M45 F54
Single woman looking for couples
November 10 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is that the couple is what we desire, age, likes and so on. It's nice to see tasty pics, not just Pussies and Peckers, as we both have one. A thoughtful profile is always good, one that reads well, as we believe this can tell you a lot about a couple.
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RHP User
12 years ago
mmmmm i would like to know the same thing as teyy say the single girls are out there is so bloody hard to get one
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RHP User
12 years ago
Photos of both people, face and body shots. Preferably no mid-sex shots as I feel as though I've seen enough to have had sex with them, and if I feel that way already, what's the point?Well-worded profile stating clearly what they're looking for and obviously it ticks all the boxes if it fits what I'm looking for.
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Nudegetaways
12 years ago
Its near impossible to find a genuine single lady
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm glad I started a worthwhile forum !!!! There are so many profiles with one picture " saying Horny and in need of attention " Seriously, good profiles stand out and quality pictures of everyone Good luck Imyy4u great profile
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rk5tar
12 years ago
Quoting 'swingerranch' Its near impossible to find a genuine single lady Agree with swingerranch. So hard to find a genuine single lady. We'd prefer a single lady, as you never know whats going on in another person's relationship and I'd hate to be with someone who is cheating on their partner.Im finding it very slow going wherever I search. I don't mind being patient and getting to know people and meet them first. I like to see a face picture and a personally typed up profile rather than the template ones around. And a filled in profile that isnt full of "ask me".
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'swingerranch'Its near impossible to find a genuine single lady And was shocked at the amount of negativity in your profile. That certainly scared me of!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'rk5tar' Quoting 'swingerranch' Its near impossible to find a genuine single lady Agree with swingerranch. So hard to find a genuine single lady. We'd prefer a single lady, as you never know whats going on in another person's relationship and I'd hate to be with someone who is cheating on their partner. Im finding it very slow going wherever I search. I don't mind being patient and getting to know people and meet them first. I like to see a face picture and a personally typed up profile rather than the template ones around. And a filled in profile that isnt full of "ask me". I adore yours!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you're just not looking hard enough. The other thing you need to consider is that single ladies get hit up all the time....your profile and personality needs to speak to them. Being a single lady with a couple can be self sacrificing.....so what Do you couples offer to that woman? My experience is that couples can be a little self involved....and frankly...,there has to be something in it for me!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' My experience is that couples can be a little self involved....and frankly...,there has to be something in it for me! And I'm going to keep tri-ing.
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Nudegetaways
12 years ago
Its not just about you ( the single female) evryone should be able to feel comfortable you are single for a reason
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a single lady, I like the couple profiles to sound like both of them have made input into the profile. If it sounds like just the guy has written it, then I'm going to steer clear. Same goes for a profile that sounds like it's written by the girl, and includes this phrase or any variation of this phrase, "I'm looking for another girl to help me spoil my man". I'm not here to assist with your relationship point-scoring exercise! I like to see some photos of BOTH people in the pair, because I'm out to play with BOTH halves of the couple. Definitely no profiles just created from the templates either.. if I see "if we click, we PLAY", that's my cue to say NEXT!
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wannabyummymummy
12 years ago
as a married lady and part of a couple who plays and also plays alone i am flabergasted by the number of couples profiles that have only pics of the lady and no matter how much you ask you cant get a pic of him yet he is the one doing all the messages and chat When my hubby and i are meeting/chatting to someone new we do it TOGETHER and we have pics up of BOTH OF US it is a simple concept couple means two!! the profile itself is also important i want to feel like the couple have both had input into it, that they have thier act together as a couple and know what they want. and last but not least the message........ i dont need a 5000 word essay on why I should meet them but somehting with a bit of thought in it would be great not just 'hi what are you up to tonight'.Oh and last pet hate, when you do meet up and play and have a fantastic time only to have the guy contact you repeatedly later on to meet up with him on his own without wifey knowing about it, not cool!!There are a lot of couples who say that finding the elusive 'single female' or unicorn is virtually impossible and as a couple we dont really focus on trying to meet one as we beleive it will happen if it is going to happen but my experience has also been that find genuine couples, who are both into it equally and want the same things i do are equally elusive.
