M43
Small issue
July 09 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ladies are very receptive to feedback as long as you deliver it with a little tact. . In this sort of situation it pays to illustrate the problem, then provide a few hints as to what you think might have caused the problem, then offer a resolution. . So here's what Dr Love suggests. a) Have some toys on hand, the more the merrier. Slip two or three vibrators inside her, and then yourself. b) Turn them on and just enjoy the moment for a bit. Turn them off, it's now time to be serious. c) Point down at the menagerie filling her and say something considerate that highlights the problem like "See that, I don't think that's normal. I'm not saying you're easy, but clearly, if your vagina had a password it'd be 1234. Have you heard of kegels?" . That should pretty much take care of it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Ladies are very receptive to feedback as long as you deliver it with a little tact. . In this sort of situation it pays to illustrate the problem, then provide a few hints as to what you think might have caused the problem, then offer a resolution. . So here's what Dr Love suggests. a) Have some toys on hand, the more the merrier. Slip two or three vibrators inside her, and then yourself. b) Turn them on and just enjoy the moment for a bit. Turn them off, it's now time to be serious. c) Point down at the menagerie filling her and say something considerate that highlights the problem like "See that, I don't think that's normal. I'm not saying you're easy, but clearly, if your vagina had a password it'd be 1234. Have you heard of kegels?" . That should pretty much take care of it!Try some vibrating beads (sex toy). She can have them in during the day or even dancing.....They apparently help to tone the internal muscles according to the marketing material. Keep in mind that all women are different just like blokes and perhaps there is not a lot she can do about it.....XXX
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Ladies are very receptive to feedback as long as you deliver it with a little tact. . In this sort of situation it pays to illustrate the problem, then provide a few hints as to what you think might have caused the problem, then offer a resolution. . So here's what Dr Love suggests. a) Have some toys on hand, the more the merrier. Slip two or three vibrators inside her, and then yourself. b) Turn them on and just enjoy the moment for a bit. Turn them off, it's now time to be serious. c) Point down at the menagerie filling her and say something considerate that highlights the problem like "See that, I don't think that's normal. I'm not saying you're easy, but clearly, if your vagina had a password it'd be 1234. Have you heard of kegels?" . That should pretty much take care of it! Bah haha!! But seriously, that is a hard one! Maybe suggest she take up belly dancing? That really works the pelvis area and keeps you nice and tight down there. Maybe you could suggest it as a "fantasy" of yours. But if you're having such awesome sex, is it really that much of an issue?
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RHP User
12 years ago
advice J_G,but perhaps OP you are not as thick as you think you are.Have you compared your thickness with other thick dicks? That may be a good start,x Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sign her up for a month of Pilates classes. Pelvic floor workouts for the win :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh fuck Hesione.... Good one. I think you just made my stress incontinence when I laugh controllably come back. Thanks for that. OP - Id say your dick just isn't as big and impressive as you seem to think it is.
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RHP User
12 years ago
so your saying she is to tight for you??well you could be honest with her...she will most likely take that as a compliment anywayz I mean what girl wouldn't like to be told that she is too tight? :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
lol .... I misread that you said she could be TIGHTER hahaha my bad..ummm shit thats a tough one umm yeah no girl would like to hear that she is not tight enough!!I don't really know what you can do without being direct about it..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe you need to work on your technique :P(LOL Hesione)I am very tight and often push guys out. cant win all the time! hahahaBut seriously, if she is that loose, prob not much that can be done about it. Sure, kegel excercises may help but only to a certain degree. Just like a guy with a really small penis. sometimes, just these things just need to be accepted.If the sex is great, what does it matter? Maybe try some anal if you want something a bit tighter ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
...then botox your penis. Do her a favour
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's a poor workman who blames his tools. Adjust your length of stroke and angle of insertion. If this problem is a regular occurence, she may already be complaining to her friends that you can't do it right.
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RHP User
12 years ago
as a lot of the above, but also Google "wave brilliance Australia" quickly changed my situation.
