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'Single guys'
August 14 2016
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
I'm sorry you feel this way. I have met some pretty fantastic "single men" from here. They are not self absorbed, are very very trustworthy and reliable. If a better offer was offered, they have every right to change their minds. Just like you can. From your post, I think you may have been "catfished", on more than one occasion. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
At least the two men were honest and told you they were here without their wives knowing. At least they gave you a choice. Many do not. That goes for married women too. To me it is deceit. At the end of the day, it's their choice. Ms Foxy
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Andyjayyy
8 years ago
Sorry to hear of your negative experiences SexyPhoto. I can only guess at how young/old or 'hunky' the guys you have been picking but its important you take the time to filter out those guys interested only in chalking up another mark in their belts. I might not be the hottest guy but I've never let anyone down, always turned up on time and get immaculately clean & well presented as if for a first date. The entire time I'm looking to please her in everyway desired and take utmost care to fit in with her partners expectations. Seeing the same few couples for over two years, getting trusted even to take the truly beautiful ladies out alone from time-to-time even to the movies hopefully shows that there's some respectful, trustworthy, capable and giving guys here if you choose carefully.
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RHP User
8 years ago
For this exercise, I will assume the OP is writing from the female perspective. Question 1: Are you happy with your current (male) partner? A) No. (Then you are in trouble). B) Yes. (Go to guestion 2). Question 2: Was your male partner single when you met him? A) No, I grabbed him directly from another relationship. (Go to question 3). B) Yes. (Go to question 4). Question 3: Was your current partner ever a single guy? A) No, he has been in sexual relationships since birth. B) Yes. (Go to question 4). Question 4: When your partner was single, was he self absorbed and unreliable, and thought only with his dick? A) Yes, and he still is that way. All men are like that. B) Yes, all single men are like that, I married the best of the worst I could find, but now he's in a relationship, he's a good person. C) No. He was good person as a single. (Go to question 5). Question 5: Are all single men self absorbed and unreliable, and think only with their dicks? A) Yes. (I'm sorry, that conflicts with your previous answer to question 4). B) No. I managed to find the only person that was an exception to that rule. All the others are. C) No. I have to admit that maybe my original premise was only stereotyping, or not to be applied to everyone. Perhaps just all that have made contact through rhp so far.
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RHP User
8 years ago
But I'll cater for both genders.... You/your partner was once a single male too.... So.... What makes him any different now??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
can definitely understand your frustration, I think any woman on here who makes out all men are respectful, would be lying, foggy memory perhaps. However, it is a matter of surging forward and continuing to tweak your search preferences, to hone in on the age etc that works best for you. Obviously setting clear boundaries along the way. I do know what you mean though. It can seem impossible to find just one who's a decent and giving lover. I hate saying that because people naturally assume it's because they're young, which is wrong, in my experience, it's had absolutely nothing to do with being young. I have more issues with single guys around mid 30's, who seem to have grown more arrogant and self centred with age. In my experience the younger ones are like me, they just want a root and will turn up lol the good ones are worth waiting for, just enjoy each other, you have the luxury of that while you're waiting, and wait for those gems to emerge. I agree with above comments about those guys being honest with you, I suspect a large amount play the single guy but aren't really single at least they fessed up and put the cards on the table
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
The Mr clearly wrote it. But regardless, there is a point about how some (too many) choose to behave online. But I see the complaint made like this. There is a great divide between a message, and meeting face to face. And if on more than one occasion, you have arranged to meet someone and they failed to live up to your expectations.... .... then there is a flaw in your screening methods. Fool me once, shame on you.... etc etc. Time spent screening is your friend when it comes to arranging to use your valuable time meeting someone. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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brently
8 years ago
From my experience the judgment people have of others is generally the very issue they refuse to look at within themselves. Good luck with your issue here, I think your going to need it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I didn't realise that I qualify as a self-absorbed, self-indulgent dick for brains. Probably because of those reasons... 🙄
