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Stamina
May 20 2014
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madotara69
11 years ago
As sticking the old feller in and pumping away for hours. There is this thing with dynamics to fucking and that is all sorts of naughty things in-between, doubt any ladies are interested in just getting pumped for hours when in fact there is so many ways fucking can be done by other means. But got too love the quickie, we don't always have a few hours Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I used to be able to go on for a long time, longer than most of the girls liked it that I had sex with. My first time was about half an hour foreplay and about 2 hours penetration. Of course not just senseless pounding but different position, going slow and easy and hard and fast. The whole deal. After a time I was able to control it better and could make myself come faster but if I went past this point I wasn't able to come for a long time even if I wanted to.I was never really able to figure out how long I could go if I could have my way because sooner or later the girl didn't want to continue and of course I didn't force her to go on. I only met one woman that wanted to have sex all the time and we went at it every time we've had the chance. I remember one particular weekend that I visited her as we were living a few hundred kilometres apart.I arrived around lunch time and as soon as we were alone, maybe about 2 or 3 hours later, we couldn't get out of our clothes fast enough to enjoy ourselves and we kept ourselves in a constant state of arousal. We've had breaks in between to eat something or talk, even for more than an hour or so and even sleeping for a few hours and the first time I came was almost 12 hours after we've started and it was in the middle of the night.I woke up after 3 or 4 hours of sleeping because my dick was still hard and I was so horny from all the playing and f***ing without cumming so I took advantage of the fact that she was lying on her side with her knees pulled up presenting her pussy nicely for me.She was sleeping when I pushed inside of her, finding her pussy still nicely wet and hot.It didn't take her long to wake up and she told me she liked to be woken up like this and then she became very noisy, like always, moaning and screaming. We went at it for at least half an hour before I finally came and we woke up around 8 in the morning and the first thing was to do it again.We found out later that we woke up her neighbour and from then on when her neighbour got horny from hearing all the moaning and screaming from us and she's had her boyfriend over they waited until we finished and then they had their fun too.Turned out her neighbour was as noisy as my FWB and didn't hold back either as well now. So we ended up taking turns, with us usually starting it and when we were done or had a break we were listening to her neighbours until they were done and then we started again and so on and so on.It was a great time :D Also, I was able to recover fast and go for a second round which then, of course, took even longer. That continued until I reached the mid thirties and then it started to change. Until just recently I haven't had sex for about six years and it has changed completely due to reasons that I just figured out and now I'm hoping I can revers it again but I was one of these guys that could go on for hours without any help other than hers or my imagination. I know, the average time that it usually takes is much less but I only managed to stay within the "average" time maybe a few times with different girls and a few more times with a girlfriend that always came very fast and couldn't take any more, including being touched, when she's had her orgasm. I managed to adjust to that for a while but I enjoyed it more to take my time. Whity, who now dwells in memories of the good old days, lol.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Nice stories aside..... my experience is that for a great many women, more than a half hour of penetration either gets sore, or, they want the guy to enjoy what he's helped her enjoy too. If I climax or not is irrelevant to my enjoyment, and it's not unusual for me to not climax as I tend towards focussing on the other person. MT summed it up. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think I lose all idea of time in the moment. I could have sworn in the past that it'd been 20+ minutes, to be told by my partner it was more like 5....assuming that just means it's good
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RHP User
11 years ago
Make sure you have plenty of fluid in your body. A good work out or hard physical activity before hand will get the production going. Coconut water is great. And let it go when you can, then relax, have a massage, some petting then do it again. Iäm sure you will be able to come a of couple of times. Some times it can be quick sometimes it can take a while. If I'm out dogging I'm pretty quick. If I'm at home I can make it last longer but I don't see that I have to wait. I ejaculate and stroke myself hard again and then I shoot a new load. But If you don't have enough fluids in your body then it's hard. To avoid sore pussies, use lube but there are so many other places on the body that are sensitive. Feet are very nice to cum on. Especially if they are dressed in a nice stocking mmmmmmm.......grrrrrr......Oh yeaaaaaaaahhhhh.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We can definitely play for hour plus if it's changing between foreplay, hand work, toys etc and it makes for a very wet bed and certainly a great crisendo finish but for great powerful pounding there is certainly some major limits. I'd say 5-10 mins is the range if that's what is being asked.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been extremely surprised....pleasantly I might add!At some point during my marriage we did have sex....I have vague recollections.....I used to call him the 3 stroke master.....that's as far as it got ! Since embarking on my RHP journey I am astounded at the control some guys have!And as stated I'm not talking about non stop in out for hours....to me that is not satisfying, there is so much more to it.I used to spend 6-8 hours with my fwb. There would be intense foreplay...cheeky playfulness......kinky play.....penetration in between all of these.......maybe an erotic shower....then more of the above again......if I told him I wanted him to cum then he would and if I didn't...then he had no problem controlling himself .I have found this to be the case with the majority of the men that I have had the pleasure of spending time with lately