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are some lovely couples out there. But it does need to be a three way thing. Some couples profiles make it clear that it's all about them! Frankly who wants to play with a selfish lover(s)? When I play, be it with a man, a woman or a couple, I'm conscious that everyone involved should walk away having had a great time..... It's never about just one person even if the goal is to be a part of fulfilling their fantasy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
there are statistics that say a large percentage of married couple will stary at least once during their marriage.Aside from swingers, where it is a given and consensual (i guess, havent been there yet:( ).I am on the opposite end of the spectrum, seen couples profiles and responded, been invited for a hot cam session, and there is some guy by himself stroking his schlong.At least SAY u r by yourself.I have a 'single' lady friend (in my profile), who is actually not single. when she can, sh will try and get away from her ex footy player bf and give me a work-over.She is not ac/dc, but Will do it if it gets me off.We try to meet saturday nights, and she is always game for at least a 3-way (she has done lots of 3 ways and loves it, but never with me).if i can ever get a guy, or she will tolerate a couple. She does gets off on being with a woman, but I think only because she knows it would get me off watching:)Like i said, other than true swingers and swappers on here, I see a LOT of people who are 'on the sly', or just plain dont show
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'swingerranch' Its not just about you ( the single female) evryone should be able to feel comfortable you are single for a reason That was a rather un-called for low blow
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Mr_MrsJones
12 years ago
Quoting 'amuse_bouche' Quoting 'swingerranch' Its not just about you ( the single female) evryone should be able to feel comfortable you are single for a reason That was a rather un-called for low blow And after putting that attitude about single people out into the stratosphere you expect one of them to come to your bedroom to be your plaything?? I am sorry I am not a single female nor are we looking for one SPECIFICALLY. It is on my fucket list to be a 'third wheel' for a couple at some point but I am not actively looking because I feel if I put my hand up too high I will get drowned in requests from people. Whenever I have met a couple at a party or club (and sometimes on line) who are looking for a fantastical unicorn I almost immediately get a weird vibe about them. Most of the time they give off this feeling of "We are here, we have taken this massive step, where are all the women who are hot and ready to trot?" Maybe I am being cynical but comments like the one quoted just confirm my suspicions.
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Mr_MrsJones
12 years ago
I just re-read the original post and realised I didn't answer the question properly. As a couple looking for another couple we look at the following;Pics - must be of both perferably most of the body and a face either after the first message or with the initial flirt. Definitely NOT to be emailed later. It isn't a make or break but pics with other people who aren't part of the profile in them eg at parties or playing are really not interesting to us. Stats - Filled in please. We prefer non- smokers and people who rate themselves as atheltic or attractive. Description - Something imaginative and interesting. No standard responses or really long winded stuff that takes hours to read. Mrs Jones
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RHP User
12 years ago
Negative profiles really turn me off. All that no timewasters stuff- it's a given surely. I like photos of both, attractiveness. A sense of fun that you can see in their writing. Also, I hate bad grammar and spelling and text talk (ie. Love 2 chat 2 u)If they message me I'll reply if they seem to have read my profile and have responded to it instead of some standard message. If all their shots are restricted I presume they're bit creepy. If I think of more I'll let you know. And yes, I'm single for a reason- because I choose to be!
