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Spitting
April 16 2015
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
Yes, I think most would be horrified. I've been spat on a number of times in my line of work and every single person that's done it has been immediately punched in the face. Hard. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
...I get turned on by seeing guys who spit in females faces get kicked severely in the balls ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
And there is little else I can think of that I detest as much as this. In public, on genitals, in the street ... hate it, but on someone's face?? Seriously? Words fail me. Flirty x
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RHP User
10 years ago
im not meaning in a violent way, but I guess some people may see it as all the same. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I presume and not real life experiences..And it's always nice to be right OP..not only is it gross ,if someone spits in your eye it is potentially dangerous.A drug fuelled fool spat in my daughters face outside of a night club in Brisbanes Valley and she had to be tested for a range of STI s ..so no ,definitely not a turn on for me xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
without a doubt in a porn situation, even on a cheek or something. Perhaps I'm weird, glistening on a woman's face turns me on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wow, If I wrote for 100 years things that turned me on that would not make the list. Even some one into humiliation I think would put that way down the list... Not for me and i would see the punching and kicking in return as more enjoyable. LC
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
OP will get lots of page hits. But not much in the way of messages........
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RHP User
10 years ago
goodness I have a lover OMG he loves to spit on my pussy and rub it in.......... he likes me to spit on his cock...I remember a few years ago he was over the top of me looking down and said open your mouth...share...i was like no...but I did.....I think that was quite intimate...........of course we kissed too OP you need a sub to spit on and suck your cock......................but sex is a two way street usually and I wonder what you will take!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
You know a lot of Post are done as self promoting hoping to get profile hits and perhaps messages. I think the OP is very brave in posting this as it would certainly have some negative impact on his likability...No Offence intended. I really don't know that it will generate a lot of page hits either...but you never know LC
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RHP User
10 years ago
And by being on this site one presumes that we are all like and broad minded in our attitude to others kinks and fetishes, but it would be fair to say that is far from the case For me personally, if I was spat on by a lover during a act, I would be appalled and also out of there To me that is a total act of disrespect. Now to look at it logically, many would say that there are others sexual acts that are far more degrading but usually they are done with consent. I guess all I can hear in my head is my mothers voice telling me "that animals spit" and we are not animals and spitting in history has always represented a act of utter contempt when words have failed and I guess that is how I feel about it Give me a arse spanking any day
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RHP User
10 years ago
sorry new to this and certainly not after hits or anything like that. Not expecting people to read my profile, but I do state how happily married I am etc. of course this is out there and concensioul. I certainly do not wish to offend and I apologise whole heartedly if this 'fetish' upset anybody. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you are interested in trying BDSM and humiliation of your sub. That's the only context I see this happening without you being a total disrespectful jerk. You should explore that then, but regardless of how much this turns you on, don't ever do it before consent. Use porn to let this flow through you until you find someone to fulfill your desire. And Twinkes... you put an incredible image in our heads now. Where do you like some spanking again? :pWell, this type of spanking is almost mandatory for all experienced lovers.
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couplefairride
10 years ago
Disrespect and abhorrent to me. That unfortunately will stop all play and get your arse flung out the door. Maybe approach this with your lover with caution and consent. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
spitting on cocks, pussies or arses for a bit of lube is one thing, but outside that it makes me uncomfortable and I find it a turn off (or at least a fast forward past that bit). Interesting what work for people though, what do you think started it working for you?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is original post or original poster xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
no question I'd never do that without consent. But perhaps we'll leave this discussion here, not really out to turn people off - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
many thanks x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've never seen anyone spit in someone else's face in a caring and sensual way, and personally I view spitting as a violent and degrading act.You can be charged with assault for spitting at someone, enough said. But then again, the "violent and degrading" description is often used for bukake as well, probably because in porn it's not often done in a way that looks very respectful to the receiving woman (or man). In real life though I've seen it look quite different, loving even, and that's changed my view. Could my view of face-spitting change? I really doubt it, but someone show me it can be done lovingly and sensually, and I'll keep an open mind.
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RHP User
10 years ago
at the negativity. Tying someone up and whipping them, shoving objects up someones arse, and people on here admitting to wanting to shag brothers and sisters, mothers and daughters...all weird fetishes to me, but we all have our own (sometimes secret) ones, the OP wanting to see his spit glistening on someones face, if she agrees, doesnt sound that strange to me?
