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Size Queens - What's with the girls that are size obsessed.
November 29 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
Julio, I like to be able to feel it inside me , i do not want something that keeps falling out because it is so small, there is no enjoyment in that whatsoever for me and I dont know about the man. I have never told a man he has a small appendage because that would make him feel bad. They must realise that they ar compromised by the fact they fall out all the time. As for your question about why some women do I suppose its also a matter of size and what fits. If it fits like a glove then perfect, there are all shapes and sizes in the world life would be boring if we were all the same.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Vaginas are like penises (peni?) they come in all shapes and sizes. Some have a very shallow cervix and this has absolutely nothing to do with giving birth at all. Many women like the average guys of around five or six inches for this very reason. Some have very deep cevixes and then are built to take the big boys. For many it is about girth and not length and yes it is about feeling "chock a block full" as you so eloquently put it I know one woman who has given birth five times. She has a shallow cervix and likes the average to smaller boys. I also know one woman who has never given birth at all. She likes the bigger boys, has a very deep cervix and lived with a man for seven years who had an eleven inch penis. There is a nut for every shell after all. Average does the job just as well though and SOME large guys think that the moaning when they hit a womans cervix is in pleasure and not pain. But hey, there are lousy lovers with all penis sizes, big and small...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I couldn't have said it better myself.... personally I can't take anymore than about 8 inches.. it just hurts like fiona said its all about placement of the cervix and obviously mine must be shallow I guess... I mean I have done larger guys before but it just requires HEAPS of lube....massive amounts of foreplay ( so I can relax)... and can only do the bare miniumum of positions....too much effort so I'd rather a smaller guy anyday
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks for the replies I had wondered whether the cervix played a role in this. Whether some women liked the penis banging against the cervix or not etc. Fiona, thanks esp. I have always wondered what the plural of penis was. Any idea what you call a group of peni and a group of vaginas (other then an orgy). Actually the Macquarie says it's Penises, but I like Peni better LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Firstly, size probably does not generally matter too much. But for two equally skilled lovers it does matter And some women prefer bigger Secondly (Girth Measures). Girth really is simple to measure objectively. A simple strand of string around the penis just 5 or 6cms from the base.(because that is where the penis rubs against either the sucked out clit and/or against the nerve concentration at the vaginal opening). Where girth varies its just that one measure that matters from a female pleasure perspective. Thirdly, (Penis length measure) the only objective way to measure penis length is to cut a card slightly longer than expected length. Stand up with an erection (or better still raging throbber – the hardest form of erection). Place the card lightly on top (but lightly against abs or pubic mound) and mark where end of penis is (and re-cut card). Then measure the appropriate length of card. That gives an objective measurement that is not subject to false readings. Other factors The degree of ribbing on my penis, pudic artery, of bumps, of foreskin tightness and size of engorged corpus shafts and engorged penis head as well as tight (or zero) foreskin all make different feel impacts. Only when I have a throbber or am penetrating do I go to my full size (even if that is merely a small extra length). These factors make the skin on skin feel much more intense and pleasurable. Curvature: Some penises are curved (mine is not curved, so I can’t comment) but a curve might be useful. Circumcision: Some penises are circumcised (mine is not circumcised, so limited comment). In my case I am turbo focused on hygiene. This includes wiping off with toilet tissue when out and needing urination, shower pullback of foreskin for cleanliness and finally when I moisturize my face at night I also moisturize under my foreskin etc at the same time. Normals In a survey of 12,000 European fit (BMI Nature makes the penis fit best. Specifically time for semen to separate and allow the sperm to make their journey, thru the cervical canal and thru, to the uterus. It turns out these is a perfect size of penis about 7.02 inches. There is no way that my penis will go through the cervical canal – no