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RHP User
12 years ago
A good synopsis Awesome...we agree wholeheartedly :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hate getting involved in those situations. Also I have to be attracted to both. No way Im going to be with a guy just to be with the girl and vice versa. I have my preferences and those go to couples where he is dominant and wants two subs to satisfy him.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Awesome3743 - we a very much on the same wavelength! Negativity in profiles is a real turn-off for me too. I do like a bit of honesty and frankness, but not a moan and groan about no-shows etc. It's all part of the 'scene' and, whilst I'd never stand someone up last minute you do have to realise it sort of comes with the territory... As much as we wish it didn't! I also like a bit of their profile to describe each other from the other perspective, ie he describes her and she describes him. It gives me a feel (as much as an Internet profile can, anyway) for how they feel about each other, the strength of the relationship, the level of commitment and respect they have for each other. Written word is so tricky!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks to everyone who had input to this OP all comments and pointers were appriecated!! It was very good food for thought.... Think we will re address our profile a bit lol Stay wet Imyy4u
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just a note from us single girls,we are out there. Im single and seek couples but for myself its hard to find geniune couples. I have had for many years a couple i have being going to have play dates with. I meet them on RHP. I not only look at at the profile but before anything happens i must meet them for drinks , dinner so on. I feel that a not only do you need to be sexually attracted to someone but you also need to click with personalities. I not only like couples company in the bedroom but i also like to be friends with them. I like to suss out the situation between husband and wife also to make sure that its really what they want and ared oing it for the right reason. Would hate to tread on any toes. I also like honesty as well up front then no expectation needed or broken. If you find a geniune single female she will do her best to meet you half way. I know myself i have a few rules that i stick and tell the couples, single men that on first meet. I am also a very busy single mum that works full time has a young family if the couples are also geniune they will understand that this is life and be patient to when i can work something out. Hope it helped Cheers Party
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'swingerranch'Its not just about you ( the single female) evryone should be able to feel comfortable you are single for a reason I do agree with you that its not all about the single ladies/ men but its an equal thing each party has something to offer and bring to the table so to speak but on that same note its not just about what the couple wants either. Its all about each of the party enjoying themselves if one is expecting more then giving well im sorry i wont go there. Yes i am single for reason but i also have choices on who i sleep just because im single doesnt mean im desperate.
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RHP User
12 years ago
we dont actively look for 'single ladies', but regularly receive messages and flirts from them anyway...all ages, and from all over the country... they are out there, but obviously, they'd be in the position where they can be as particular, about who they'd like to meet, as they like......
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DTE_couple
12 years ago
We have noticed so many newbies thinking they can find a single female to come into a threesome with them and don't want another male present. Good luck with finding her we say. We love to share all our experiences, much more exciting with all involved !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Advent_couple'We have noticed so many newbies thinking they can find a single female to come into a threesome with them and don't want another male present. Good luck with finding her we say. We love to share all our experiences, much more exciting with all involved ! this is why we took the couples path loved every minute of it too but still that "not so elusive 3some" is now sounding easier to find :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meeting a single lass is actually quite easy!!! We meet and play with single woman just as much as couples, heres the thing, we have NEVER met, or had a reply from any single woman on RHP.. Woman need to know more about us than a few words and pics. Out in the real world we turn them on with wit, carisma, and by BEING IN TO EACH OTHER. All the woman we have played with say they have watched us from a far and are turned on by the way they see us (Troy in particular) interact with eachother. They seemed to be turned on by how we can be in a swingers club, and Troy doesn't even notice whats going on around him, (at times mind) because he's just turned on and showing it to me........what he doesn't realize at times is that he is actually on show!!! They seem to judge the male counterparts by how they treat their wives as to how they themselves might get treated. When it comes time to take that lovely lady into a room, with us it's all about her, we love to share her together, and Troy gets it on with both of us at the right moments to bring us both up and over the edge. One beautiful young lass even mentioned to us how we made her feel special and showed her respect she had never experienced before with couples, that most couples only treat her like she's a toy for only their pleasure. I think that's where most of the problem lies, in how you treat that woman, will impact on her future availability to couples, especially online!! And, its pretty much the same with the couples we play with, we're not looking to improve anything, nor are we trying to fullfill any such fantasies, we just like to play with another body and please it together. If its a couple all the better, more hands equal more fun for us. So our advise is to get out there, single or couple, its all the same. Go out to sex clubs like swingers clubs and not leave it to profiles......sure glad we dont. Sally
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RHP User
12 years ago
Everyone looks for something different.. But in Couples. I personally go for..First and foremost - Clear face pics of both of the couple. If the males missing, I will assume the worse and move on without an another thought. If I like what I see, then I look for whether our profiles and what we are looking for match up.Simple as that...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi we agree, that whether your a woman,man or couple.. Everyone involved is in it together and should experience the same sensations as each other,when playing whether it be three way or more no one should ever feel as though there not an equal, everyone should feel just as good as the others and visa versa,my hubby and I made sure we wrote our profile together, our pics were chosen and uploaded together and we always message or send flirts together, we couldn't imagine doing it any other way... Yes it's sometimes difficult to see/meet single women, but hey everyone must understand that, the single woman is putting herself right out there, and for her to feel 100% comfortable to do so must also not feel any kind of pressure or other to meet, play or other, all women,men,couples should only ever be respected and treated with sincerity, honesty and all of the above.... Also to not place expectations on them for anything upon a meet is good too, no one wants to be expected to do this or that, etc...... Lastly patience is a virtue, it goes along way and can either make or break any chance of meeting.... Truly great topic to bring to the fore, thank you xx ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
my wife and i are lookin for a single female as she has turned bi . and i fully support it. but it seems really hard to find anyone interested in meeting.... any ideas?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
belinda is my nam call me ill be your girl but i have a man too...mwah
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RHP User
12 years ago
belinda love it,,,,,,,,,,
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rc_80
12 years ago
"Hiiii...."Quoting 'bipetite' Awesome3743 - we a very much on the same wavelength! Negativity in profiles is a real turn-off for me too. I do like a bit of honesty and frankness, but not a moan and groan about no-shows etc. It's all part of the 'scene' and, whilst I'd never stand someone up last minute you do have to realise it sort of comes with the territory... As much as we wish it didn't! I also like a bit of their profile to describe each other from the other perspective, ie he describes her and she describes him. It gives me a feel (as much as an Internet profile can, anyway) for how they feel about each other, the strength of the relationship, the level of commitment and respect they have for each other. Written word is so tricky!
