RHP

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Single guys' party

May 27 2013

Why is it hard for a single guy to organize a party?I have heard from a couple that say they only go to couples' or women's party because they want to play with couples or women. Then I start to wonder if a single guy organizes a party and people come, wouldn't there also be couples and women available for them?I want to hear from couples and women on why you think single men aren't very successful at organizing a party.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    its because a lot of women might worry that they'd be the only woman that actually showed up. I've been in a few rooms full of cocks but I've always had a girly partner in crime or two for safety ... and to tug on my collar if I go too nuts ;-)

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    I know of several parties... where the ratio of women to men was well in favour of the women.......including party where the fellow was to 'gifted' up to 20 women for his birthday..... lolBut for a single guy trying to organise such things in this madhouse..... unless you know a few likely couples already, that just aint gonna happen outside of a club.... because if theres a perception that its all about the guy.... women just dont want to be his trophy.D.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The truth? If a single guy organised a party and allowed everyone to attend it would end up as 80% single men, 18 % couples and 2% single women that is why. Look, I am no expert but parties that allow single men always means that the the majority of people there will be men. And if they are all straight, well they all stand around with their dick in their hand. Women that attend these sorts of parties are usually into gang bangs or MMMMF type of deal and that is fine but the majority of women are not into that I don't think. If you kept it to a fairly small party with a select few, well yes I think you could do that. It would take some organising and would be better if you meet people first for a coffee or drink to assess their suitability and try and gage if they are serious about attending. If you have it in a hotel you may end up loosing some money as there are always lots of no shows if you don't meet the people first or if you don't know them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In fact one of the longest running party groups in Brissy is run by guys!   Is is more about reputation, respect and delivering to guests expectations. Finding your niche and playing to your stengths.   Remember that most couples don't want to be out numbered by single guys unless it is a gangbang. And gangbangs are only one small offer in the world of play.   I am having an under 35's event in July - come along and meet some young people and find out what works.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Not sure if I agree with that but hey, I am obviously not as girlie as you. With threesomes, yes if it is all about the couple then single women don't like that, but it's a bit different when you are attending a party though where you can mingle and have a number of people to choose from. Party dynamics are different to a single woman meeting a couple. As for your example of a guy being gifted 20 women. Working girls were they? Or was that you dreaming?? Hehehehehe. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Just a question because I am nosy parker, how many swingers clubs or sex parties have you attended? Some, none?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'PlaytimeParties' In fact one of the longest running party groups in Brissy is run by guys!   Is is more about reputation, respect and delivering to guests expectations. Finding your niche and playing to your stengths.   Remember that most couples don't want to be out numbered by single guys unless it is a gangbang. And gangbangs are only one small offer in the world of play.   I am having an under 35's event in July - come along and meet some young people and find out what works.     very interesting. I used to live in BKK and know a single man who organizes amazing parties from time to time, he even has ex-pornstars, cam girl to attend his parties. And the ration always in even numbers due to selection. I am frustrated because sometimes I want to initiate something to happen in the swinging community in Brisbane with new parties etc but no one want to participate only because of my status. I once booked a hotel with a couple and try to invite other people to join us, which fails miserably- ended up having no one attended and had waste the money, toys, and drinks I bought.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I looked at Dieselnoi's pic and forgot what I was going to say.