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Social and going through with it
September 04 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
RHP is advertised as an "Adult Dating and Social Networking site"...........So - I don't think its a matter of not going through with it, but more like making this site work for you.If that means ONS, FB , FWB or whatever, well that's all good................But - on the other hand, there are quite a few people that like to chat and meet up for drinks and socialising (in the case of PerthSocialites) while still on the hunt for bit of sexy fun as well....... We recently had an afternoon of social lawns bowls and BBQ arranged with a great turnout - as it was a kid friendly event - and one member declared - "Who knew that I would be going out playing lawns bowls when I joined RHP??????"Many of our friends are just happy to get together every now and then for a catch up drink, lunch, dinner and some "flossip" and heaps of laughs of course.........that's how we see RHP!Works well for us here in WA!!!!
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Wannabes, timewasters, voyeurs. They are alive and well and living amongst us Some like to chat and talk dirty and when the crunch comes, radio silence or no shows. We will all experience it. Thats just life in here and is just a part off the different in the human personalities. Where would the fun be if everyone were reliable and did what they said they were gonning to do........dearie me.
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
And there are many who just want to chat about sex. Bores me to tears if I dont know the person.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, I'm sure there are. I know quite a few RHP-ers who clearly say in their profiles they are only here for the forums, but then then there are - People who love the fantasy, but freak out when it may become a reality - Ones who misrepresent themselves and don't want to be found out - Members who pretend they are single but aren't and back out for fear of getting caught - People who are looking to cheat, but cannot go through with it in the end - Men and women who are looking to feel desired online because they are lacking the feeling in real life etc. Some say everyone is here for the same reason: They want sex. I say they're wrong.
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RHP User
9 years ago
There are heaps of both men and women on here that have no intension of taking it more than just a chat.
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
@ the OP Yes, there are some in here who log in for the forums, or take a break from meeting people..... however.....your topic to me sounds like you're falling into one... or all of the three big problems the majority of guys make in here 1. you're talking to the wrong people2. you're talking to people who don't wish to proceed with you3. the way you've phrased the question may indicate you're putting the cart before the horse..... being too expectant of sex BEFORE you both find out if you actually like eachother enough to proceed to it. Sure, there are always fakes, married people who can't meet without significant sneaky scheduling, or single parents with the same issue.... .... but all of these fall under the first two categories I've listed if they're not progressing further with you. As for the third....... only you know how you've conducted yourself with others when messaging them. But if someone is into you...... they'll move heaven and earth to meet you. Thats the long and short of it. DG
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is here for the same reason. Not everyone does things at the same speed. One of our biggest challenges in life is letting go of our expectations of other people. - Posted from rhpmobile
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nattyocean
9 years ago
my motivations have shifted and changed as time has gone on as to why I'm on rhp. Currently it's primarily the forums and friendships I've formed and the new ones to come in future. However initially it was purely sex and desire and fantasy 😍😍 Mind you I update my profile accordingly as well so if that's not read (as I think is a polite thing to do before contacting someone ☺️) and there is no response then well that's not my problem frankly. Nb there are some friendly emails I've been meaning to return that I apologise for the delay! It's not intentional! 😁 Xx Natty - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Judging by the response the Perthsocialites gets to each event, I think people are happy to meet up for drinks, food, chat, meeting new people, etc, without the expectation of sex every time. And if you meet someone who makes your pants melt, then its a bonus. But......there are people on here who have no intentions of meeting anyone, for whatever reason, as in the ones Meander has listed? And maybe we should feel sorry for them, as we are having a great time meeting people, making friends and having a lot of fun.......
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RHP User
9 years ago
All about ,timing and inclination xx😘xxFreya
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TallBaldSexy
9 years ago
members should have a meet button. Once sent - the member who is being met has predetermined replies. 1. Turned up on time. 2.Turned up late, 3.did not turn up. 4. A total cunt....😈😈😇😇😂😂...oooops maybe not 4.😂😂😂😂
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Ill vote for that. Pmsl.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Absolutely everywhere - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
9 years ago
Nailed it mea :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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langton11
9 years ago
It states it clearly on my profile. I'm married with kids and my wife isn't keen to swing atm so I choose to be a good boy.So yeah, I'm just here socially as I like the mindset of some you fine folks lol
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Guy sent a flirt after he checked out my page. Had a spare message so sent my standard template. He checked me out another few times and then opened the message........zero. No chat. Nothing. Cant work some guys out. Either that or my template needs some serious rework......
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RHP User
9 years ago
Annie, don't look favorably upon template messages, most men feel that we as individuals deserve something personal... After all if you can't be bothered writing me a simple respectful message, with a bit of charm and naughtiness (but not too much) then I'll just assume that you're not going to put much effort into bludgeoning my sphincter into utopian submission... Hp xo Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes theres a fair few ppl who state on their profile why they are here, so as not to lead anyone on unintensionally, as you have written in yours..But there are a lot who have a full on " i want " profile with no intension of ever even talking on the phone, let alone meet. I think they just use these sites as a wankathon. Good for their ego if they throw a line out and catch a willing fish.
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langton11
9 years ago
Maybe I'm just not as needy of attention as they are lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Im sure they have their self justifying reasons for what they are here for, as we all probably do. But its the pretence/game playing that can confuse and hurt the honest ppl.
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On_Safari
9 years ago
I think the most important things have been mentioned above but if I may add another TAKE SEX OUT OF THE EQUATION and when people figure out you're not just out for a root from just anything that'll let you then maybe just MAYBE someone will meet you. You see, people here aren't (for the most part) any easier to pick up than people you meet in the real world. Not everyone is driven by sex on this site as you've read. The social component and friendships here can be very rewarding albeit non-sexual. If you keep thinking with your dick you're going to miss out every time and remember, Gentlemen get laid.....but not necessarily on the first date. Meet and Greets are great events to go to to meet others in a no pressire environment and make friends. Whether or not anything comes of that who knows BUT I just found out love blossomed for 2 strangers at the last Brissy Meet and Greet so I was a little chiffed that my cupid wings brought some together and it's still going strong 6mths later. And there are a few others among is as well. Cheers.
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