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madotara69
12 years ago
yes it is Mado the mr from us.Took forever to find the q button at first, now i am on a roll, especially with spell check. Tara (madotara69) yeah we are oldies 1969, she lets me do the typing because at first it kept me entertained for hours, gave her a chance to get all those important priorities taken care of with her house and kiddies. She has used reverse psychology to slow down the time that i used, chasing her around the house, she thinks ha. It only took about an hour to type this, so that didn't work.I am going to chase her around,she will let me catch her. Then she will read all this stuff from us and probably throttle me for saying things like, " she is not wearing any undies" She will tell me i am naughty, i tell her stupid is stupid does ( i nicked that line) then she feels naughty too.We started playing with a single guy, we had great fun and again, we are all friends still. Thats what this is all about hey?If a single girl wanted to play with us, she would need to meet the same requirements that a guy or couple we look for. Honesty, respect and all together equally having a good fun time.That took another hour, so if you think that our replies are long and dreary taking one or two minutes to read, sorry to have wasted your time, I spend the same sort of time pressing Tara's buttons too, she never gets bored. Plus we introduced ourselves live on the camera in the chat rooms and made it fun, and pics of us for you if you ask.Mado & Tara xx
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madotara69
12 years ago
Tara said "remember where i showed you how to find the a spot" I said "yes darling" She said "it is right next to that dear" I said ''aahhh'' never had trouble looking for the q again. It is quite surprising how many words have a q in them.qtie,quicky,quiet,quickly,quivering,quack,qupid pool q,bbq.So is that not what single girls wish to play with couples to say, o i c y u r a q t ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'imyy4u What do single woman that are looking for a couple to play with look for in a couple's profile i.e picture's, profile content or both? Also the same for couple's looking for other couple's what do you look for? My partner and I are new to this and are looking for either an experienced or newby to join us in our sexual adventure or we may explore the possibility of a couple. We have not yet had any luck but I can assure you that if we did have a singke lady she would certainly not be left out. She would be the one getting most of the attention from both of us. It is very hard to find a single lady but we have been very open and honest in our profile and are more tghan willing to supply photos and further information if requested but on the same token we are not going to post pics just to give some wanker his daily thrills so please single ladies and like minded couples dont give up and maybe stop by and check out our profile :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
a very confusing profile though Karen,it's a single woman's profile and then you say you are a couple
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RHP User
12 years ago
I feel a lot of the single women have couples on there profile as an attention thing as you'll find they'll chat to as there on been a guest but when say coffee they run but you can't police the fakes here - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hmmm, chiming in as I USED to be a single bi girl here (otherwise known as the elusive unicorn, lol)... The thing which always gave me pause with couples, to the point where I generally put couples altogether into my 'don't bother' pile, was the fact that every girl in a couple seems to be bi here - well, on paper - but on further chat or even meeting, it seemed like there were a lot of girls going through the motions to turn their fella on. So, as others have said here, I stayed right away from any profile which either looked like it was written by the guy, or by the girl clearly intimating that she and I would be performing like a couple of seals at the zoo for her partner's amusement! Yeesh! So what works? Obvious passion. Zest. Fun! Both parties being clearly into the idea of being here, and full of lust for each other and for sex! Those who don't look too professional about the whole thing - we don't want to be 'rostered in'. And agree with everyone else about photos. I kind of take it as read that boys have a penis and girls have lady bits. Although, if you want to send me a picture of your breasts, I'll never say no. :) MsKinkster x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Basically a lot put it on their profile. As to if its true or not is another thing. We are a couple but we want friends as well. Someone you can talk to have e laugh and good time. It may or may not lead to sex. If nothing happens you gained a friend. For some it's just having a one night stand though or giving it a try. For ourselves it's about respecting the women and ensuring a good time.- Posted from rhpmobile
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abcplus1
12 years ago