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Has everyone forgotten that there are very strong muscles in the vagina walls? Maybe you "fall out" (as you so eloquently put it) because the more excited she gets the stronger her muscles contract! Push it in deeper and stronger and you should find that things work out! Stop being such a woose with your cock! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Hesione' advice J_G,but perhaps OP you are not as thick as you think you are.Have you compared your thickness with other thick dicks? That may be a good start,x Hugs H i have... but, that isn't the point of the thread Hesione
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'missopenminded' lol .... I misread that you said she could be TIGHTER hahaha my bad..ummm shit thats a tough one umm yeah no girl would like to hear that she is not tight enough!!I don't really know what you can do without being direct about it.. lol thanks missopenminded... very unhelpful....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SubNymphette'I am very tight and often push guys out. cant win all the time! hahahaBut seriously, if she is that loose, prob not much that can be done about it. Sure, kegel excercises may help but only to a certain degree. Just like a guy with a really small penis. sometimes, just these things just need to be accepted.If the sex is great, what does it matter? Maybe try some anal if you want something a bit tighter ;) well, it is worthy of accepting... she wont do anal though... :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' It's a poor workman who blames his tools. Adjust your length of stroke and angle of insertion. If this problem is a regular occurence, she may already be complaining to her friends that you can't do it right. yeh nah, she isn't complaining and i've never had that issue with anybody else... i'm not blaming my tool at all...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Dark_Moon_Lilith' as a lot of the above, but also Google "wave brilliance Australia" quickly changed my situation. thank you dark moon
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Has everyone forgotten that there are very strong muscles in the vagina walls? Maybe you "fall out" (as you so eloquently put it) because the more excited she gets the stronger her muscles contract! Push it in deeper and stronger and you should find that things work out! Stop being such a woose with your cock! Hugs...xFunlovingx thanks for that FL, not exactly sure if it can be done deeper but will give it a shot...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'meet2plzu' Quoting 'jensman1903' It's a poor workman who blames his tools. Adjust your length of stroke and angle of insertion. If this problem is a regular occurence, she may already be complaining to her friends that you can't do it right. yeh nah, she isn't complaining and i've never had that issue with anybody else... i'm not blaming my tool at all...Oh yep... and she's telling her friends that YOU aren't complaining, so everything's fine isn't it? Maybe you need to go through her text messages just to be sure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just like penises and boobs, pussies come in different sizes too. Unless its like throwing a sausage up a hallway, its probably just due to natural difference in sizes. Communication, and trying different positions, is the key. Try suggesting a new position, the moment you "fall out" of her, so it seems like you had planned to move to a new position anyway, not just, "fell out".Does it feel like she is pushing you out? She might be just trying to clamp down on you but timing is off. Not an easy subject to bring up, but, sounds like you have to brouch the subject somehow. I would suggest not doing so, in the middle of a good session tho.
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RHP User
12 years ago
be honest...who wants talking behind your back? Tell her she needs to excercise...its too loose! or get a new girlfriend, if shes one of these "thats me...take it or leave it" lifes too short to waste on bad sex or people who dont want to better themselves :>
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RHP User
12 years ago
A 25 yo very fit dancer would have extremely strong pelvic floor muscles (due to the nature if her sport) and unless she has just given birth to an 11 lb baby would be plenty elastic to hold things on place. That's how the vagina is constructed! Or every woman who's been through natural birth would have gaping head sized holes instead if something that still takes some effort to insert a tampon into. If the girl sucessfully uses tampons then there's nothing "wrong" with her tightness. Perhaps the problem lies elsewhere. And perhaps it wont be a problem anymore after this cause she has her own username here..... D'Oh!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do DR caveman here... get a second opinion.. Now, you and I are both in Perth... SO, I am believing the "Assumed faultyProduct" is also in Perth, or there abouts. I have NEVER met one I fell out of.. even "WELL BIRTHED" Mothers.. (and I am not huge) So I am thinking there may be a tecnique issue.. IF you are telling the truth here.. Call me over, and I will test the product in your house.. as a kind of "" Independent Party "After Market service" "" so to speak.. If we come back with negative results, I will supply with a full written report, along with some tried and true remedies, and/or options. At the worst, we can look at your tecniques, and shape them up a little, surely improving the future pleasure for you both All this at "No cost" to you.. What do you have to lose mate? caveyman (all about options) BUT WAIT........... THere is MORE.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