way. But there is an end stop which is slightly beyond the cervical opening. Hammering that end stop is pleasurable to the male but varies on female preference. Under the right conditions the vagina expands and 11 inches is tight but nice. So... Short I except or suspect small wont do the job. But could be just fine with the clitoral things andbasic vaginal opening. Long has the advantage of better bareback (skin on skin) strokes just feelings. - Also great doggy or morning spooning with pillow between a woman's knees (easier slip into vagina) but bad for some who don't like it too deep. Or who don't like hammering and legs in the air or too deep / too tight. Finally, technique is best measure of performance. I am sure. Just as simple as what I guy can do with hiscock during the penetration parts of making love with each other. *** Just my biased view *** lol Safe Sex = No Sex THEN... Safe: There is no question that sex with a super tough condom; without kissing; without oral sex is the safest approach. But who wants that? (No takers) Next Safest: Add kissing being careful not to brush your teeth within 2 hours is next safest. Review: Find out certain things really early. Are they in High Risk group: IV Drug Users, Male Gay, bi-Gay, FIFO Users Medium Risk: High partner sexual activities no recent (last year) testing, Uncircumsized (poor hygiene), Low Risk: Uncircumcised (great hygiene), recent testing, modest considered activity, long term abstinence, exclusive condom use. Suggest: I only have activities with the low risk classification. Also like to see test results where those are stated. Its really important to raise STi issues in earlier parts of chats. Next Safest(3). Take the risk of oral giving. I am very considered in terms of risks and believe a partner (and self) are only as safe as their last tests (or virginity). Meaning its sex history since that point. Latex- condoms: For me, Condoms are good but still there are finite risks. Condoms split and condoms slip off for guys who regularly power through the first orgasm. Changing condoms after times when semen come out are tough. Also beware of air bubbles and any water. The Risks: Also there are finite risks in getting one of the 3 nasty ones (HiV, HepC, Herpes) with kissing and also with giving oral to a woman. Yearly testing is fine om other fixable items. > High 3.2 years after 10 days > Medium 537 years after 30 days > Low 1,742 years after 60 days So My approach is: 1. Totally avoid high risk groups (fully) or people who have had sex with high risk groups (Gay, IV Users, Random players, uneducated players, untested players) 2. I personally have HepC protection. I have done that by getting the HepB vaccination and having that take-up tested.Women have HPV option in early vaccination as well. 3. If in doubt use a condom. In a way its not how many partners a woman has but how many since her last full testing. 4. Personally I have testing every 3 months at (old quarry st STI clinic) now in Northbridge. For young people its $40 per year until age 25 but they apply the same if you have a history with them. 5. Understand what the risks actually are in detail - the STi clinic can tell you. As it happens Perth is very low. Add to that the stats involved in getting HIV. 6. Encourage dual testing and avoid one nighters, one weekers. Good for man, good for woman and good for society. I keep copies of all my testing and make point of showing. 7. Short term HIV testing. The old HIV testing where two tests are required 30 days apart to check for recent HIV takeup have extra options now. The 10 day tests are useful - even if not perfect. 8. Discuss early. In a way discuss before you meet and not leave to the lust and passions of the moment. Know what you are getting into lol Knowledge is all important for sure. And in this context skin on skin pleasures, oral giving and so on are all important. Just Double checked - hetero sex stats Thought I would double check. FPWA Sexual health clinic have never seen a case of HIV in the last 5 years for hetro. Keep off anal, avoid people who have IV drugs or gay and get regular tests for everyone and you will be good. Unwanted pregnancy rates are quite high. You can get a clinic tests or advice for a year at less than $1 per week - unlimited tests. Phone 08 9227 6177 to make an appointment at our main clinic conveniently situated in Northbridge or phone 08 9430 4544 to make an appointment at our Quarry Health Centre for Under 25s in Fremantle. Annecdotal: A number of comments but no backup objective data 1.Mentally – some women just like the idea of a bigger cock 2. Some say a bigger cock works more and is therefore better 3. Some are concerned that its too big for them 4. Guys with bigger workmoreto get the wetness andopen vulva to accommodate (fact) 5. Bigger gives more stroke pleasure and better nerve ending rubbing 6. Some find hammering big too much and that the end stop beyond the cervix entrance does not expand fast enough.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You have way to much time on your hands! :) All good - very informative! There is someone for everyone out there so if a woman says she wants 8 inches plus and you dont have it - Next!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