Fair comment. We have had no luck at all on this site. Lots messages to and from single ladies, but only ever one two who actually progressed to a meeting, and none went further than that. we have found that most on here don't seem to actually want to meet even after discussing it via email/phone. Have had better luck elsewhere :-) with almost an identical profile. So we are at the point where we are not sure this site is actually worth staying a member of.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with amuse_bouche, need to tick the right boxes first but I'd also like to add... I'd love to find a couple that's actually a couple!! 3 from 3 that I've set a meet n greet with have all ended with the man, within an hour or two of meeting, messaging me with a reason as to why their wife / partner can't join us tonight! But as he always tells me, it's fine she says we can meet without her... i'm very clear when communicating with my couples and arranging to meet... i have male FB/FWB ...i want to expand my play dates to play with couples and I'm not interested in playing with one half of a couple :-( Any advice?? Can i be clearer in anyway? FFJ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Damn Straight Single because I choose to be. Cheers!
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have been searching for a single lady for about 12 months still with no lucky. Frustrating - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well all I watch is horny cocks over flashing tits and single women wantin msn chat if there women and had few male from couple wanting play with out there partner as a couple we have no expectation of what happens but wish people be real - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hmmmm, I considered a three way on my own with another couple and with my hubby's consent. What I found was that a three way connection was almost impossible to find. Mostly the women looked after themselves but the male partners were not great, or vice versa. It was as though I could Find one hotty but then would have to 'take one for the team' with the other person. Hotness isn't just looks btw. Given that my own hubby is Hot, I saw no need to compromise and sacked the whole idea. From the couples perpective, When we meet a lady for FFM we make a meet date and keep it, we both meet her. We are conscious to show an interest in the woman as a person not just a human sex toy. Women playing with a couple are taking quite a risk and when we have had FFM we make certain the lady feels safe and comfortable and feels like one of three playmates, not like an 'extra'. Must say though, I get really annoyed when the woman we meet spends three days prior to a meet sending filthy sexts and videos to my hubby and tries for extra alone time after the event. Makes me wonder, do they really want a threesome or just my super hot husband? It sure is a minefield!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
im a single seeking woman or couple but to be honest it would be highly unlikely i would go with a couple for the simple fact its harder to be attracted to the both of them. the exception is if the woman can play and the man watched. or if i wanted to fuck one of them that bad ill take the other one on if i had to. in reading couples profiles i look to see if its not just something she is doing for him and more that they both want it and there a strong couple and theres not going to be any jelousy issues and no awkwardness if someone touches or kisses one and the other one didnt want that to happen. the couple has to be all in it or not at all for me. i dont know if that makes sense its 2:30am anyway thats my feelings on the subject xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
congrats to all of the couples who do include others in their adventures, its a real symbol of a strong relationship and trust.im sure there are many people who 'want to' but don't have that relationship with their partner and hopefully this topic might allow some people to develop their relationships further in that way.i for one, would love to push that boundary with my next partner if the dynamics permit.well done.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am a single girl and wanting to meet other girls.... I actually don't even look for couples as there are quite a few who contact me as it is. I have to meet people in real life to see if the vibe is right and for a threesome to work then it has to be attraction to everyone involved. Couples should include some face shots and some body shots (with clothes/lingerie) just to get an idea of what they look like and anything else is up to them, but profiles don't necessarily equate to the dynamic so they are a first glimpse only. Jay.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Single women meeting a couple for fun, we after 2 years and hundreds of MDG still never meet one that had all her own teeth, lol We don’t think there are many out there that do meet couples may be 1 in a hundred, most like the thought of it but when it comes to that time, they back out. So if you’re a couple on RHP looking to meet an attractive single girl your chances are better at winning the lotto, lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have tried for some time . With some success but I think you just have to look at the amount of couples replying to this compared with single ladies . