Soft Bondage Parties in Perth for couples

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  twowithnolimits

  11 years ago

  a claytons bondage party, dont know i have seen that posted before, define your view of "soft bondage? If there is enough interest we could host one?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  if the parties are held on a reg basis at first spanking, tied upand then build up with partying with the same couples on a regular basis but neverblood, needles, anal, video, photos, drawing blood, scat, drugs, safewords not respected

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Sounds like swinging to me - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  but with a view of learning about domination and submission, not just spanking, but mental and voundary pushing in a safe environment

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  not just pain bondage more trsuting to follow instructions and push boundaries

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Huge difference here.............plenty of swinging functions for you to attend...most have a dungeon to cater for sub training.However....in a dom/sub commitment....you would rarely attend the swingers free for alls.......just not permitted. A true and experienced dom would not allow you to be spoken to let alone be touched by another male except in the event of your punishment....females are definitely the exception. A true sub devotes herself to her Master and wouldn't dare cross the boundary of contact with another male.

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  twowithnolimits

  11 years ago

  I'm afraid i am leaning towards agreeing with EB on this one, a bit of spanking and tying up is a normal part of pretty much all sexual play these days, you could indeed enjoy it at any of the regular swing meets

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  In Sydney there are organised events or classes that discuss BDSM and teach different aspects. They are not on often but they are around. I don't understand why you don't explore this with your husband? Why are you seeking others as your first alternative? You should both experiment to find what you like and don't like.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  HI Meeka sounds perfect, any classes in perth

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Or is the problem that you are both submissive??

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  twowithnolimits

  11 years ago

  Please don't muddy the waters with generalisations like, "A true and experienced dom would not allow you to be spoken to let alone be touched by another male except in the event of your punishment..." stereotyping and cliches are a big impediment top newcomers discovering what is truly right for them

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I don't live in Perth so I don't know. Why don't you google it? Look on fetlife or something.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  we have looked but nothing around, so we thought we would ask. only me, em is submissive. it turns us on to learn from other couples live, get tips, what others are trying etc while interact with others. we find that porn in the area seems to focus on the punishment angle, whipping etc. We are more interested in Em gaining trust to have hay and others get her to do new things without question and watch others in the same dynamic

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  WA Kinksters - West Australian group on Fetlife. Write to the group owner and he should be able to let you know what's happening in the scene. I did a quick search on FL for WA events so if you have another go you might find something. Join a few local groups on FL and post some comments and ask your questions there.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  So go onto FetLife and have see if there are any Munches in your area. These are gatherings of like minded people who are in the lifestyle. I think quite often they just a get together during the day over lunch or something. Fetlife has an enormous forum and discuss every sort of fetish and aspect of the lifestyle. And go to a few swingers clubs for a look see if you haven't been before. I have also heard that SPANK parties are very good and a good place to meet and exchange ideas etc. I don't know any more than that as I don't live in Perth. You need to find it out. There are also facebook groups, etc.

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