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Single guys posing as couples
December 09 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Disappointing. You live and learn. I am curious about these guys though? Can't they get a root any other way?
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RHP User
12 years ago
couples profiles say no single men.So a single man who wants to play with a couple will do the deceptive thing.They also do it with single women,what that motivation is ,is a puzzle to me.The only thing I can think of, is that they decide on a one size fits all profile .I do think that the singlemalecouple is not limited to single men,attached men use pics of their partners or ex partners as bait . I wonder how often this ploy actually works for them and how many people get really angry with them for their deception.
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
I have recieved heaps of messages from "Couples" that are actually single guys! I reply to them that I don't meet Couples and then the truth comes out that they are actually single but their "playmate" is overseas at the moment (wow I get that alot) or they have just finished playing as a couple as she now has a bf! Sigh..watcha gunna do? xFunlovingx
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Two_Tarts
12 years ago
We have never had that happen, so maybe you were just really unlucky. At least some of those on your friends list are most definitely real (and quite lovely) couples and so it seems you may have just picked the wrong one for the first time round. Although we have never seen it we believe the ladies when they say how common the single male couple is so perhaps it's just that we don't appeal to them for some reason? (Which we would regard as a good thing) Perhaps our fairly direct approach in our messaging puts off those who are indulging in some sort of delusions? We don't tend to waste too much time with ping pong messaging and online relationships and will go straight to suggesting a meet with an appealing couple. That could be intimidating for some but we have found the many messages tells us about one tenth of what we can discover in the first 5 minutes of actually meeting people in person. Maybe it's having pictures of both of us together as a profile pic that puts the single male couples off. It might be that it ruins their fantasy and disrupts the short circuit pathway from cock to direct action and allows their brain time to get a say in? We do find that when we put a picture of just Mrs as our profile picture the number of flirts and messages from single guys goes up about tenfold so there must be a message in how a picture of a lovely lady on her own affects how the single male rates their chances. Remember, if at first you don't succeed try, try, try again. So better luck next time!
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RHP User
12 years ago
what you do is have a phone chat with both asap. Don't spend hours on msn or any other online chat. Cut to the chase and speak to both and then get the females to organise all the evenings/events!!
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erotictouch4u
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Sigh..watcha gunna do? NEXT ! ET xox
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fell for it a few times ourselves, there's some deadset creepy people out there.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not in the same context of course BUT we actually was all geared to meet someone for playing.... after talking to him on the phone and all went well after meeting for coffee and then when it came to actually playing - no show, no nothing, no communication ....patience is a virtue though.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
great reading your comments very true we operate the same, we are here for fun, i go straight to point too. sum are here for pen pals others for real 'live' excitment with new friends what about those that have open relationships for whatever reasons we play together sometimes sometimes not how do i explain this????? to a potenial playmate!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ctowntwo'Fell for it a few times ourselves, there's some deadset creepy people out there..... absolutely...some incredibly creepy people indeed...... our earliest experiences were tainted by men posing as couples, and marrieds posing as singles....
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sacred_spirit
12 years ago
cause the single men dont get much attention they try and team up with a single girl or other as well, more action that way hmmm men will try any despererate ways . its simple if only one person on cam to mee its a male with a cpl profile fake , yes some women allow men to play in a cpl but pft to mee they still married or attached not interested , has set own rules for playing with cpls . i chat yes ping pong messages in here preffered that way for no msn or other unitll im interested in what im after... profile is blocked for a reason so dont think you can contack me, unless ya see me in chat room, hmmthink i need to update it aswell , think rhp need a new icon for cpls with jsut one person online as a male to let peeps know before clicking on cam....(.warning you are about to view a male wanking)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah, I hear that lol. We compare out first experience (a single male faker) as Patrick Bateman from American psycho. He just was not right, and worse I he tricked us and another couple over without warning, the other couple were of course normal nice people, but we couldn't stay. Potential axe murderer alert. Moral of the story is: never trust a man with an extensive kylie Minogue cd collection. Never. Ha ha!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Stupid iPhone "corrections" I'm sure you get the jist of what I'm trying to say...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Waaaaaaaay back in the day I was involved in a similar scene to the one in Old School where the other Wilson brother comes home and opens the door to an afro'd dude - " Hi, I'm here for the gangbang..." And it wasn't even my house - I just had the misfortunate of opening the door. I now have a dickhead proof method to meeting new people - no exceptions... Speaking to both on the phone is essential - if they are too shy for a phone call.. how are they going to be when their goolies come out to play ? A
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RHP User
12 years ago
We always communicate with the both of them on the phone prior to the meet n greet.
