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Single males have the hardest times!
October 26 2014
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
Frustrating to you or not, if a persons profile has no single guys then your choices are 1. Respect that its their decision on what they are looking for (which is not you being a single guy) and keep trying (yes there is the imbalance of females to males here) 2. Think that somehow your the exception to the rule which will probably get you nowhere except for earning their disrespect and a quick profile block. You can't change other people. All you can change is yourself. Cheers, W
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RHP User
10 years ago
You know your profile says nothing about you and nothin about what you are looking for. Sounds like your up for anything and everyone... Which is cool. But not everyone will find that sexy, like a man that is a little hat to catch. ;-) otherwise my advice is forget the online stuff and get out there. Attend events and meet and greets and meet people face to face. If you are determined on meeting people via the online thing I think you chance of success is increased by become well know on the forums or the chat rooms. Just my opinion. It's worked for me. I have probably met over a hundred RHPers in the last 4 years. Fucked almost none of them.... I am exclusive you know. LMAO.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bollocks! That was supposed to say "I like a man that is a little hard to catch"
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RHP User
10 years ago
if we could switch sexes for a week and see it from the other perspective.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Young fella just dont take rhp or yourself to seriously have fun when something clicks and treat all with respect be yourself and have other options to meet people - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
10 years ago
there are women's profiles that state NO SINGLE GUYS? I haven't seen this, but I'm not checking out woman's profiles.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What Meekas other fingers are up to...? 😋😄 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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6exxy
10 years ago
Move on dude seriously. No woman here is going to cry for you with a photo of two ladies on your arm and crying poor old me single guy. Seriously ? WTF??? Don't look around but you might be that douchebag. Now that may seem harsh but seriously what are you expecting from this post? Sympathy?
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inspirit
10 years ago
Well for a minute let me pull out the tissues for you - here catch the box you may just need them.... Join up and put your dick out here. As a guest what do you expect - some chick to send you her one message she gets free for a week when she can message Adonis. Try being 50 and fat on here - and you think you have the wah wah wah going on. Suck it up Princess.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Did I go too far this time My script has run out and there is no wine in the fridge
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
One, you don't appear to be fat. And yes, a bit too far this time. You know very well it's a buyer's market for the girls here. This is a very often asked question by people simply looking for advice from people more experienced on site, nothing more. 'Wah wah wah'? Jesus wept, perhaps you need to suck it up and get on with it - like everyone else here. I'm sure the OP's inbox isn't nearly as full as yours. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Honestly guys have you ever wondered what you are actually doing to change things. I have been single for some significant lengths of time by choice and sometimes not by choice and the first thing I do after a break up is to sort my shit out so that each person I meet doesn’t think I am a miserable whining, feel sorry for myself pain in the arse. I am not saying that this is you Alwayshere92, but some guys carry the poor me around like a badge and think it is going to attract someone to come and rescue them. Believe me a rescuer/victim relationship it is the last thing you want or need. Meeka gives good advice (nearly slipped up there Meeka), get yourself out there, put some personality into your profile and enjoy being on here with some great people. I have been on this site as a couple and as a single and can tell you that what you put in is what you get back. It is also better now than ever and there are more women on here that are actively seeking than I have ever experienced before. They are bold, gorgeous and don’t need someone to mother ..unless that is your fetish. I know this may sound harsh, but posts like this do you no favours at all. Cheers Rob
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RHP User
10 years ago
I see beautiful ladies on here just looking for girls, sure it's disappointing but we just move to the next profile, no biggy for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who meets my needs, but doesn't bollocks me around with endless stupid messages or crass "wanna fuck" type intros. Must be Darwin.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'Try being 50 and fat on here - and you think you have the wah wah wah going on. Add married (with or without permission) to the above.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Well for a minute let me pull out the tissues for you - here catch the box you may just need them.... Join up and put your dick out here. As a guest what do you expect - some chick to send you her one message she gets free for a week when she can message Adonis. Try being 50 and fat on here - and you think you have the wah wah wah going on. Suck it up Princess. HA..... love it. (bit imagine if I typed that..... the bat phone to RHP central would be buzzing hahaha)
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Did I go too far this time My script has run out and there is no wine in the fridge Sounds like you need someone to pass you a tiny violin lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' if we could switch sexes for a week and see it from the other perspective. As always you are bloody brilliant !