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Attractive, easy going, none pushy, slim, fit, happy, fashionable, able to hold a intelligent conversation and down to earth.. These are comments made to us by those who know us and the sometimes those who dont. This' you would think would be enough to attract the occassional single lady seriously looking to experiment with a couple seeking the same. But no.... Plenty who veiw our profile, but not too many willing to step outside their comfort zone and follow up. Its not as though we present a danger of any kind, because we prefer to meet in a mutual location first so we can judge if the chemistry is right. If theres nothing doing, We all go our own way with no hard feelings. Makes us wonder if the ' single lady ' is only a myth.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Me and my bf have been looking for a threesome for ages on this site nothing has ever really followed through do you think we are to young for this site or is it out profile? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think it's the same with everyone - a good detailed profile that is worded well with no spelling mistakes is a start and let's admit it guys... It's the pic that gets a persons interest - male or female -if u are not attracted to the person then once u get past the small talk there is no where to go . so my advice is ....word your profile well and post some hot pics - face shots especially - I'm with a few of the other guys - I can live without seeing your privates - what I want to see is a fun , happy couple smiling ...hope this helps :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I understand good pics and write a bit about what couples looking for to high light things, but seriously what do single females want you to write, cum fk me now one or other. is it hard for the singles to even ask or chAt or coffee instead of excuses on how a profile looks seems be all talk - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm a single lady who wants to explore her sexuality through intimate connection with a couple. And that is the key word: Connection.... So what gives a connection? A lot of it has already been said. A well worded profile. This is difficult to define, but yes - please watch for the negatives. I want to feel that I am going to share a special encounter with a loving couple. I like very much to see face and body shots. It might work for some single ladies, but I can assure you, a dick in the mouth profile pic will NOT do it for me. I like to think of myself as a sensual classy woman, and I would prefer a tasteful body shot in the man pic. My special interest is the woman's body and having the man involved is, for me, an added bonus. So I would like to see tasteful body shots of both of them. I understand the need for privacy, so in the private gallery, it would be good to see smiling face shots. I am going to be attracted to people who look like they know how to have fun. Please SMILE!!!! It goes a long way. I have had only one connection with a gorgeous couple who treated me very well, and respected me so much that I wondered if we were ever going to get started.... lol.... this is not a bad thing. They made me feel very special, and they were very concerned that I was enjoying myself as well. For this reason, I know we will continue to catch up in the future. Couples also have to understand, that no matter how good looking they are, sometimes the CONNECTION is just not there. I think it is correct to say that single ladies are hard to find, as I have had to decline a great many people, and there are some couples that I have felt would be great to meet, but I haven't had the time to set up meetings with them. I have been inundated with messages, so my usual response lately is that I am not replying to winks and messages right now. That's all, I hope it helps couples that are searching. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was a single lady once... years ago now :P I remember that I would look for people who had tasteful pics (i.e. no cock in vag shots as the main profile pic) and appeared to have written something about themselves in their profiles. Didn't want an essay, just a few sentences about who they were and what they might be like to have dinner with. For me, I like the lead-up (dinner, drinks, coffee etc) and flirting just as much as the sex. I was turned off when after I had responded to someone, I only ever got to speak to the male half of the couple, it seemed like the chick just wasn't into it or was perhaps being coerced into it by her partner. Not on!Another turn-off was when the couple wanted me to drop everything and meet up then and there. Ummm... no thanks, at 9.30pm when I was checking my RHP messages, I was usually in my pj's sipping a hot chocolate and not that interested in getting dressed and driving somewhere to screw some randoms who wanted me to buy their condoms on the way. At least be prepared people! If people came across with too strong an expectation to play on the night, that was a huge turn-off. I've always disliked sex with random strangers or one-night stands, but that's just me I guess, I need some form of friendship potential there for me to get it on.I did meet up with a few couples (a couple of them regularly) in my young and single days and had heaps of fun. They were the ones who had written something funny, had nice, smiling recent pics of BOTH partners, no huge pictorial emphasis on their sex organs, and when we chatted on MSN, it was BOTH speaking and we would arrange to meet on a DIFFERENT night without any heavy expectations. I dunno if my creep meter is higher than others, but personal safety was a concern for me when single. Now as a couple, I think I prefer meeting couples to a single gal. We have a couple of couples that we're "friends with benefits" with. It's a huge turn-on for us watching each other flirt with other people. And all the different combinations you can get into in the bedroom are so much fun! I still look for the same things in peoples profiles when looking for a couple to play with us.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Single women that meet - never found one Unicorn - we found one We are genuine, we are real, you can touch and feel us if you like - hahah. We never meet separately. Unfortunately disappointing that people never follow through At the end of the day we go out and enjoy ourselves if the girls that are going to meet us never do well no skin off out nose but like everything in life you get only so many chances
