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Singles guys contacting couples and females
November 18 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think most couples get the odd message from single guys who are rude and full of him self. Some are just plain old fat and creepy. Both most likely havnt read your profile and have just messages away.There isn't to much you can do about it other than blocking them. One idea is to not tick the box for single men even if you are seeking them. You can then just go searching yourself and message the select few single men you like. This way you are only cosponsoring with the guys you both like. Rather than leaving your profile open to all manner of males who think they are what you need LOL.You both seem to have a nice profile best of luck with your search.Tim
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RHP User
13 years ago
In thier minds eye they are "THE MAN". The stud muffin... so why wouldnt you want him? He looks in the mirror and in his mind he sees the person he was 20 odd years ago. Of course you are a slut. You are on this site arent you? You must be. Obviously you are not the type to take home to Mum now are you? You dont want to marry him and have his babies...you only want sex so why should he try? (tongue in cheek for those that dont get written humour) I had one charming nman send me a message telling me he was here for a good time was I? Naturally I replied "Yes. But not here for a quick fuck either". He was most upset and kindly gave me the web addresss for a vanilla site. Moron. I ripped him a new one in reply and blocked him. Gotta feel for them. I mean it is not thier fault they are turkeys and can not soar with us eagles is it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Surely they can figure odds will increase dramatically with their own age group, or if they want nearly half their age maybe one of those mail order brides. We wonder as well when a couple in their late 20s / early 30s approach us....why? we want our own age group!
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Moment_In_Time
13 years ago
corsaandlilg, I understand your frustration, but it is time to turn that frown up side down by giving you a paradigm shift. Instead of being annoyed by their rudeness, be greatful that they are showing off their lack of suitability so obviously and so early on. It is the dating equivilent of them getting a Darwin Award. They are improving your dating pool by removing themselves from it ... and all that without you having to waste any time actually meeting them! Keep Smiling!
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contemplating1
13 years ago
Yes, it would be nice if there was a lil more RESPECT in communication at times. Gee it was nice, cosaandlilg, that you even replied to a message from such a " mismatched" profile! Hard to understand the way some carry on! Anyways, hope you find some gr8 experiences here anyway! Have a good 'un! P.S. Ha, you comments above gave me a good laugh Fionabee.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some people just think because there more open about things on here, so should everyone else. My first perception on coming to this website was instant hook ups. Free sex!! and 3somes. I live in Dianella and you live in Nollamara, lets get it on because you just live in the next suburb. Thats bad ay.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Good topic. Sometimes I will message/comment on a profile if there is something which interests me, but never "HIT ON" the person or couple, and am careful to not be suggestive in a sexual manner. More often them not, I get a "Thank you" in return SOMETIMES we may end up chatting for a few messages, AND in every once in a while, it has gone a little further. I do believe one or two of the regular contributors to these forums may be in one of those lists. :) A little respect goes a long way BUT, as the saying goes... There will NEVER be equality in men and women until a woman can walk dow the street half bald, in a pair of stubbie shorts with a beer gut hanging out from under a short T shirt, wearing thongs with a can of beer in one hand, a fag in the other and STILL think she looks SEXY :) caveman x
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RHP User
13 years ago
guys contact couples they have no chance of meeting, in the hope that someone might respond........we are here, like others, to fulfill fantasy......they dont see that the married, fat, bald, short,gimpy legged, ugly, smoking,hairy,rude, toothless men might not be the vast majority of peoples idea of a 'fantasy' playmate......
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RHP User
13 years ago
We agree, we're not here for the entertainment value of the wanna be's.. If someone contacts us we naturally look for some connection eg: looks , body type and personality. Not that we are not easy to get along with' far from it ' its just that because we have taken the time to present ourselves well' we sorta like to think whoever it is we link up with would have the same wants.. Our theory is if the meet works and all are happy, theres a good chance the rest will follow.We are as described in our profile and prepared to back that up...BTW.. corsaandlilg..... thx for the flirt... opportune time for this post... lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why is it just because us women on this site love sex just like the men on here. We are sluts and whores but the guys are studs giive me a fucken break MENWHORES. But there are some very nice men out there too honey. Just like everything you get the bad and the good. Just block the bastards and move onto having funny again honey its their loss. Dont let them get too u keep on smiling
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dear Mike, We need your advise, we are not here to fullfill fantansy. We are here because we like having sex with others providing they meet our standards. How do you recommend we overcome our moral wrong doing? You see it feels good and we want more.
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Manwhore" what a beauty. As for unsuitable men making themselves available, it's going to happen. Takes all types.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'justenough' Dear Mike, We need your advise, we are not here to fullfill fantansy. We are here because we like having sex with others providing they meet our standards. How do you recommend we overcome our moral wrong doing? You see it feels good and we want more. cant help u guys....we just know if someone suits our play 'wants' or not....maybe its a chemical thing, perhaps aesthetics...but its not 'sex for sex's sake'....otherwise we'd be saying yes to many more of the people who message and flirt with us each month........we are fussy about what we feel is attractive, and whats not.......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'justenough' Dear Mike, We need your advise, we are not here to fullfill fantansy. We are here because we like having sex with others providing they meet our standards. How do you recommend we overcome our moral wrong doing? You see it feels good and we want more. ....you guys are welcome to the married, fat, bald, short,gimpy legged, ugly, smoking,hairy,rude, toothless men..... maybe then they'll stop sending us flirts and messages....it just messes up our day.... and our fantasies.....lol... hey i know..... we can give them your msn/yahoo address when they ask to chat.. .... would that help you overcome?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok well I would love to meet a sexy couple and forfill not only their fantasy but mine as well ? I have spoken with lots of couples but never had the pleasure to meet. Gee I didn't think i was that ugly .. lol but hmmm... I can just imagine some of the messages that must be sent by some of the guys on here but not all of the guys are morons! Some are acctually looking for the same thing as some of the sexy couples on here. They just need to be given a chance .. You just have to find them .. by the way i am jumping up and down saying pick me pick me .. lol Ozzymano xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Butt Mike, We really need you to put us on track, You see we like conventional swinger sex. It does not have to breaking new ground or new fantasy. We just enjoy intercourse. . Tell US what we should do, so we stop enjoying routine sex with the opposite sex. . BTW, we have been recommending others contact you for years that get a bit umm ambitious.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I guess if you throw enough out there.... somewhere along the line something has to stick. Numbers game perhaps...That maybe their theory!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'newbs64'I guess if you throw enough out there.... somewhere along the line something has to stick. Numbers game perhaps...That maybe their theory! yea thats what we thought..... might work for some....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok mikeandshel all I can say is WOW ...... Well done Mike .... Shel your smokin hot. Just thought that needed to be said thats all.. Ozzymano xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
point 1 Most of these guys have no personality are not clean and cant get a woman. (desperate) point 2 Even just recently have and we have played with younger couples around late 20s age is not a barrier sex wise and yes you have to like eachother at least. Now that I have hit 50 I have put on some kilos and am cuddly yet still more active that some younger guys and as for the wife,since the histerectomy she is now cuddly but still can turn a head or make it erect . LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
We get old men(as well as young) contacting us all the time wanting to play with ME(the female) alone. Must of missed the fact that we have a COUPLES profile.Idiots.
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