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RHP User
8 years ago
Love your work
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RHP User
8 years ago
You have 3 validations that all would appear to have been successful meets..... Things honestly can't be THAT gloomy surely?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi guys I'm a 53 year old single male who takes offence to sexyphoto's comments. I have respect for others and that's what it's about. Respect is important and treating others the way you would like to be treated. I'm old school where I open a car door for women, let them go through a door first, etc. Anyway please don't put us all in the same basket 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Anyone for some popcorn ? We will watch this one from the sidelines 😊😇 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Anyone for some popcorn ? We will watch this one from the sidelines 😊😇 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
You get nice guys and you get bad guys. The same applies to females and couples. But we do understand where you are coming from OP, as we have had some unpleasant experiences from some single guys. Not all of them. Just those who think with their dicks, and feel that they are entitled to get what they think they have been promised (by joining this site ) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's sad that you have had a bad experience with some attached males and some singles self absorbed males. All I can say is don't write us all off. some of us are decent and giving males who respect your needs as a couple. We are all here to forkful a fantasy and have some fun. As long as both parties are flexible I have had some great meets and sessions. Just from a males point of view, I have had couples do exactly the same to me. Not show up or show up and their photos are from their hay days and that have aged and grown over night. These days I just ask to cam once so I do t get the same again. Nothing worse the. Having to say sorry but you look different - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sexyphoto
8 years ago
Hey, well written countrytouch. I would add unfortunately many single guys also don't get why couples are on rhp. The couples we know adore and are attracted to their partners, very much in love and have great sex, however couples just want to spice things up and they love seeing their partner being pleasured. To assume couples are looking for an alternative to their partner is so far from the truth. Also let me ask this... have you had messaging conversations where the 'single' guy thinks he is turning your partner on by sending dick photos and talking about blowing their load, and do you find this a turn on? I know my partner doesn't. It's all just porn for them. You are right though, we have met the rare nice guy, and careful filtering is the key.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Song: Men are not nice guysBand: Grand Popo football clubAlbum: Shampoo victimsRelease: 2000 Hope this helps with your RHP experience
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some are happy drunk some become aggressive You had a plan B to get home but that didn't work out so well either so you swing out of frustration Their are lock out laws and refusal of service for a good reason... alcohol brings out the inner demons!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Haha have I not told you before? 😝 🍌🍇🍍🍫👉 Self-absorbed, self-indulgent dick for brains. They're running courses. If you get your diploma, you'll fit right in around here 👌 The course is called "How to be a self-absorbed, self-indulgent dick for brains in 3 short lessons" 💪
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RHP User
8 years ago
I passed with flying colors. I got distinction. Proud moment receiving that at the valedictory ceremony 😯
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have been looking for a guy my wife as she has always allowed a single bi women to our bed, so I want to surprise her with a male , Feeling I get with men with no pics is that they are attached, as they worry someone will notice there body and say something to partners, or they say we can only play during day, because of kids, we all have kids and I'm sure family is around to help. I stay away from that, So why don't men show a body pic , If I was single and I want to find a female I'll show my body, yes some men can say they worry about there body, well we all do, and there is females that might like extra love, just not as much as men will love a wow men with extra.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Gold star for you. I actually LOL'ed. Brilliant
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Sawadee
8 years ago
The dick pullers will always be dick pullers. ( I know a few ) . They probally never get any fair dinkum sex so they set about annoying any female or in some cases males who cares to listen. In other words , they bombard you with all the crap while the genuine guys who don't engage in this type of behaviour go unnoticed. It' ll always be this way. Why do you think every single guy gets tarred with the same brush. ?
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
With this lifestyle. Just learn and adapt your attitude and not take it too seriously. After all, you are a couple. If you get dicked about, you have each other to sit back together and laugh about the adventures and misadventures. As long as you are both safe, what's so bad?
