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Single guy no shows
January 11 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
We have been pretty lucky so far. The guys who have chickened out, have always given us notice, which gave us a chance to organise someone else. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
well - my guess is the stats would give you an idea... the proportion of men on this site is vastly larger than women or couples... Is the average population ratio the same? No, so that points to what my female friends are telling me that majority of men on sites such as this is married - with many of them doing it without their partner's knowledge. Not a problem if they actually make that clear... But in most cases they use just any free time they can get from family. I'm separated and don't have my kids with me, but want to spend time with them so I know that not all my time is my own - but I tell that to a potential playmate... Another issue is men's attitude - we like to boast and show heaps of confidence, but when it comes to actually performing it's only a few that can do it - especially with another male in the room...
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
You probably answered your own question.....
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Baysidecouple214
10 years ago
I personally think it just the TABOO .. All talk no action, we found the most of the profiles are fake or simply full of $hit. Cold feet maybe? Performance issues maybe? They like the idea but not the action... If your after a guy, it would just be safer and easier to just go out, take a pick and take him home (we all know they won't say NO).
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Zsuza69
10 years ago
Having had the same one phrase fits very well. If you think it then your first thought is usually right..... Female intuition is a bloody good tool ladies...... Use it 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
the profile was not verified. Now we generally only continue communication with verified and haven't had a problem since.
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RHP User
10 years ago
they have more to hide than their face 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've had it happen once. I think some guys here (especially bi-curious ones) are into the thrill of the chase. And mutual corresponding and photo swapping I guess gives their self-esteem a boost. But it's definitely frustrating when after a long period of chatting the guy doesn't even show up, or keeps making excuses. I think many people with partners use this site - and while they have certain sexual fantasies, they are too scared to actually follow through with them. Unfortunately, they're often just selfish people who are used to stringing people along.
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RHP User
10 years ago
... From conversations Ive had, its not just single guys. Women and couples do it too. Ive had a few guys( as well as a couple) fall off the planet on the day we were to meet. This was with considerable messaging and phone contact beforehand. I put it down to possibly the fact that they are getting off on the build up and they probably never had any intention to meet anyway. They use it as a turn on to get their rocks off in the privacy of their own home perhaps? And i dont take much notice of if they are verified. Thats just a private pic that is sent to rhp. Anyone can do that. I do like to see a validation or 2 from others, as it shows they have actually met with ppl. But I take it all with a grain of salt, nothing said or done should be taken personally on these sites or it will do your head in.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't understand why they wouldn't show up as a single guy myself it hard enough to get a response from women and couples not showing up for a meet is just going to make it harder to meet any one else - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sex is dependent on mood. The mood may be there when you contact them and arrange the meeting, then not when the time arrives. Others just get off on the thought of a meet up. They have done their load and are happy. Some are to shy, the flesh is willing, the body is in the mood, but the psyche is not in step. For many people a threesome is a big deal, everything from personal insecurities, to moralistic uncertainty hold them back. There are the attached that can not think up the appropriate excuse to be out for the night. Some really would love to be there, but shit happened and they are stuck and can't get to you. It's the nature of the online adult sites. Given time you will learn to pick the ones that will not be turning up. When I am with a partner and we are arranging a meeting, we always plan for the no show/s. We also set a time limit, don't be late as we are not going to waste time waiting. Not here by X oclock then we will not be opening the door for you. Personally its the waiting that spoils it, sitting around horny but holding off just in case, give them another hour.. Stuff that, be on time or no deal.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
One of my girls wanted a gang bang only 2 of 6 showed upso I had to take her to the pleasure lounge.She got her wish but even there some guys had performance issues.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You need to apply a bit more critical thinking to your screening process, skype is a pretty good way to sort the gems from the pretenders.
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RHP User
10 years ago
As a single on here and learning how hard it is to actually get a meet I could never stand someone up, the couple of ladies I have met from here have been wonderful people,(yes you know who you are!) and I hope I have shown the respect and given all they wanted and more, I still keep in touch with all of them other than those that aren't interested for their own reasons. I have become great friends with so many from here and some may just be chat friends but I take them as friends anyway. Just remember more are always welcome , be it bed friends or just someone to chat and spend time with. - Posted from rhpmobile
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anytimenow1
10 years ago
Hi, I am a single guy on this site.... Yes really single!!! I guess some males aren't really single however the real single guys never get a look in. I have been on here for just over a month and constantly don't get responses... I guess it just depends on what you want & asking the correct questions!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
...for the no-show-ers, as I always show up or call, and probably most guys open and honest enough to be commenting in these forums. Perhaps use those activities, and chat etc, to gauge someone's real intentions. Check very careful all details on the profile, sometimes there is conflicting information that looks suss.
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me it's the opposite I always click on ' who's looking for me ' tag so I don't waste people's time yet never get any response from those I message so it goes both ways. All I want is a bi , ongoing friendship with a couple yet it seems so hard. Only a guest now as I have spent so much without responce - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Check your distances before you choose to meet up!.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
you're bound to have unpredictability... Expect less and plan more.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
thats as far as it goes ... How can I give a definite if I dont know if you are really who you say you are. ? I feel I live up to my profile description pretty good' but am happy to have a pre meet to put myself out there for scrutiny. I have nothing to hide.. If we meet and find some positives, well and good.. If the opposite occurs, at least we know why and no one gets their nose outta joint. Thats why I prefer meeting people at random at a club or whatever.. I dont have these scrutinies out in the real world.. Just the way I see it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
The honest guys are on here, you're just not looking hard enough, or are distracted by eye candy and we all know if it's too good to be true it usually is... m-)
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