHP User

M49 F45

Single bi guys

September 05 2013

After being on here a while and meeting a handful of genuine bi guys, Why is it so hard to find a regular bi guy to play with a couple ? We get lots of interest and chat to many and swap numbers, arrange a meet for coffee with no pressure to do anything, and than the time comes and they don't show???? And no reply to a text or anything!! We understand nervous and all that, but why do all the ground work and than not show? Do any other couple have this problem? I understand we live in a country town, but that's not the problem plenty of interest form locals and far away, Any ideas? we are friendly, we always make them feel welcome and try and make them feel relaxed, ( but I will say the handful that have played all left with a smile and have dropped in for another play meet, but they live a long way away) we are really looking for a regular bi guy to play, we get lots of messages from guys that are straight!!! Do these guys not read profiles or do they just reply to as many as they can, hoping for a reply?- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    find

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    contact allbimyself....hes new

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    would a bi trans girl suffice ,,,,,,,xxxxxxxxxxx catherine

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    11 years ago

    Maybe the "bi" ones are straighter than they thought tooRules of engagement for a gangbang... invite twice as many guys as you want at the party... less than half will show upI think that holds for normal "dating/playtime" too... lots of flakes and fakes out there

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Must be a couples thing.. For me it has been couples not showing up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    i have opposite problem find it hard to find couples that are genuine and wanting to meet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think you'll find this is a general problem that all here can relate to, singles, couples, bi, gay or what not.It's just the way it is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I agree with Attentive - I'm finding it difficult to find any one interested - Shame your not more local.

  • Coops27M

    Coops27M

    11 years ago

    In my case since 80+% of the couples profiles i have looked at contain a loud, strongly worded disclaimer saying that as a single man i can bugger off, which i am happy to oblige, and also since i am not in any hurry, i don't actively seek out the attentions of couples mostly.I have had a lovely couple initiate contact me with interest to possibly meet and see where it goes. Which i am more than happy to. Perhaps the your getting the interest of guys who are more curious than Bi and are contacting you whilst extremely horny and looking for sex and experimentation ASAP and either the nerves kick in over time or they relieve their affliction in some other manner beforehand and are satisfied for the time being, losing the urge to explore. Really just speculating here as there's no clear explanation for all the apparent runner's that are frustrating everyone that i can see.Have you tried initiating contact with many bi guys that you both like? or has it mainly been guys contacting you promising to do all kinds of dirty erotic things and deliver satisfaction? It might have a better chance of finding a bi fella who is more comfortable with his sexuality rather than satisfying his urges on the whim of his arousal at the time who should also be more interested in repeating the experience regularly.Best i can think of OP I'm afraid :), I hope it helps even a little and you find someone to suit your needs. Good luck.I

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ding26'contact allbimyself....hes new That username is awesome!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    1 Ding and well said Coops/ Attentive

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I wish I was in your area I'd be very keen