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rupamohan
12 years ago
i guess you trust ppl easily and won't check out this may be because you haven't lived in real world. Or you simply too greedy to miss them out by asking girl to talk over phone first. If you did talked to girl and still only guy turned up then it is just bad luck but rare event. Don't let it to doubt everybody.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've had gay single men pretend to be couples when sending me messages.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just had to say I don't get it......why as a single guy pretend to be a couple...not only for the reason that it is wrong but also what do they hope to gain. Do they think that once you have met and you now know that this guy has lied to you that you will then feel the need to jump his bones.....or is it some crazy thought that once you are there you will jump him anyway.Happens to me with cpls...they pretend to be male and female and when I arrive it turns out that its two sex crazed bi-sexual models who have conned me....oh no hold on....that was just my single guy imagination working overtime again...there should be a name and shame policy....however should any sex crazed bi-sexual models be reading this...lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for nothing....All you pricks do is spoil for yourself and you drag the rest of us up front guys down with you..... Man up and get a life FFS..... Jay...
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DTE_couple
12 years ago
If the males female partner can't make it for some reason, you totally call of the meet. If they turn up with no female REPORT them is what we should all do !!! Because all it does is waste's everyones time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
These guys must be pretty Brave or just Dumb, Some couples may lose it ......
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RHP User
12 years ago
we've had some perfectly suitable couples contact us, people who were both attractive, personable and absolutely the types we like to play with, but on a couple of occasions, things didnt work out, and it didnt happen....which is ok, thats how life goes......but its always a surprise when, a few weeks later, he contacts us on the sly, hoping to play on his own....but 'dont tell my wife, i dont want her to know i'm bi'.......secrets within secrets, just dont attract us at all.....
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Meeks you said it!! There are so many fake profiles out there! Talk to both of them on the phone!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'we've had some perfectly suitable couples contact us, people who were both attractive, personable and absolutely the types we like to play with, but on a couple of occasions, things didnt work out, and it didnt happen....which is ok, thats how life goes......but its always a surprise when, a few weeks later, he contacts us on the sly, hoping to play on his own....but 'dont tell my wife, i dont want her to know i'm bi'.......secrets within secrets, just dont attract us at all..... We get that stuff too after a coffee meet , interesting your take on it the guys are secretly Bi Our take on it is...You dont fuck my wife unless I fuck your wife and both wives welcome the play.We think it also displays male insecurity seeing his wife with another guy. Anyways....Our answer is....take a hop!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luvnya69'We always communicate with the both of them on the phone prior to the meet n greet. and the only 'safe' way to get things going...... we never never meet anyone either on our own, or if they are on their lonesome either. not falling for the 'she's sick/tired/at work' whatever excuse again..........
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RHP User
12 years ago
I arrange play dates for my girl, and have been looking at couples to find that extra girl that might playSo far I have had three couples reply, two meet and what do you know, the girls can not make it today, work, kids, or some excuse.Why they do this I have no idea, as to meet my girl and play I do not mind single guys, I just prefer honesty..
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1playfulcpl
12 years ago
we r often called fakes as male here does most of the arranging wen on amm was called a fag,poof etc then they seen us on cam in cam room then its wen can we catch up my wife always chats to them b4 meets if they wish 2 like most ppl we r not here 2b fucked around we r here to meet friends an enjoy others so fake ppl leave the rest of us alone an form ur own group
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RHP User
12 years ago
when we make contact with a couple i allways get Mrs swing to talk to the other lady...or we dont meet
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'swingnpair'when we make contact with a couple i allways get Mrs swing to talk to the other lady...or we dont meet We want all 4 to talk in a four way conversation, we have two phones in the house we both talk together and expect the other couple to talk together to us as well. This suits us looking for other married couples ....it filters out fuck buddies.
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twomagichands4u
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Disappointing. You live and learn. I am curious about these guys though? Can't they get a root any other way? I am sure they can probably get it elsewhere. They probably like the look of the couple and figure they will go for a single guy even though their profile says otherwise. Spare a thought for the single guys who spend time and effort meeting a single girl or a couple where the single girl turns out to be a guy (and your profile says straight) or when you meet up the female of the couple got sick suddenly so the male thought he would come for a drink anyway and try his luck. But yes back on the topic, it must be daunting for a couple when they expect to meet another couple and a single guy rocks up. Personally, I don't get the mindset. Quite spooky really. When I find the right lady, hope to call on a few of you couple only gorgeous couples. In the meantime, thank you to those that do not mind an additional single male. It helps the world go round!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '1playfulcpl'we r often called fakes as male here does most of the arranging wen on amm was called a fag,poof etc then they seen us on cam in cam room then its wen can we catch up my wife always chats to them b4 meets if they wish 2 like most ppl we r not here 2b fucked around we r here to meet friends an enjoy others so fake ppl leave the rest of us alone an form ur own group yea get what you mean...its sad, guys do lash out, sometimes quite nastily, when we say 'no thanks'......its like they believe they are absolutely entitiled to meet and play....and 'how dare' we say no!
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