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PatchworkGirl
8 years ago
I've met some sensational single guys on here, both as friends and more. I've also come across some not so great. I have to say, I've been talking to numerous guys who have admitted as part of the discussion that they are on here without their wife's knowledge. Whilst I don't want to get involved with anyone playing without their partner's knowledge, I'm certainly grateful when they disclose this information - they certainly don't have to, and I appreciate that honesty, with me at least, even if they aren't with their wives. I think I'd much rather that happen than for things to continue and to then find out afterwards they'd been cheating! So, a big thanks to those guys on here who are playing without their partner's knowledge, who at least admit that up front before things progress to the bedroom (or wherever you happen to want to play). And my suggestion to the OP - if it's stressing you out that much that you feel like going on a tirade about all single guys, attacking them as selfish, self-indulgent babies, maybe you need to take a break from looking for a single guy on RHP. That leaves more of the good guys for the rest of us.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...from the bottom of what passes for my heart but is probably my penis, I am eternally thankful to the OP for enlightening me as to why I am so sadly single...and destined to remain so while desperately wishing... O God, if only it were possible....it's alright....I'll go and end it all now.... Farewell
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Haha have I not told you before? 😝 🍌🍇🍍🍫👉 Self-absorbed, self-indulgent dick for brains. They're running courses. If you get your diploma, you'll fit right in around here 👌 The course is called "How to be a self-absorbed, self-indulgent dick for brains in 3 short lessons" 💪 Yeah, I kinda like the description...it just rolls off the tongue. I feel like a Tony Stark kind-of playboy. Without the smarts. Or the money. Or the looks..
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RHP User
8 years ago
in who's opinion? the looks and the smarts that is, you look pretty good from where I sit dunno about the money, can't comment on that
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RHP User
8 years ago
you look really sexy in a beanie
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'KKLovers78' I have been looking for a guy my wife as she has always allowed a single bi women to our bed, so I want to surprise her with a male , Your profile reads exactly the opposite to what you say here - in fact you are emphatic you don't want anything to do with single males. Just sayin'....Tall
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
By what I am reading and interpret, is that you two have put bounderies in place and will not tolerate certain behaviours from "some" (not all) single men. That's a good thing yeah? I understand it must be frustrating when those bounderies are pushed. Nane calling is not cool. However, suggestions like taking a break, blah blah blah is not fair nor cool in my eyes. Why should you take a break? You have every right to be here, just like married men/women, single men/women, the list is endless.. We are all here for the same thing, to met people, to have our wants and needs met. I wish you the best of luck. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' in who's opinion? the looks and the smarts that is, you look pretty good from where I sit dunno about the money, can't comment on that Well...the Tony Stark character is the one every single guy secretly wishes they were. I did.He's the whole package. Almost.
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BODD01
8 years ago
Obviously there are decent honest good guys around, you will know who you are. This is an experience that a couple have gone through so seems odd that guys become so defensive - could be the ones that are similar!! Good guys don't have to be concerned! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
... except for the superlatives. It isn't *all* (assumed) single guys who are like your description, but a site like rhp sure does provide an environment for them to cluster ;) Like others have said - filtering is key. Also - perhaps the kind of profile you're attracted by leads (mostly) towards the kind of guy you don't actually want? Looking good on screen doesn't always equate with good life/personal skills. Every now and then a bonus package comes along though :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi there SexyPhoto, I see you may have had a few bad experience with "single guys", but don't be an ass and put us all in that category. Yes I agree there are probably tens of thousands of wankers, sleaze balls and lying rude pigs on here but don't paint all of us that way. Some of us are single simply because we are divorced, separated or simply are not good at relationships. Doesn't mean we are all pigs.... I've been single for a while, on and off. Only come here when I am single. I've met some nice ladies here. There won't be any here that would badmouth me weather we have met or not. If I message and am told no thanks I always send a nice "thanks for the reply and good luck" message back... You are no better than me just because you are a couple or a single female.... If someone shits you block them and move on without shitting on all other males... Keep smiling and happy hunting 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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