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ElleWould
10 years ago
Koko, I was thinking much the same thing. If it's consensual then I don't see a problem. It's not something that I'm excited about personally but I'm not excited about shoving a strap-on up someone's arse or being paddled either. If everyone involved is ok with it how can it be worse than a lot of what we're in to? People are turned on by an incredible range of things....it's really interesting!
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dananddre
10 years ago
I'm with koko on this one- whilst it isn't a fetish I'm turned on by I think that the op deserves a little more acceptance- whilst no-one has been directly harsh or degrading towards him I think there's nothing wrong with it if he finds consenting playmates- and I dare say that may have been a goal of his with this thread... An ex would sometimes spit on my cock whilst giving me head, and this was a quite a turn-on, but it's not something I lose sleep over; wondering if it'll ever happen again... op best of luck finding a playmate, and if it is something you're set on finding you may have a slightly better chance on fetlife, as they cater for all of the lesser-known and practised kinks and fetishes ;)
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Each to their own. Following on from what Koko says, given what some have expressed as a fetish, OP's seems to be mild.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you get it. Saliva on a mans cock rubbed on a woman's face turns me on so all very similar. I think what turns me is on is pretty normal compared to some ha ha my wife thinks so anyhow lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The OP asked a question,he is trying to gauge what others think...but we all know that a dozen or so people is hardly a broad sampling...and from the wording of his pst he was probably expecting a mostly negative response...and nobody has said anything negative about the OP just the act. XxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
OP only needs to one person who reads and shares the same desires... While I suspect that he is not hell bent on upsetting all the righteous, I'm pretty sure that he'll find a way to struggle on with his life without their love... As for the issue itself, it's not something that I share. Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
That turns me on...mmmm hmmm But somehow, I don't think that's what the OP meant 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
10 years ago
I am a Dom or Master but I have respect for womenwho takes on the role of submissive.So no spitting /scat or golden showers and even if awoman asked me to it would still be NOOOOOOO
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' and people on here admitting to wanting to shag brothers and sisters, mothers and daughters...all weird fetishes to me, but we all have our own (sometimes secret) ones, That's a psychological illness, not a fetish
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RHP User
10 years ago
the one eyed snake spitting lol, from experience that's usually been pretty uncomfortable for the lady when it hits her eye - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
i guess in life if you don't ask, you don't get ;-) lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Sorry if this grosses people out" And everybody lines up to describe how grossed out they are, hilarious !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi, Firstly I can think of certain senarios where this is quite acceptable such as a Master / Slave relationship. Not the slave dynamic is very complicated. So to me it becomes a personal item as I just see it as degrading to women and even if asked to do so I not only would not I just could not. I have no opinion about the OP engaging in it when it is mutual and consensual. Just not my cup of tea along with other things. LC
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CompersionCouple
10 years ago
As long as it consensual what's the issue. In the heat of passion during wild sessions I have no issue with guys spitting in my mouth, on my face, on my pussy & my ass. I'll spit on guys cocks & spit there cum back onto there cock so they can watch my lick it back off there cock. Is all very hot. - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
10 years ago
When I'm horny I love it when someone spits on my cock or arse, face or something. It's grubby, I know, but that's what makes it so enjoyable. Hugs Gaz - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
No spitting on me please, just not my thing. Unless it's the one eyed trouser snake that Tulips referred to, in which case bring it on :) Hiwever I had a lover that really got turned on by me spitting on his cock or arse as a form of lube, and I was happy to oblige :) Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Now this is really Disgusting . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I must say, I am a little surprised. I would've thought you've seen and done it all 😏 As to getting "spit" in the eye, YOUCH! 😵😲 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That actually made me laugh!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I see you've added 'really' to your stock standard comment to everything you read in the forums. Congratulations - progress indeed! Elle
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Elle67' I see you've added 'really' to your stock standard comment to everything you read in the forums. Congratulations - progress indeed! Elle If we can find something that upgrades it to 'totally' disgusting. ..... putting on my thinking cap.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Make sure the one eyed trouser snake didnt spit into that cap before you set it at a jaunty angle?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ooh, I like a challenge! Putting my thinking cap on too :) Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
how is this disgusting amongst concensioul adults? Am I on the wrong site? I joined here to see what was out there !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'spides' how is this disgusting amongst concensioul adults? Am I on the wrong site? I joined here to see what was out there !! - Posted from rhpmobile It's considered something of a badge of honour to be called disgusting by the Bellas. Oh and if anyone is on the wrong site... it's not you honey.
