M37
Single parent life!
December 20 2018
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RHP User
6 years ago
Josh I know exactly what you are going through as would a lot of other folk on this site. 1. Use your child free time wisely.2. Stay in shape3. Be upfront with the women you meet4. Stay positive If you are struggling with any of these and find yourself frustrated use a brothel rather than getting into a bad relationship. Hope this helps.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
You are a 31 yrs old man and not new to meeting people. Humans meet people every day of their lives. If you do not know how to compromise and go about meeting people then Huston we have a problem! If you want to meet people, the accountability is on you to make the time and to compromise with the others. I know it's difficult being a full-time parent (+ full-time shift worker), however, I make the time and put in the effort. I do not expect men to jump at my feet when I have spare time. Ok ok sometimes I do (😇), but that's another issue. If others can do it, so can you. Kids or not, you work around your situation and what you've got. Sex is not going to be handed to you on a silver platter. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
You are not alone having a "ridiculous sex drive", there many wankers here who do. 😂😎😜 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Just roll with it , it’s a bit of a nightmare but doable. Be yourself.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I get that, and I do get a couple of days each week to myself most of the time. I guess I was more wondering how common it is and how much of a turn off it is for people, however I can see im not alone. Just getting used to it I guess, im always bloody exhausted teying to balance everything.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Speaking for mysel, it’s definitely not a turn off, as I’m on the same boat and completely understand the lack of available “free time“. Unfortunately don’t have any other tips than the ones already shared - just would like to reinforce the idea of always be upfront with all potential play friends.
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sweetnsensual
6 years ago
Appeal of a single parent Certainly more of a turn on than turn off for me. It demonstrates a level of responsibility for other humans which is always appealing. Given the choice i would always choose a guy with kids over one without. Ms sweetnsensual
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RHP User
6 years ago
Cheers. Appreciate the responses and pleasantly suprised.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I think you just have to have patience... Having or not having children won’t be a do or die point for the right person. Individuals without children have sex lives. Individuals with children have sex lives. Be a great person, put out what you want to receive, keep looking and you will find someone. It’s very hit and miss but the hits do make up for the misses.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Put up a date finder. See how you go. Ms Foxy
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Either make a couples or group profile with your friends on your pic or get a single pic. Confusing. Usually when there are multiple guys in the profile pic, the owner is the one with a face like a smashed crab.
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Gr8distraction
6 years ago
More power to you for sticking around, and not taking the easy way out of your responsibilities. Its commendable, its fatherhood. You'll more than likely struggle. As you know you're in a position where you just "cant drop things at a minutes notice"Not that you'll ever get the " hey, i'm free tonight wanna fuck" message It'll take time, but remember, for every one of you theres probably 10 woman in the same boat. You'll find a match at some point. Just need to do the "two step dance"
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hi Josh Here's what I know: kids come first. They have to. they deserve to. To you, and men like you, that have the integrity and commitment to prioritise your children, when they need you most, I commend you. May joy, happiness and good times befall you when you have your down times. There is a wealth of data about the psychological ramifications of absent fathers on their childrens well-being. Don't be that dad. Good things come to good people and people that can wait. Good luck.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hi Josh I know what it feels like to try and balance a social life, full time employment and having a child full time as well. It isnt easy, and unfortunately some things have to be sacrificed. Its usually the social life that gets sacrificed, believe me i know, single dad myself. I know were you are coming from though, as getmeplease has stated, kids always come first. The most truest statement. And as single dads, our own needs would like to be satisfied and met. Mate im in the same boat, been out of a relationship for 3 yrs, too busy looking after my daughter, too busy working and unfortunately, the social life and sex life died 😥 Trying to get back on the saddle, it does feel like a mountain of a task, some say raising kids is easier, lol. Im not being nasty nor sexist about this, but SOME single mothers have it easier, when it comes to "picking up" their sex life, as most guys see "MILF" and know that they are hanging for it, and know they put out. Like most people on here, patience is the key
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RHP User
6 years ago
As a single parent who has the children 100% of the time I can tell you there is no easy way. I just resigned to the fact that I’ll not be in a relationship until the kids are grown, so maybe just aim to sneak sex in wherever you can and try to be happy with that? I’d love to have good advice but all I have is harsh reality, sorry. It’s a tough time for sure..good luck!
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RHP User
6 years ago
That was "Funny as fuck" Makes we wonder if THAT is the reason I don't do so well these days...Maybe I should get a few better looking mates and take a "Group" photo as a profile pic yeah??
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ignorant statement, most single mums are too tired to be "hanging for it" and will put their kids before a random root. The ones I know anyway. The guys Ive met have been great about the fact I have a son. They always respected that my time was limited. What used to irk me were the guys who asked to come over late at night. "You can sneak me in and I wont make a noise". As if. "You must be gagging for it".. Nope. OP, you will soon find that ladies worth their salt will respect the fact that you have children and work around your time to meet up.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I wouldnt say my comment was ignorant, as that comment i have made, was my observation on SOME single mothers, not ALL. I happen to know some single mothers who put their kids above all else, with the unfortunate to know some single mothers, that have gone the complete opposite. Just like how you have observed. Having said that, i dont tar everyone with the same brush i paint with. Its nice to see some people standing up for what they believe in. And i appreciate the insight
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