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Single male not acknowledging MALE in couple

November 19 2017

Couples how do you feel when a possible single male candidate approaches you? He only talks to the female and not the male at all or very little who is part of the couple? Does not even consider the male in the relationship. Males and females how did you feel and what was the outcome of perhaps selecting or not selecting the male? This topic is a very common scenerio in the scene.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Hasn't been my experience at all. Usually men approach my BF and asks him if he minds if they have a crack at his missus.

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

could be that for SOME single males, it appears (based on our experience ) that his primary objective is his own sexual satisfaction, the main attraction being the “pussy” of the female. Opportunism at its best ( or worst ) ??? :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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boobsandbusted

7 years ago

i feel the single guy is a dickhead. and visa versa for mrs b with single women (and yes that also happens ) because the smart single involves the opposite sex. and make them feel at ease win them over and you will get the golden key much easier and with happiness ,ignore or push someone aside and no golden key for you , mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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luvsilver

7 years ago

We get quite a few messages from single guys.I (Mr Luvsilver) am on RHP more than Mrs Luv but she is the one who does most of the replies to couples and all of the replies to single guys.TMost are really good but there are a lot that are rude,pushy and not respectful and she will weed them out very quickly.We have played with single guys in a MFM situation a few times and I have never met or spoken to the guy until that time.I 100 % trust her judgement and everyone we have met have been really great guys.- that also goes for couples and single woman we have met. Mr Luvsilver

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TimeToPlayAus

7 years ago

We've actually had guys say "no MM touching but I'm ok with Mr joining in". Um, no dude, not even remotely how it works. Pass. - Posted from rhpmobile

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ReyandJean

7 years ago

In speaking with other couples we know on RHP, something like 90% of the time it is the man who is monitoring site activity, so good luck on a single male getting through to the female half via email. Single male is not what we advertise for, it's not what we are looking for. With all the drama associated with trying to verify/set up a meet with suitable couples, you, as a single male, think we're going to jump through hoops to meet you? Not going to happen, bud. If we bumped into you at a party, there is a some chance that we'd get along, but you'd need to be part of a functioning couple at that party before you'd get a look in.

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RHP User

7 years ago

have we met?That is quite exactly what I do. I have never been shy in telling a man I like what I see in his lady friend, and ask if he wants a hand with her.. "If she is willing...." I have been threatened a few times, and told to "Fuck off" but never been hit yet.. AND I have had some AWESOME interactions also.. not ALL sex related, but had some awesome nights out with couples who said "Thanks.. but no thanks.. but, come drink with us anyway.."RESPECT works.. not much else does...

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Haleakala

7 years ago

I always viewed joining a couple as being a guest to the relationship, like a house guest, you follow the house rules and interact with the occupants at an appropriate level. The only exception I can see would be in a cuckold situation where they specifically wanted the male to be ignored or treated subserviantly. My experience with cuckold play is not extensive but so far i'd say if that's the scenario the couple want to play you will be told at the beginning - Posted from rhpmobile

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HotNightsGC

7 years ago

“Do you mind standing over there while we plunder and pleasure your woman’s body?” Ummmm.... yes! WTF?!!! Cheesy line and not how we work..... Go away!!! There’s such a thing as common courtesy. Just because you enjoy sharing each other doesn’t exclude others from having manners. - Posted from rhpmobile

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sensualjs

7 years ago

We've learnt to filter out the genuine guys from the ones who are in it just to get off. I (Mrs) engage most of the guys we chat to. Genuine guys will be interested in what we like as a couple, asks about hubby, boundaries etc. Time wasters and guys wanting me on my own, ask no such questions and send dick pics instead. It's a shit process, but the rewards speak for themselves 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

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sweetnsensual

7 years ago

I have had the couple message me outside the group chats and ask if I'll play alone or worse while we are in the bedroom! Wtf? We don't get many single guys contact us but did have one overzealous man at a red heaven event seem to lose the fact we are a couple lol We do this together as a couple!