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N4November
12 years ago
As a previous single girl, I was swamped by flirts and messages. Flirts are a waste of time to me unless they were tasteful pics and they were located nearby. I often just felt like a vagina to be used purely for someone's own gratification. To a degree, we all have sex for this reason but surely giving and receiving pleasure without agenda must be achievable for some couples out there?! In profiles a common mistake is that they will say it is to fulfill a fantasy or her hubby wants to watch blah blah blah NEXT! I don't know you and don't owe you anything so why would I do this if its just about you?! From my perspective, couple's have caught my attention because they want to EQUALLY enjoy me without an agenda and without obvious 'ownership' issues between them. NSA sex is Devine but few people actually know how to play that way! I had a fantasy that a couple would make me their girlfriend and we would enjoy our time mutually with heaps of sex and laughs thrown in!! And spoil me a little bit too! My advice is to read her profile and try to understand what she is looking for and WRITE to her if you are genuinely interested. And leave your expectations out of it and let the experience evolve naturally!
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have been on here as a genuine, honesty, clean couple. We have had a probably max 5 people that we have had chats via RHP as well as MSN. But we have found that they all 'talk the talk" but non can 'walk the walk'. They even go so far as not to reply during the conversation you are having with them, or call you by someone else's profile name.....Ah hello, rudeness. We are just wanting to meet someone to have a fun experience, where everyone is comfortable with all that is taking place. It is a very daunting experience for all that are there. So after reading what people have said on this post, I am going to go back to the drawing board so to speak and see if maybe we need to change some things on our profile......? Feel free to drop by..... A :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some couple profiles (from those that have messaged me) only have pics of the females, why is this? Where are the male pics??? After all its a 'couple' play date I'm after so I'd like to see his pics too, body shots are fine, doesn't need to be penis pics.
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RHP User
12 years ago
*NOTE: just discovered the Adult Forums link on RHP... normally too busy looking at all the pretty pictures... ;) I think I must be a unicorn!! Having said that hold off on the messages and flirts.... I started my profile on RHP as a single bi female, I have all my teeth (even NO fillings!!!) , am attractive, articulate and with enough life experience to be able to decide for myself what my sexual experiences will be. In every instance that I have arranged to meet with someone / a couple / I have always held my end of the bargain as it comes down to basic good manners. I am attracted to couples in a committed relationship, and generally older than, or around my age (34) as I believe with age comes wisdom and I don't have the time to counsel or guide younger couples just looking to get off on their GF with another female. Pics of both parties are important, you need to have an attraction to both or else it's just bleeding obvious, but it's the face to face chemistry that is utmost... I'd HATE to think that i'd just played with a couple that are just doing it to fill a void in their meaningless / sexless relationship. The more into each other they are the more I know they're in a good place and are relaxed. Send a message, not a template, and explain who you are and what you're looking for.... if you don't get a reply move on..... My couples experiences on RHP as a single female have been awesome, one couple in particular will be dear to me for a very long time and we pretty much got straight into it after a couple of hours of chit chat and fidgeting.... we've found that elusive dynamic and know it!! Now, as a couple looking for another couple (I play alone and with my man...) it's a bit different.. there's other feelings and desires to be taken into account.... I'm still working out how to play as a couple rather than as a single female and so far it's not so easy!! The whole psychology behind this lifestyle and why we do it is fascinating and I plan to let it evolve at it's own pace and find myself attracted to couples that aren't too 'out there' and appreciate the same. Like attracts like, peoples!!
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