As Fiona pointed out, vaginas differ as greatly as penises. The Kama Sutra states that there is no such thing as too big or too small, just mismatches. A smaller penis was created for a smaller vagina, and ofcourse the larger for larger and all increments in between. I get piccies sent to me all the time on MSN from blokes who think I will simply swoon from the sight of their over sized appendages. Instead I cringe. Ouch. It's a pity these men don't have enough confidence in their personalities to be able to impress women.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Then I'll just do a little post.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to say, I haven't read through all the other replies, but can I say for me size does not matter. Too me it is more about how youhandle what you have and how you treat theperson you are with. Men with above average or oversized cocks tend to think it is all they need to turn a women on...... WRONG..... you can all the equipment, but have no idea how to turn on the switch and for me turning on the switch is far more fun. Not to mention large 'equipment' kind of scares me....... I like to know that if I am not going ot be able to walk the next day it is from pulling a muscle in the pretzel position not from being stretched to the max in other areas..... So Julio, for all women size isn't a focus, just like big boobs don't matter to all men....... MUCH.....lol lol lol .
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok , sooo .. When men see a woman blessed with beautiful pert BIG breasts what happens? * SEXUAL ATTRACTION *so , with a woman - a gentlemen drops his bonds to his ankles and out pops a very very LARGE CHUNKY COCK .. what happens? * SEXUAL ATTRACTION * BUT ... FOR SOME WOMEN they will think * oh SHITE!! Thats gonna hurt .. *So .. For me .. 6inches is a Delicious 5inches is delicious 4inches is delicious .. Is really is how the BEAST is worked ;)I pref a chunky petite cock to a LONG and THIN cock .. I've a small lady garden and so a big LAWN MOWER would bloody hurt ;)Size queens .. Maybe the minority of * SIZE QUEENS* find a big cock massages ones ego? or perhaps they really just enjoy a PORN STAR QUEEN or maybe they just LOVE BIG COCK.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Totally agree with most of the above comments. Epically Anglellips..Its not the size but what you can do. :) Sometimes "big" is too big. It hurts & is not enjoyable. Its also about the foreplay & the sensual beginnings, durings & endings.I would much rather enjoy a "smaller " guy ( & I do :P ) that is more sensual than a "big" guy that just wants to go for it.Not to mention the ego that goes along with a "big" guy? That is not a turn on in any way. No one likes a "big" ego...be confident in yourself & enjoy...
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RHP User
13 years ago
But I believe the spelling you're looking for Fiona is actually "Penii"Sorry, I couldn't help myself, spell checking is part of my real life job.As for the topic at hand, I have had both elephantine and shrew sized penii and have to say I'm one of the ones who can take and prefer >9 inches and THICK!!! If I want to play with a knitting needle, I'll use a real one... Shorter is fine, but my coque du jour needs to have some girth, otherwise I'm just not going to be all that interested.I remember this one guy who pursued me for several years. Good looking guy, hell of a reputation around town as a lady killer, and when I finally got him to the naked stage... well.. errrr... (to be kind) my pinky finger was bigger. So I'm guessing his marketing department must have worked overtime on his image. Poor love, I never said anything to anyone, but it occasionally makes me giggle when I think back!Viking
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's not the size of the wand...it's the magic you perform with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can't help thinking of pasta. .. . anyone for past penii? I'm so glad you let your smart-arse show!Quoting 'VikingBitch' But I believe the spelling you're looking for Fiona is actually "Penii"Sorry, I couldn't help myself, spell checking is part of my real life job.As for the topic at hand, I have had both elephantine and shrew sized penii and have to say I'm one of the ones who can take and prefer >9 inches and THICK!!! If I want to play with a knitting needle, I'll use a real one... Shorter is fine, but my coque du jour needs to have some girth, otherwise I'm just not going to be all that interested.I remember this one guy who pursued me for several years. Good looking guy, hell of a reputation around town as a lady killer, and when I finally got him to the naked stage... well.. errrr... (to be kind) my pinky finger was bigger. So I'm guessing his marketing department must have worked overtime on his image. Poor love, I never said anything to anyone, but it occasionally makes me giggle when I think back!Viking