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mango69er

7 years ago

Dose happen a fair bit with us. And as Meander said. We dont like it. And it dosent go further - Posted from rhpmobile

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megz85g

7 years ago

I’m married but we don’t have a couples profile on here as we mostly play separate, but have had guys ask for a 3some, but then say oh but your hubby will just watch? That’s not a threesome buddy, why bother tryin to involve him when I’m more than happy to play alone. - Posted from rhpmobile

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swingalingson

7 years ago

A threesome does involve 3 people not a twosome involving 2 people. Talk about a scenerio where the guy out of the couple is not acknowledged at all

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Hottie1

7 years ago

We were at a party and I was getting a deliciously naughty massage from my man and a single bloke came up to us and just stood there, watching, which is more than ok. When a lovely lady we know came to chat to us, the bloke spoke up and said ‘he was waiting for an invitation’ to join us ... um, NO!!! He didn’t engage either of us, just stood there and the fact that neither of us spoke to him, he just didn’t get the hint sadly. That’s the first problem, get the hints guys, if we’re ignoring you, that’s the first hint. Secondly, when playing with my hubby, because like Mrs Luvsilver, I do most of the organising for plays. I have lost count of the amount of times single guys automatically presume hubby is a cuckhold and immediately begin the ‘humiliation’ of him ... they never, ever get a chance with that approach. An MFM means three people play and I’m the focus :) BUT this is not my preference and I’ve not really had many of these. An MMF means we’re all in and this is what I’d look for every time, if I could lol 😂 I have to say I’m vicious in my feedback and expectations to single guys or to guys wanting to play in a threesome :) My rules ... DO NOT ASK ANY OF MY MEN FOR THEIR PERMISSION TO PLAY WITH ME ....unless you want to fuck them, don’t ask them, I own my body and my choices. I don’t care how sexy you might be, you ask any of my men for ‘their permission to play with me’ ... you won’t ever get that pleasure lol 😆 Secondly, do not hang around like a bad smell, not saying a word, holding your cock and hoping that your amazing aura will turn me on so much that I’ll want to fuck you ... engage in us as the couple, well before you want to shove your cock in :) Lastly, be somewhat engaging ... slinking in between us, saying inane crap or just going straight for the touch will leave you with a memory you won’t like lol... Yep, I get no one will approach us, not an issue because if we want a single guy, we’ll find the right fit for us :) Mary xx Ps: please don’t go on the attack following my post, this is my experience:)

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RHP User

7 years ago

Some guys message as if they’re talking to a single woman, this is a couples profile.....delete. Other guys do the opposite and say things like “ya missus it hot I’d love to play with her”, she’s not a possession.....delete. Friendly and respectful will at least get you past the first couple of hurdles. Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile

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Mr_Mrs_E

7 years ago

I’m (Mrs E) am generally the primary one on RHP, when we get single male attention and they are completely shutting Mr out, and just asking for endless pics or vids I see it as they are showing that if we were to meet up they would be more concerned with their own desires and satisfaction than us as a couple (or even me). It’s an instant turn off. If they aren’t able to respect Mr in a conversation then I highly doubt they will respect him in a play situation. But I feel similarly with couples who message us who aren’t really a couple, and it’s just the male. - Posted from rhpmobile

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boobsandbusted

7 years ago

love your rules ,completely agree ,wtf ask me ,i'm not going be doing anything to you ,her brain her, body her call ,or at least to get to the point where i get the look 👀 from her ,lol .i always engage the partner in chat but would never ask him to speak for her ,gawd that was creepy ,we had that with a couple and the women never got to say anything ,he kept speaking on her behalf ,warning bells a plenty right there ,asked if she was ok and he spoke again saying she is fine keep going ,nope sorry we are done good bye mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I always write to a couple with the assumption that they're are both at a computer screen reading my message, that just seems logical to me.Despite this I can't say I've had much luck with couples on Rhp. The couples I have met tho have been awesome, I still regularly speak to them on kik and I'd happily go for a drink with them without playing.

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