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February 05 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I suppose you're talkng about his cock yes? If so how big?
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
if you write his name and size he's about to get a lot of views and flirts!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Really? I've not heard of that kink before.
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RHP User
12 years ago
the exact same issue
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Smiley_Couple
12 years ago
This can be a challenge, I have struggled to take a particulary large cock... take it slow and lots of lube.... have him take it slow easing into you and enjoy him filling you it can be done just not rushed.... once you have 'accomodated' him inside the movement and pace can be picked up. Enjoy and have fun
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inspirit
12 years ago
Never heard of it being called this before either. Google it
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
What is hats?
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RHP User
12 years ago
R and T sit next to each other on the keyboard,so do D and S......I too love hard and fast OP..and as for hats,well some people love 'em,Dr Seuss and his cat,the Man Who Mistook His Wife For a Hat,ladies at the races,cool dudes with their fedoras and and old Aussie blokes with their titfas...oh and don't forget the Dutch cap...hats we love 'em
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a Spanish partner before who had a very large cock that I used to call him batman because his cock was almost as big as a baseball bat. I told him he had to make me cum before he can fuck me because an orgasm causes a spike in your oxytocin, testosterone and estrogen levels which makes your vaginal canal very lubricated and pliable.The next time around I always had a lube and oxy-testo-estrogen cream, rubbed them on my vagina even before we began. When we broke up he almost cried because he said no other woman enjoyed his cock that way. So my advise is get your vaginal canal prepped for his cock - a lot of foreplay and cum first before you fuck him in shallow positions. If he is smart he should control his pumping speed and depth to your comfort. If not, go the hormone way. Hope this helps.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Honestly, there's more to fucking than just burying your self in someone. It's actually really lovely just fucking someone with the tip of your cock when your really hard.I'm not actually big.. But I did have a lover with an absolutely tiny cunt once. We just took it slowly and over time (a month or so) she actually made space for me. She relaxed and even stretched a little? The patience involved made this a lovely process.Though i do have a fetish for being wrapped in pussies that have given birth now ~smiles~BTW, what other accessories do you like? ~laughs~
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some times/often vaginas are a bit tense and slightly contracted....stress, luck of trust, bad sexual history, lack of loving , etc.In my experience with time and providing that there is a connection, trust and wanting to...during the sexual/loving act the vagina will relax, becoming softer, more open, more inviting and by becoming softer and less tense it will allow the penis to penetrate deeper without pain and force.This is a conscious exercise into relaxation and invitation from the woman side and a patience and loving from the male side.Unfortunately, in common society there is this beliefs that vaginas need to be tight, hard and have muscle to give more pleasure.For me there is nothing better than a relax, open, inviting and welcoming vagina. Softness and openness here are key factors.Just my thoughts :) :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hearin your pain Wantingmorenow - it can be an awkward situation for both parties.I have been with a man..lets just say a little well endowed..an Empire State Building size - was a lot of fun. I found at that time pf being intimate with each other we both needed to feel very relaxed.I when I say relaxed I mean I have to let go of those feelings of excitement, that intense rush, relax my pelvic muscles and didn't tense them up as much. It's about controlling them. Because sometimes when they enter the muscles are tense..like a clasp!Wrong timing...timing of entering has to be right.The guy to has to feel relaxed as well...not get caught up in the moment.I feel relaxed to if the guy is into making sure I am OK and vice-versa - enjoying the intimacy.For us the best position was side or on-top. Side was great as better penetration...Anal was out of the question!!It does not mean there is nothing wrong with you both. Your vagina and his penis may not be a match.He needs to also keep in mind and respect that a woman's body can only handle so much.. SUPERFOX
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its about relaxing, taking it in slowly.. and plenty of lube.. Too fast or hard and she will tense up..And yes' not all are compatible.. but the trying is fun...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had met a man a few years back with a very big cock, very good looking I must add. Im guessing about 10 and a half inches. It wasnt very enjoyful to say the least.... And yes all he wanted was to fuck anally, did try it but FUCK it killed hence why I dont enjoy anal lol He got the flick that day...