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hsv_matt' It's not the size of the wand...it's the magic you perform with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mr Potter should be so lucky!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm with angellips!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I guess the bigger they all are the more attention they demand. Personally I like have more of a nipple fetish than a boob one. Not really into those little boy nipples (small aereola, small nipple) prefer girls nipples to be as different as possible to boys. Oh and sensitive - in a good way
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x2ForU
13 years ago
hey.. i dont understand the shallow or deep cervix..?? what does that mean... i thought the cervix was not at the very end of the vagina.. but sort of on the side i guess... anyway.. thats what all the pictures etc show...help please...shelly x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'x2ForU' hey.. i dont understand the shallow or deep cervix..?? what does that mean... i thought the cervix was not at the very end of the vagina.. but sort of on the side i guess... anyway.. thats what all the pictures etc show...help please...shelly x The cervix lies between the vagina and the uterus. it's the part that has to open up to let babies out. It is also the part that makes you go 'ouchie!' when a long penis is bashing against it if you have a shallow cervix. If, however you have a deep cervix, then you won't go 'ouchie' because there'll be heaps of room for the penis without it bottoming out. Annother way of phrasing it is: it is the length of your vagina before the cervix.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'x2ForU'hey.. i dont understand the shallow or deep cervix..?? what does that mean... i thought the cervix was not at the very end of the vagina.. but sort of on the side i guess... anyway.. thats what all the pictures etc show... help please... shelly xTotally agree. But the vagina is flexible too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
well I don't think most girls go out looking for guys with big penises, sometimes it's just part of the package.
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RHP User
13 years ago
surely, if a girl has GOOD kegal mussles size should not be a problem ...............( he he he brings to mind the old adage about a cows' collar(
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RHP User
13 years ago
can be fun sometimes but doesnt really matter
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't most females desire their cervix smashed/scratched ? Quoting 'irresponsibility' Quoting 'x2ForU' hey.. i dont understand the shallow or deep cervix..?? what does that mean... i thought the cervix was not at the very end of the vagina.. but sort of on the side i guess... anyway.. thats what all the pictures etc show...help please...shelly x The cervix lies between the vagina and the uterus. it's the part that has to open up to let babies out. It is also the part that makes you go 'ouchie!' when a long penis is bashing against it if you have a shallow cervix. If, however you have a deep cervix, then you won't go 'ouchie' because there'll be heaps of room for the penis without it bottoming out. Annother way of phrasing it is: it is the length of your vagina before the cervix.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cervix? ... isn't that the squidgy bit ... you know... kind of like a twat tonsel? I think we're supposed to aim for that in Doggy position... well, I don't know about the rest of you mofo's but that's what I try and do anyway... the damn things are never where you expect 'em to be so best to spit on it and get your hand in there ... and feel around a bit..... three fingers... you're looking for a slippery round kind of bulbous thing... just work your fingers in there while her arse is in the air until you find it so as you know the correct trajectory. ... ahem. pardon me.HUgsStalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks Stalky for that visual and giggle. I will admit to even turning my head sideways trying to picture a twat tonsil... still cant get there. All in all, a pretty accurate description. If a woman has a cooperative cervix, it will 'pull up' when aroused and allow more room. However, not all of us have a well behaved cervix, thus if a guy were to "smash" or aim for mine, the only thing he would see shooting out from between his legs is ME! Every woman is different but for me the pain can be agonising.
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