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RHP User
10 years ago
was just trying to say that alot of single blokes have had chances on this squashed because of a few bad eggs, i know I can't change people and yes I can only change myself but I would like a chance to have a few meet and greets with some people and for people not to think I am a total sleaze if I was to send a flirt or add them as a friend!.... and to inspirit i would love to sign up but some of us cant afford to pay a couple hundred dollars to join a dating site where nothing may come of it!
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inspirit
10 years ago
I don't want a little violin - I want the whole damn band - sheeesh- This is ALL about me you know Yay I have finally got some attention lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Do the happy dance like me. Last night dragged into Northbridge to pubs, thinking my god noooo. Had a blast and my god young guys must be addicted to older women. I my bum was pinched and my boobs fondled several times and I was dressed very demure , I mean no cleavage. Mean while back at the hotel the place was full of these sweet young things. No sense of direction these young men. Funny how a couple thought my room number 21, was actually their room 27. What can I say , I just tucked them in bed cause they looked so tired. See I help out single guys all the time. Northbridge is rhp in three d. Come visit ,cheese and crackers and a wine or whine :).
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Twisted_Mister' One, you don't appear to be fat. And yes, a bit too far this time. You know very well it's a buyer's market for the girls here. This is a very often asked question by people simply looking for advice from people more experienced on site, nothing more. 'Wah wah wah'? Jesus wept, perhaps you need to suck it up and get on with it - like everyone else here. I'm sure the OP's inbox isn't nearly as full as yours. - Posted from rhpmobile Err yessum I am fat though I don't really give a scrotum. Thanks tho but I think your script needs renewing .. HAHAHA @ me suck it up
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RHP User
10 years ago
They are RHP girls from some event. No need to be so harsh! Not jealous are you? ;-)
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting '6exxy' Move on dude seriously. No woman here is going to cry for you with a photo of two ladies on your arm and crying poor old me single guy. Seriously ? WTF??? Don't look around but you might be that douchebag. Now that may seem harsh but seriously what are you expecting from this post? Sympathy?
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RHP User
10 years ago
When you put in your 'search' preferences, are you ticking the 'looking for me' button? You shouldn't be coming across any, "not looking for single men" that way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think at your age being 22 your a bit young to be on pie , when i search ( just checking whats out there) there seems to be not a lot of girls your age . Why don't you try Tinder ? it's for more people that get out more and more of a random hook up !! Best of luck though
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RHP User
10 years ago
and it's playing just for you OP....a wise move to post your whine on here ,lots of theplayers have already given you some good advice .....Maybe,just maybe someone has noticed you and your inbox is filling......but whinging by single men about how other single men are spoiling it for them is unattractive and quite frankly,nonsense.If it were true then women would not be here wanting to meet single men...couples and women have "no single men" on their profile because it is a sexual preference.........You say that you can't afford to join because you might be wasting your money....true but then don't expect women to contact you either... Inspirit I think you might enjoy a cello.....lots of good vibrations between those luscious thighs:-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
thats the in-spirit !! 22years old !!! Mate what the fuck are you doing on here in the first place online dating is for old lame fuckers that get called dad ! Mum ! Nan and pop !! Go to the club son where you belong and pull some hotties like your meant too . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
. i would love to sign up but some of us cant afford to pay a couple hundred dollars to join a dating site where nothing may come of it! And what comment is this.......you spend most likley a lot of money on alcohohl which is more then a month of memeber ship on here......so why not pay and see what the RHP world has to offer.....and why does it has to be a instant gratification why not be patient it will come......listen and learn...refine your profile and see. I am not a HOT CHICK....and I dont get 100s of hits a week, ohh how sad for me .......:)....but I still think it is fun on here..... So pick yourself up......put effort in your profile....be a positive male and give up this poor me attitude.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' . i would love to sign up but some of us cant afford to pay a couple hundred dollars to join a dating site where nothing may come of it! And what comment is this.......you spend most likley a lot of money on alcohohl which is more then a month of memeber ship on here......so why not pay and see what the RHP world has to offer.....and why does it has to be a instant gratification why not be patient it will come......listen and learn...refine your profile and see. I am not a HOT CHICK....and I dont get 100s of hits a week, ohh how sad for me .......:)....but I still think it is fun on here..... So pick yourself up......put effort in your profile....be a positive male and give up this poor me attitude. I think I love you
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RHP User
10 years ago
But that's because I DO meet lovely ladies through the site.