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you message me his name .................... The thing with ducking big cocks is like others have said , you need to be relaxed and thoroughly aroused . As a woman becomes aroused her vagina elongates , and allows deeper penetration , if at all tense or worried this will affect arousal . Length is hard over 9 inches without hitting a wall, girth is easier to fuck . I like the feeling of being full and stretched and the after feeling of being fucked hard , but I need to be 100% aroused !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'rhpmd' I had a Spanish partner before who had a very large cock that I used to call him batman because his cock was almost as big as a baseball bat. I told him he had to make me cum before he can fuck me because an orgasm causes a spike in your oxytocin, testosterone and estrogen levels which makes your vaginal canal very lubricated and pliable.The next time around I always had a lube and oxy-testo-estrogen cream, rubbed them on my vagina even before we began. When we broke up he almost cried because he said no other woman enjoyed his cock that way. So my advise is get your vaginal canal prepped for his cock - a lot of foreplay and cum first before you fuck him in shallow positions. If he is smart he should control his pumping speed and depth to your comfort. If not, go the hormone way. Hope this helps. But I totally understand what you are saying. Rather I was seeing a woman that was smaller down there. I'd try plenty of foreplay and especially making her come before me penetrating and that also with lube. She enjoyed it and hence I was allowed to enjoy. Nothing worst than someone going No!, Ouch! and squirming around and a "Hurry up" look on their face... Though I cant speak of experience
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RHP User
12 years ago
The width I am used to and wow :) but the length is Mmh I will have to measure him but he only gets about 3/4 of the way before it justdoesn't fit lol. He is lovely and gentle and lots of foreplay which helps but still can't accommodate him, will def keep trying ;) I'm only new on here and thanks for the replies :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Haha hats, oops hard and fast that was meant to be - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
He has control over how much of it he pushes in he can am not use it all.... Though its got to hurt if he overshoots the mark.If its a tightness thing that's a different story. I never found a solution and it killed two relationships.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Please I can hear you and your making me blush... Its not THAT Big
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RHP User
12 years ago
i want to know How Big ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was with a guy who was hung... oh so hung.. it was lovely to look at but it scared the hell out of me.. Even though he was gentle it was never really comfortable. I also enjoyed hard and fast at times and no matter how I tried, it hurt. Giving him head was also an issue as gagging was impossible to avoid. To be honest after we broke up I was almost relieved.. Warning... The next guy was half his size... Boy was that an eye opener.. I went from trying to relax all my muscles to full on pelvic floor and core excersies !!! Be careful what you wish for ..... Just saying :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
lol soo girls check my profile... is my cock too big? cause throughout my life its been 50/50.. im rather long.. and rather thick and some girls have loved it and some girls cant do it.. even had to date a few large girls so i could feel the feeling of being able to put my cock all the way in.. but i LOVE I MEAN LOVE little ladys with little pussys.. i have always struggled with this and sometimes wished i had a few inches smaller so i could enjoy sex with the type of girl i love to fuck - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
From your profile picture , no your not too big , or what I would call big :) where are you measuring it from ? ............ Also I hate to break it to you but pussy size or depth has little to do with a womans weight ( where the fuck did you hear that from ?) Have you ever been to Thailand ? Those tiny ladies can fuck a baseball bat , then have a cigarette , from their pussy ! I would say though to most women your cock shouldn't be an issue.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wanting he needs to just do 3/4 strokes rather than try to ram it home. Yu might find that things change after a while. I have had times were certain girls struggled with my size and others that love it...it's a matter of adjusting your technique for her...after all, getting her off is the main objective
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've been reading the responses with interest since I'm having a similar issue at the moment, and I've never really had to deal with it before (only one guy previously was too big for me but that was a once only thing). In my case lack of arousal / lubrication and not being relaxed enough definitely weren't factors...at least not at first. I think he is just too long for me It's not just the fact that I can't enjoy my favourite positions or go hard like I love to....I also wonder how it can be enjoyable for him when he has to be constantly careful and mindful about how deep he can go?? Just like you OP, it's affecting my confidence because I feel like I'm not able to provide him with the type of sexy, uninhibited experience that I can normally give my sexual partners. Obviously this applies to oral as well....I can barely fit half of him in there because he's quite thick as well. We have discussed it and he has made it clear that he wants to see me again and work out ways that we can have sex without me ending up really sore - and not the good sore - afterwards. And I do want to see him again as well as he's certainly got some skills....but then that makes me wish even more that we could really let go with each other as I think it would be amazing.... Best of luck to you OP....may we both be able to work out ways to keep playing with the big boys...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Size really DOES matter :p *whistles innocently as he skips away*
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jackbro284' lol soo girls check my profile... is my cock too big? cause throughout my life its been 50/50.. im rather long.. and rather thick and some girls have loved it and some girls cant do it.. even had to date a few large girls so i could feel the feeling of being able to put my cock all the way in.. but i LOVE I MEAN LOVE little ladys with little pussys.. i have always struggled with this and sometimes wished i had a few inches smaller so i could enjoy sex with the type of girl i love to fuck - Posted from rhpmobile Well all I can say....I viewed a lovely well hung man from Karratha - WA just recently. :)and well I have some news for you. Check out some other men's penises there - you'll find out how REALLY "big" yours is...If you weren't for a woman's "pussy" - you'd be f*cked!!Learn how to appreciate a woman first then her "pussy" - then you'll be able ease right in. SuperFox PS- Some women don't like their vagina's called Pussy. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Women have always struggled with my size.They love to stroke it and I love to have it stroked, but no matter what we try none can handle all of me at once. Seems I'm best experienced in small doses.Mrs C finds it easier to take if she just ignores it sometimes. Other times she is keen to tease it and hope it deflates.It is a burden, but that's the way I am and women have just had to learn to deal with it.What? Oh sorry, I thought you said ego? My bad...Mr C
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a FB that has an awesome cock,yeah it hurts a little but after a couple of thrusts it is great and to make him feel better when he is fucking me hard, I say "ishat all you've got" LOL Just relax and enjoy I say. BTW find it hard sucking this cock, but i try :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't want to say you ladies haven't tried to relax etc, I'm sure you've done your damndest! But if it's a biggie you need plenty of time and patience. Not over one night and certainly not sporadically. Sadly the cervix doesn't expand if your aroused like it does in childbirth. Hormones can be selective. My personal experince has been that it's the slowly slowly approach of stretching over time. Same as say anal, you start with fingers, move onto small toys etc. over time. Perhaps mutual masturbation for a while until you can stretch. Same as fisting, you don't just go there in the first 5 minutes. Good luck with it all though. And you can leave your hat on... (sorry, that was poor)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have never ever met a man that is just too big and let me assure you all that I have met some very very big boys in my time....lucky me!!!! If in the missionary position, you reach one hand down between the two of you and wrap those fingers tightly around his penis...then he can go as hard and fast as he likes and your hand can act as a stopper and keep a few inches in play externally. You can also vary the pressure, make it tigher, with that hand. You may need a little wriggling to get that hand down there though and a certain amount of nubility may be needed.
