RHP

RHP User

M45

Singles and swingers

April 08 2016

My question is for all the Rhp family Now as a single male on this site i find my strike rate is lower than that to when i had a partner and swung Partner and i seperated mutually but nothing to do with us swinging i kept the profile handle but dropped it back to a single profile has this hindered my strike rate? Or have i not put enough effort into my single profile? I am quite often in the chat room but that seems to have died off a lot since Rhp has changed its format plus i find it's more couples chatting. Should i maybe focus on a different site orientated at singles? All feedback is welcome Cheers

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    all that the difference in strike rate means..... Is you had a hot partner :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hi, I'd say just a few minor tweaks to your profile. If I were you, I'd add some more pictures (yes yes I_touch is a visual creature) showing your body. You look to have a great body so why hide it, show it off I think you're good looking, tall, smiling in your main picture is great. The last picture doesn't really work I don't think. You want people to take you seriously for sex/intimacy, that picture probably doesn't help, especially with what's visible in the background. Lose the template 'I admit that I'm a sexual animal......' and write something personal. I can't tell you what to write and neither can anyone else because it's your profile but try to make it personal. Sex is personal. But, look I'm old all that, but if it's any comfort, I'd fuck you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Don't you remember when you were a couple, how you were hit up by all the single males? That's because there were a lot on this site. Now you are one of them. You have gone from a comfortable pool of couples with a decent ratio to being a single male seeking single females where the ratio is severely outnumbered. Mathematics say you strike rate is going to be a lot less.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Way harsh babe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    "I'm looking nsa fun to start with but if something further develope's that's just a bonus" - most ladies don't like the term 'nsa' its a common theme on the forums ... if required on your safe sex preference may be putting some off but if its honest- leave it. I agree with better pics but you do have a lot more competition here as a single male then you did as a couple so its likely just coming down to that.

  • Rockme2018

    Rockme2018

    9 years ago

    No feedback, but I know the feeling IMY, same thing happened to me earlier this year after 7 years as a couple. Revamped my profile and my pics, but its a lot harder to get a response and meet people now that I'm just one of many single males. I hear ya.

  • Dorey12

    Dorey12

    9 years ago

    IMYY4U your post makes for interesting reading, as you have a similar past story and it's now where I find myself now too. I too am not having any luck with this site or any other site to be honest. I don't think focusing on a different site will really change things. Maybe I should start my own post for critique on my profile, lol. Good luck IMYY4U with your search.

  • scubaboy69

    scubaboy69

    9 years ago

    In a bizarre change, my strike rate improved dramatically after becoming single again two months ago.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Although i appreciate the critiques i just wanted general feedback which i am getting and thankful for the one thing i will pass on to you Dorey12 is stay positive no matter the situation you get back what you give out in lifegood luck searching!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    so finally, someone who actually listened to our advice, can't blame the others though, we talk shit most of the time. Well maybe I should speak for myself Soooooooo I checked out your profile again lol as I do, just in passing and saw your have your body on show, nice one, you look awesome, you're in great shape, and I see you now admit you're a deviate lol I should do the same, should go and edit mine It's a fun read and personal. It sounds genuine and you sound down to earth and enthusiastic, not to mention honest, re the mention of previous couples profile, now single profile, all helps potential playmates to get to know you a bit. Your sense of humour comes out. Nice one Good luck. I hope you have lots of fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    loved when you said 'preferring quality over quantity although with the right quality comes quantity' couldn't have said it better myself. Mind if I use that?