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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Only looking for ladies, I will enquire about kids. That way I know if it's always going to be at my place or not. I prefer not to talk too much about their home life unless a true friendship develops. I don't have kids so I have trouble relating to parents except for what troubles I put mine though.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Bringing up Kids in conversation with potential Playmates is OK. You're being Honest and making others aware of your Time Parameters . Some people may also asume that someone with Kids may be more level-headed ( unfortunately , that's not always the case ). Many of us have Children . Being a Parent makes being a person on this Scene a little difficult . We can't meet people spontaneously . To meet other people in the same situation is really what we need . People sympathetic to our way of life . Being upfront about your Kids is an effective Filter for finding others who are right for you . I understand what you're getting at , though . The whole idea of your children even being mentioned in a Scene like this . Relax . Your Kids are an integral part of your life . If potential Playmates can't accept that ... ...NEXT ! Good Luck & Happy Hunting ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  No doubt you will get heaps of people saying not to talk about your kids, but personally, I like to know a bit about potential playmates. It tells me things I wouldn't learn otherwise. We're not interested in just 'fucking' - it has to be a more rounded experience for us so I think broad information sharing is all good. I think so long as that's not your only area of conversation, you should be fine to say you have children. My thing though is religion and/or politics - both topics to be avoided as people generally have very strong views and it has the potential to alienate people. But that's just me. Ultimately, just be yourselves. If talking about your kids is an issue for playmates, then perhaps they are not the right playmates for you (assuming of course, that's not all you talk about). Have fun x- Posted from rhpmobile

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  luvsilver

  12 years ago

  We have found that what we talk about or how much information we exchange will vary from person to person. Briefly talking about children with other parents (couple or single) is probably pretty normal for us as you have already mentioned it is a large part of who we are . Saying that though, too much talk like that is no mood setter either. In our experience talking children with singles ( both woman or men) or couples with no children is a definite no no. As for things like work we will usually say what field we are roughly in but not go in to specifics too much. Some of our friends from here do know exactly what and where and just a few weeks ago one half of a couple called in to say hello on the way past. Unexpected - yes but certainly a pleasant surprise and welcome back anytime. We do like to know who we are playing with, we don't need to know every detail but a general picture of them (and vice versa) You will gauge how you feel with different people and how much information you exchange with them. Mr Luvsilver

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Thanks everyone, appreciate your input :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  talk about my children...old fuddy duddies that they are

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  We mention children in our profile because we want ppl to know we cant just drop everything for a play date. Talk about what you feel comfortable with and give out information you feel comfortable with. everyone id different Mrs B

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  We find some are way to secretive which turns us right off.   Talk about anything we feel, but when it comes to playtime ....talking about kids would be dumb.

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