So she asked...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  as in, I have no real idea what to do!But I do find that if it's dark, and I close my eyes, and don't think but just touch, my hands soon work it out :) I'm all good with the lights on usually, so it's not about that, but in this instance I just like to get lost in my senses and let things unfold naturally.I like to reeeeeaaaalllyyy take my time. Tease, touch, lick, suck, taste, blow, nibble, bite, scratch, scrape, stroke, kiss, writhe and do whatever takes my fancy. All the while, he's not allowed to touch, look or speak. Eventually though, when I'm ready, it's restraints and blindfolds off, and lovemaking on - with him free to do exactly what he wants to me. Mmmmm, perfect.lilmiss x

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I suggest that her being dominant she is not really that excited about having him restrained. In my humble opinion she need to decide what it is that will please her or pleasure her. So I would suggest at this stage get rid of the bondage and have her make her partner her slave for the night. The Slave can not refuse any direction The Slave can not back chat The slave should not ask any question The Slave should be dress as his mistress pleases The slave must ask permission to do any thing...even going to the toilet The slave must not orgasm with out permission The slave must attend to every trivial wish of the Mistress The slave must be will to go to sleep having pleasured his mistress despite not cum him self. Have him run a bath for you Have him wash your hair Have him prepare supper while you bath have him massage you but not get sexual Have him give you oral but tell him not to get an erection Have something handy that you can woop his ass if he fails to comply with a rule or a direction The partner but be totally submissive to the will of the mistress. i think you will enjoy this much more...In fact i think the bondage as you describe in your post is his fantasy and not hers... Just some thoughts LC Domminance does not always include bondage

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  14 years ago

  I suggest that her being dominant she is not really that excited about having him restrained. In my humble opinion she need to decide what it is that will please her or pleasure her. So I would suggest at this stage get rid of the bondage and have her make her partner her slave for the night. The Slave can not refuse any direction The Slave can not back chat The slave should not ask any question The Slave should be dress as his mistress pleases The slave must ask permission to do any thing...even going to the toilet The slave must not orgasm with out permission The slave must attend to every trivial wish of the Mistress The slave must be will to go to sleep having pleasured his mistress despite not cum him self. Have him run a bath for you Have him wash your hair Have him prepare supper while you bath have him massage you but not get sexual Have him give you oral but tell him not to get an erection Have something handy that you can woop his ass if he fails to comply with a rule or a direction The partner but be totally submissive to the will of the mistress. i think you will enjoy this much more...In fact i think the bondage as you describe in your post is his fantasy and not hers... Just some thoughts LC Domminance does not always include bondage

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  14 years ago

  Oooooh Lovecurvie. NOw you are talking. Mmmm wouldnt mind a slave for the night complete with collar, chain and yes maybe a little riding crop. Oh boy. I would have no trouble thinking up things for that slave to do. lol.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I know exactly what to do. Because big boy has told me exactly what he likes. Are you game LeoSteve????

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  14 years ago

  I think she should concentrate on domination of him before the tying up part.... but tell her to keep it simple to start with, doesnt have to be elaborate scenarios.... ie "Slave, rub my shoulders!... No! Not like that! (riding crop is handy, as you can tap, push, direct with it, and it looks sexy to brandish one... lol!) "now, do it again, the right way or you will be punished!" " hmmmm thats better, your're a good slave...." etc etc and play along till you get more creative and find your inner Mistress...;) But I am sure some of the real Mistress'es here will have better ideas... lol!

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  14 years ago

  lol i don't want to give away too many secrets here, but most people when they're just getting into their dominant side, have that mind blank moment! often it's just plain old performance anxiety. all of a sudden, you have assumed total control of a situation that, just a moment before, was being scripted and played out by both of you. and now you're producer, director and actor all in one, and your audience is watching your every move. the best advice anyone ever gave me: take your time. this, right here, is dominance. even if you DO know what you're going to do next, blindfold 'em and walk away anyway. have someone do it with you as a practice go, and you'll realise how much your other senses are heightened when you're blindfolded, and then left alone. all of a sudden, your fella's ears are pricking up, trying to pick up on what you're doing. blow in his ear, tinker with some drawers, rattle some chains lol, whatever you fancy! and use that time to let your mind relax and imagine what would pleasure you both with your next move. and, in the name of all that's holy, don't forget to have fun!

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  14 years ago

  I think she should concentrate on domination of him before the tying up part.... but tell her to keep it simple to start with, doesnt have to be elaborate scenarios.... ie "Slave, rub my shoulders!... No! Not like that! (riding crop is handy, as you can tap, push, direct with it, and it looks sexy to brandish one... lol!) "now, do it again, the right way or you will be punished!" " hmmmm thats better, your're a good slave...." etc etc and play along till you get more creative and find your inner Mistress...;) But I am sure some of the real Mistress'es here will have better ideas... lol!

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  14 years ago

  She didnt really like the slave idea... just seemed kinda forced to her... tho it did actually raise an interesting question of what does she want from it?She felt she had a very good mental motivation... she feels compelled to explore and wants to do more... but wasnt able to put to words why she actually likes the idea.the best she came up with was that she enjoys the struggle of firstly getting her man tied up and then she wants to take advantage of thather quest continues lolLS

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  14 years ago

  Quoting 'Meeka100' I know exactly what to do. Because big boy has told me exactly what he likes. Are you game LeoSteve???? Ill take whatever you can dish out... but be warned, I dish back.LS

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  14 years ago

  I don't really see this as a "master and slave" but more so two people sharing a very intimate form of erotic delight...may be hard to differentiate the two, but here are a couple of thoughts... | A room lit with a single glowing candle as the person is bound...say with Chinese silk ropes, and learn a few good tricks with the knots so they respond if resisted or relaxed. Next, a black silk blindfold to take away the last of the sense of light and perhaps long and wide enough to cover the eyes twice and take away some of the sense of hearing. A bit of controlled breathing and a minute seems like an eternity...and remember you are in no hurry at all. | Subtleties...like drops of water falling from melting ice...the warmth of your breath traced over the body...a few drop of warmed aromatic massage oil...or fingertips passed over the skin so close they are almost touching. | From there...I am sure the mind will not go blank. Simply savour the moment and enjoy...and remember to trade places now and then and let the student become the master. | ...or at least this is what I have been told.

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  14 years ago

  Quoting 'LeoSteve' Quoting 'Meeka100' I know exactly what to do. Because big boy has told me exactly what he likes. Are you game LeoSteve???? Ill take whatever you can dish out... but be warned, I dish back.LS Interesting LeoSteve - you always want to take that control away from me and dominate me. Now if you can't be a good boy WE will just have to tie you up first. Have you ever totally given yourself over to someone else and been in their total contol.... Come on now - don't be a pussy............ LOL Meeka

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