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
Being a single male who is fresh out of a relationship, I am finding alot of profiles saying NO SINGLE GUYS! This is primarily a swingers site is it not ? Which means that the majority of couples, on here, would either be looking for other couples or single women. Would you not have more luck on a vanilla dating site where there are more women, looking for long term relationships with men ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
...it seems to me they're all looking for someone unattached.Hop over the fence the grass is GREENER
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'admitsave22' was just trying to say that alot of single blokes have had chances on this squashed because of a few bad eggs, i know I can't change people and yes I can only change myself but I would like a chance to have a few meet and greets with some people and for people not to think I am a total sleaze if I was to send a flirt or add them as a friend!.... and to inspirit i would love to sign up but some of us cant afford to pay a couple hundred dollars to join a dating site where nothing may come of it! I think you can join for three months. Think of it this way, maybe give up something else, like booze or smokes if you do that. If it does not work then fair enough. change your picture, when you are up there with a couple of women around your arm it says look at me I can pull the chicks, and its also one of those pictures that it looks like you paid the women to stand there. Just a nice face picture is enough, and no dick pictures, seems to be the general consensus on here. Go to the meet and greet offline. Have a good read of every profile you want to connect with, and if you want to send a flirt just do the one, I like your profile. Non of the lame I want to set your pants on fire and sit on your face. Approach cautiously, I guess just like in a bar nice open talk with a little bit of humor. I recently went out on the town, not something I do at all but I found that young guys are really much more relaxed about approaching women than back my my day. So your in a good situation really if you just apply a little common sense. You also need to have thick skin, and the fact that you actually found the forums and wrote is a bonus. I always tell guy to go read the forums. It shows the diversity of women, how we think and how we are also as changeable as the wind. but it also shows how smart, how funny and how normal we are and can make great friends as well as sexy fuck buddies. try that approach first, if you do not lead with your dick then things can often end up where you want to go.
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RHP User
10 years ago
single guys...ok guys the pick up line , that just goes horribly wrong. "Hi I'm xxx with blue eyes brown hear med biuld shaved balls just up for hot fun with some norty milfs or gilfs xxxx" I am not sure if that reads, the balls are up for some hot fun? I left the spelling as it is, as he is a kindred spirit just like me. I cannot spell for shit, but I do try to hit the spell check before I do my profile changes. like my other post, people really do need some help. I will write back to him and see if I can give him a hand , no... I mean a hand with his profile, not the balls.
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RHP User
10 years ago
suck it up
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RHP User
10 years ago
What happened to showing us lonely , frustrated and desperate males some compassion ,,, we need reassurance to you no ,,,, :-p - Posted from rhpmobile
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6exxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' They are RHP girls from some event. No need to be so harsh! Not jealous are you? ;-) Oh is that what they are?? I had no idea. So he really could be desperate? Nio I'm not jealous but how many times do we hear this .......? Oh can you step to the side? Your in the line of the firing squad!
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6exxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Quoting '6exxy' Move on dude seriously. No woman here is going to cry for you with a photo of two ladies on your arm and crying poor old me single guy. Seriously ? WTF??? Don't look around but you might be that douchebag. Now that may seem harsh but seriously what are you expecting from this post? Sympathy? Oh yeah would you like a glass?
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inspirit
10 years ago
Funny as fuck post - really -
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6exxy
10 years ago
Here you go 🍷 😘
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RHP User
10 years ago
There will always be an abundance of single guys, compared to the number of single women & couples happy to have an extra male along for the ride. In all likelihood that won't be changing anytime soon, but that also doesn't mean you won't have any luck. Be respectful, up front & little cheeky. Put a little effort into your profile & you'll eventually cross paths with people looking for the same thing you are...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Since when do swingers only look for other couples or single women only? That is totally incorrect. Many swingers have no real interest in single women and are only after single men. As a UK swinging couple I know recently said to me .... What do you mean no single men allowed. Doesn't that make the numbers uneven, As swingers only swap for one on one sex with the opposite sex apparently. Ahh swingers... So conservative really. :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why is his age a problem? Since when has RHP only been for people who are older? Regardless of age anyone can head out to a bar to meet people, but that doesn't mean that everyone is comfortable doing that, or wants to go alone etc. He could just be trying to increase his chances by doing both, out and RHP. Age should be irrelevant. Open minds and different people is what RHP is for. MR
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RHP User
10 years ago
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