Chaucer

Chaucer

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Single male at a swingers club?

January 19 2014

HI everyone, Back in once apon a time land, my ex & I used to go to a Brisbane swingers club (on several occasions over a year or two). Now I'm divorced & single, I'm still attracted to the swingers scene, but feel awkward about turning up as the middle aged single male. Can any club regulars in Brisbane tell me if it's all in my head, or is it preferred that the single guys at a club only be 25, superfit, and 9 inches?Chaucer

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    At PL we limit the number of single guys attending. Generally we avoid 25yo males. They are unreliable and dont understand the lifestyle.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We are of the opinion that no single males should be allowed at swingers clubs. It is one of the many reasons why we don't attend any in Australia.

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    That's in your head. You have to be a lean, mean rooting machine. See you in the gym showers. :p Hugs Gazpacho

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'maturecpl52' We are of the opinion that no single males should be allowed at swingers clubs. It is one of the many reasons why we don't attend any in Australia. Very strange as I know that many single women would stop going if there were no available single guys attending. Even the clubs that have so called rules and invite only conditions seem to apply them as only guide lines. @ChaucerI dont know about the clubs in QLD but over here in WA single mature guys are welcome. If they allow you in then dont feel awkward, guys our age have so much more to offer then the young bucks.

  • Splicey

    Splicey

    11 years ago

    As long as they don't assume that just because they have a cock people will want to fuck them and, in turn, cross boundaries. I welcome all types.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'gazpacho51' You have to be a lean, mean rooting machine. What's the going rate for bribes these days then, Gaz?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'maturecpl52'We are of the opinion that no single males should be allowed at swingers clubs. Your profile states you're only looking for (bi) men, so why are you against allowing single males? . Unfortunately the club I go to does not allow MM sex, even when there are women involved in the play. I do hope the new swingers club will be more... open to the idea.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Meander........ I don't think it actually states no MM sex does it? It's just the way a lot of swingers clubs are I think. Reasonably vanilla and pretty straight when it comes to the men.

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    11 years ago

    Are there no options to play behind a closed door? xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Most clubs do not allow MM because if they do the place will quickly be over run by us kinky bi and gay guys. As for what you do in the private rooms that's nobodies business but your own.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'maturecpl52'We are of the opinion that no single males should be allowed at swingers clubs. Your profile states you're only looking for (bi) men, so why are you against allowing single males? . Unfortunately the club I go to does not allow MM sex, even when there are women involved in the play. I do hope the new swingers club will be more... open to the idea. We have found that most of the single males who go to clubs tend to be straight. In any case almost all of the clubs don't allow MM sex. Invariably, every club we have ever attended has had a policy of allowing "a few select males". However, over time, probably due to financial reasons the few becomes many. This tends to put a lot of couples off because of the hassles they encounter. The guys tend to think that the entry fee they paid comes with a guarantee of action. They usually go around making a nuisance of themselves, won't take no for answer etc. Several couples have told us that it is the main reason why they don't go anymore.