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RHP User
12 years ago
PMSL!
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RHP User
12 years ago
And women like to say that men need to harden the fk up! when we do they complain,we cannot win !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Hun ..Oh! that was funny especially as I had a visual of you doing that ha!ha!ha! Nothing like being multi talented and flexible ha!ha! Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just see your situation an as opportunity to get to know each other a bit slower than normal. Heaps of open communication and foreplay.... You lucky lucky girl.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If a head can fit out there, then a large penis can fit in there...;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a partner who was quite large - thick and long. The thickness was uh_ma_zing but the length was a bit tricky. Whether we had a quicky or a slower more passionate time, it was always intense and wonderful. I learnt to adjust my hips to avoid being hurt and he was super aware of my reactions, so he stopped immediately if I grimaced even a tiny bit. Oral was very tricky - I have a small mouth, he has a big **** :( I think how_far is right, it's all about taking time with each other and finding a rhythm that suits you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
lol long one here girls if u wanna know the feeling lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jackbro284' lol soo girls check my profile... is my cock too big? cause throughout my life its been 50/50.. im rather long.. and rather thick and some girls have loved it and some girls cant do it.. even had to date a few large girls so i could feel the feeling of being able to put my cock all the way in.. but i LOVE I MEAN LOVE little ladys with little pussys.. i have always struggled with this and sometimes wished i had a few inches smaller so i could enjoy sex with the type of girl i love to fuck - Posted from rhpmobile Jackbro are you implying that larger size woman have a larger vagina? Because I can say with my experience with my own vagina I was a size 22 and now a size 16. That infact I've been told by some lovers that I'm very tight considering I have had children and I also don't have a very long lets call it vaginal canal . So indeed its true that even small petite woman can accept a larger penis also. I did not look at your penis because I thought you needed some education first.
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RHP User
12 years ago
People have this problem with me. Before I even meet them. Some people are not interested because of size but gentle is possible and can still be enjoyed.
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'nicesingleguy30' People have this problem with me. Before I even meet them. Some people are not interested because of size but gentle is possible and can still be enjoyed. You have a WMD boy not a penis.... >>>>>runs and hides behind del.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That says size doesn't matter....really can't be telling the truth.
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RHP User
12 years ago
In the words of Monty Python"lucky, lucky bastard".If only....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why bother Sex should be spontaneous and instant when needed by both or multiple parties. Taking chemical preparation for a cock olympic effort is a waste of time. What happend to girls belief that its about how u use it. Now cum n talk to me!
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trouble__maker
12 years ago
...lover indicate (complain?) i was too big. happiest day of my life :) the rest have all been pleasantly satisfied (except one, but i digress i was too drunk to get the front door open so that was doomed from the start)..
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RHP User
12 years ago
So i try to take note and psy sttention to that signal. Most positions are do-able, but from behind I have to be extremely aware of not going to deep as no woman wants sex to be painful. It does get a little frustrating at times because us fellas get carried away and then we get told its causing pain which is a turn off to both involved. Hope this helps Don't feel bad, it's par for the course, and should be up to us men to be mindful that the aim is pleasure not pain. Fine line, but still ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh how this brings me joy to be ol average McGee downstairs,versatile in all positions and fore play acts,hard and fast no worries deep so it just hits the back no worries.i shouldn't feel that way but I'm quite joyful. Still jealous of Batman though ha ha ha. All I can say is email the girls in here after the big guys for some tips but they may just try steal him.Don't go wrecking your lady bits for future men...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm sorry, I wasn't making fun of your situation wanting more. It is just good to hear the big tooled fellas getting some flak for a change.Just made appreciate my ol fella a little.but I would still upgrade :D Anyway just wanted to apologise if you felt it was an attack it was not. Primal :D - Posted from rhpmobile
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