ok so most guys don't fall out due to their thickness.. its usually because of length... I mean you may have a thick dick but you never said how long you are? Maybe its thick and short and thats why you keep falling out? if thats not the case then buy her some duo balls as a kinky present and see if shes keen to use them... you insert them every day for about ten minutes and it exercises the muscles but for gods sake don't mention ne thing about her being too loose!!! buy them along with a few other things to try so it doesn't look so suss....you could buy her a "showbag" as it were filled with goodies.. other than that like others have said try changing positions and the timing of your thrusts etc.. good luck x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'A 25 yo very fit dancer would have extremely strong pelvic floor muscles (due to the nature if her sport) and unless she has just given birth to an 11 lb baby would be plenty elastic to hold things on place. That's how the vagina is constructed! Or every woman who's been through natural birth would have gaping head sized holes instead if something that still takes some effort to insert a tampon into. If the girl sucessfully uses tampons then there's nothing "wrong" with her tightness. Perhaps the problem lies elsewhere. And perhaps it wont be a problem anymore after this cause she has her own username here..... D'Oh! I dont think the tightness of the vagina relates necessarily to somebodies fitness or general health (although it can help and certainly improve the situation down there). From our experience, some girls who are tiny and extremely fit haven't been tight at all and other larger more voluptuous girls have been ultra snug down there so this theory doesn't follow. It's all about your anatomical makeup - some girls are tight and others not so tight.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Experiment with different positions. Do you have the same problem when she is in control? She must be aware that the 'falling out' is a problem. I know that if a partner and I were having that problem it would frustrate me also therefore I don't see the harm in trouble shooting the issue together. Just don't tell her she is the problem, you don't know that for sure.xx Salina
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kinkster73
12 years ago
I'm really not understanding how ur cock keeps falling out.. I know for a fact that if I'm hard as a rock and I'm sliding my rock hard in and out... The only way my rock hard cock could fall out is because I've pulled it too far out... The only other possibility would be because ur not hard in the first place... I don't know.. I may be wrong.. I can only speak from personal experience.. Over the years I have been involved in some pretty wild play meets (mmmmmm) but I've never found a woman too loose when I'm rock hard... Like someone mentioned earlier u might be thick but ur very short.. I don't know
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RHP User
12 years ago
Telling her her body is somehow deficient or inadequate will probably have you back to your tight wrist grip as the first port of call reeeal quick. Try what's called a penis or a cock sleeve available from online adult stores - assuming the lady is willing to give it a go, of course. Ideally she should choose the one to try from the sites from out of what looks to be most comfortable or arousing for her.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Waterbabes' I dont think the tightness of the vagina relates necessarily to somebodies fitness or general health (although it can help and certainly improve the situation down there). From our experience, some girls who are tiny and extremely fit haven't been tight at all and other larger more voluptuous girls have been ultra snug down there so this theory doesn't follow. It's all about your anatomical makeup - some girls are tight and others not so tight.I realise that's not always the case, but I was going along the lines of all the suggestions of pelvic floor exercises. A very fit dancer would have excellent pelvic floor muscles because they are constantly engaged in her training and performance.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can not believe everyone has missed the obvious!! Just use her back entrance and by pass her Puss all together! Brilliant! Hopefully you won't fall out of there! Brilliant as ever Dr. JG Love!! Will pay that one. PMSL. (not literally of course my muscles are like steele mate! Like Steele! Tight, firm, grasp you like a glove, well you know ) Meeka xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah yeah.... Before you say it. My muscles are like steel! Just finished the 1st edition of 50 Shades of Vanilla where main character was Ana Steele. Doh!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
if I were in her shoes and I got the message, no matter how tactful and subtle, I would NEVER have sex with you again as I would be self-conscious and would thus, never enjoy it. Actually, I haven't had sex in 7 months because the last time I had sex, I was told that my hip bones protrude though I have "chunky legs." I've had plenty of oral sex but almost always lights off and it's not as amazing as it used to be. That being said, I'd appreciate being told.
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RHP User
12 years ago
trying diferent positions is good, it can be even better when the right one is found. Mmmmmm, 0z. ;P
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RHP User
12 years ago
slippery_halo "Try putting the enhancement on your end." For Gods sakse man she is stretched enough!
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RHP User
12 years ago
maybe you just have a little dick.*grins* Hesione you would know it girl :) Tuscan.. *smiles* maybe the OP should do the ankle drag with his girl? PrudishNympho.. you really do need this caveman in you life... temporarily.. AND, Orange is not far from Sydney :) One often wonders if the OPs on some of these threads is just creating this stuff just to pull the piss? cavey :) (guilty?)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wrong thread :) damned neanderthal!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have just realised I am subconciously doing "pelvic floor exercises" whilst reading this posting... it has to be the fear of all women, that someday a man will tell her she has a vajayjay the likes of the grand canyon... Yikes, can't really think of any way you can put that subtly to her... I have to ask though, what the hell would she have been doing/done to cause this? I have had four children, all natural births, and am almost forty, but by all accounts am still very 'tight' and have no incontinence issues, am I just lucky? should people give up dancing? Okay it just came to me, buy her some Ben Wah balls, google them, I have a pair they are fabulous... can help with tightening the pelvic floor, as well as feeling great while in... These little babies can pose as gifts but help with the problem.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Prudishnympho don't listen to boy's negative comments as they are only a reflection of their own insecurities. Or maybe the guy was a c*nt. I can see from your pic you are stunning.... Get out there and enjoy your youth. Boys are lucky to know you! Remeber that. Truth is, it is all in meet2plz technique. He probably isn't doing it right! Meeka xx
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