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RHP User
10 years ago
'It's not you, it's them'. Kink shaming is alive and well on this site just as much as anywhere else. Although most people here will say that a particular kink doesn't float their boat without passing judgement, there are those who just can't help themselves. Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
from me. I cannot stand spitting in any form. But if that is your thing then so be it Each to their own - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
at first glance i thought this thread was about spit roasting! :P my bad
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SexySmart50
10 years ago
Even in porn when they spit on a pussy or arse I cringe. I hate it
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RHP User
10 years ago
i don't find it disgusting, degrading or anything of the sort in the right context. On the contrary, it can be extremely powerful! You can spit in my face anytime ;) xo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Raison d'être is too tut tut like a Victorian prude about anything that veres from the missionary ..it's how he gets attention here..xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
One of my raisons d'être is to get Mr Bella to expand his vocabulary. Clearly it's a project with a loooong timeframe, but I think we hit a milestone today - yay! Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
great to hear something's positive from the ladies ❤️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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Naughty_nature
10 years ago
Op not for me people enjoy all sorts of things and if concensenual and you both get what you want good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not my thing bloke and probably never will be but good on you for putting this out there. Can't see what all the fuss is about and let's face it there are worse and much grosser kinks, fetishes and just plain kooky stuff out there. I feel Koko's first comment sums it up nicely
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RHP User
10 years ago
Isn't a spit on the pussy for some extra lube acceptable?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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twowithnolimits
10 years ago
what a fabulous label to describe bigotry! wonder how many people stop and think long enough to realise that at one time or presently even, just about every act has been seen as a positive and socially acceptable behavior in some culture or at some time period??
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have to agree with Kokoflamingo here. Acting so shocked at something relatively tame compared to other activities took me by surprise also. I have a lover who spits on me while going down on me and I love it. Yes the face is different but it's not that big a deal. Good on you for bringing up this topic spides, you're not weird at all! Good luck to you x
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RHP User
10 years ago
... my ex loved being spat on her pussy while being finger-played - made her squirt. Wasn't my thing at all to start with but when I saw the effect it had on her I quickly came round (so to speak). She says she really has a hard time getting guys to do it at first but after they see how much it turns her on like me they quickly get their heads around it :) But I still think there's a big difference to doing it on the face, even with consent. For me it's akin to slapping - fine anywhere below the neck but on the face - no way. But like everything, if it's consensual that's between you and whoever :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Forgot I was logged-on here with my couples profile - pretty obvious but that was Mr posting :)
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Kattss
10 years ago
To me it's something that comes from and is reinforced in porn. There is a huge majority of porn that is essentially based on dominating, being aggressive to and degrading women (main stream, not bdsm) Spitting is by far the lower end of the spectrum, but it's still part of that degradation that I find disturbing. What can I say, I'm all for equality... You spit on me, I'll spit on you right back!! In ya eyeball ;')
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is this a Hillsong convention or a sex site? The bedroom is the one place on this shitty planet where we can throw away every cap that we're expected to wear during daylight hours....father, mother, cop, nurse, etc, and get Primal. Providing play is consensual and everyone is clear about the parameters beforehand, anything ( role-play, rape fantasies, pissing , fisting etc) is fair game for adult exploration.Far more disrespect and damage occurs on a daily basis, for example, where men are shamed ( purposely or otherwise ) for their lack of cock size, or when husbands sit on their lazy asses and refuse to do even an ounce of housework. It's really silly that the OP would get stomped for trying to broach this topic ( in a respectful matter mind you )
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RHP User
10 years ago
Isn't the definition of a kink, being something that not everyone likes it?? If it was common place, and all consenting adults liked it ... err, doesn't that make it vanilla? So to be a kink, surely most people have to find it off putting. The OP asking opinion about a kink, so by sheer defintion, many people will find it ick. Not liking an act doesn't mean kink shaming. Surely, since OP asked opinion in an open forum about an act, people are free to give their opionion ... and from what I have skimmed over, posters have only commented on the act - not the OP.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not something I could do. For me spitting on or at someone is the ultimate act of disrespect. I accept that it may be someone's fetish, but it is not something that I would be comfortable with personally. Even if asked I don't think I could do it. Have seen it in some porn, but even then I switched it off.
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