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RHP User
11 years ago
without underplaying orgasm, I think that there insufficient focus on the pleasures of actual sex. IMHO, very long interplays get you to much higher peaks than quickies (no objection to these as such, but???)A bit like surfing a wave for a few hours, reaching a crest, dipping down, going back up. With the right person, in fact, the aim is to prolong the intense, but not quite orgasmic sensations for as long as you can experience these. Men can obtain quite high peaks and then allow a cycling, without the final punctuation (which can be a little less dramatic, and more for cessation and relief). With the right partner, I reckon 1 - 3 hours is fulfilling.Tantra can be part of that experience. With my last relationship, we once had a very long session on holidays in a spa.I reckon it could have lasted many more hours, she chickened out saying that she was too scared by the intensity of feelingand didn't want to go that high. Sigh.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm not one to that things about how long I can last thrusting in and out of a woman but how I can please her. What ways can I make her loose her mind. That way it am able to enjoy the experience a lot longer. Most guys get tired of thrusting so lasting longer is not just about hold out to cum. I always try and ensure my woman climaxs before me. If I can get her to do it more than once then great. But good sex is when both parties can make the experience last longer. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'RunAwayJoinCircz' Hours, got that sorted In my mid 20s with some basic meditation practices... It's not that hard, when you want to Cum (Relax...don't do It :D) just visualise the energy going back inside you and into your tummy. Then next time into your solar plexus. Next time into your heart....etc etc, I'm sure it's really good for your health too, and If you get to your head you can have orgasms waaaay better than any ejaculation Alll going to waste, what can I say? Got too agree, never had much to do with tantric ways as such, though if it means that state of Euphoria that builds up overcoming the urge to cum, and just edging along, the intensity can rise and just keep rising as passion takes over the mind, sparks begin firing through the entire body becoming an out of control chain of feelings equal or even better than cumming, actually cumming becomes one continuous feeling only ending in absolute exhaustion. Is that something like the place you would take a lady with you Circus?
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erotictouch4u
11 years ago
In the early days, performance anxiety played a major part in extended sex resulting on atleast 30 mins of penetration before cumming. After a few years being married with the same woman the time got less and less due to the length of foreplay getting longer and longer increasing the amount of sexual tension until only a few minutes were achievable at most. Foreplay is the entre and main, penetration is the desert.ET xox
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I heard that if a man has a wank and cums prior meeting a woman, his stamen can last and last and last for hours. OOPS did I just say that.. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Opens the door
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RHP User
11 years ago
It varies...a lotI have been known to cum BEFORE achieving penetration hey at least I'll fess up...The more excited the quicker the offload, doggy style tends to make cum quicker as it makes the vagina tighter.I thought that with stamina in the thread title it make be more about the length of time preferred for a tryst, it seems five hours is a commonly suggested time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
personally after losting my virginity at age of 12 to a 32 year old milf .. "well technically barely got in there and went up and down 1 minute before i came" I made a promise to my self to never ever want to feel that embarrassed and disappointing way and get really good at something i love so much and that feels so good .. on the flip side that same woman was my FWB for a good 3 years and she kindly let me practice and helped me learn control to appoint that I can never cum now unless I want to during sex.. "have won a few fun bets that way which gave me some sweet Master slave control chips" and also tought me to cum and not even lose my erection for second round which I always hear is very very rare. i usually like to go 40 minutes or so before I blow my 1st load with a partner.. and happy to go as many rounds as she wants and can handle ;-) specially if its a wild fun challenge, but it depends who you are with and what they are like, the energy and chemistry level also training and build up to the style sex I like etc.. with a stranger 20 - 40 minutes a round is good I say depending on where.. thing about stamina is its not just going hard for a long time cuz that will get boring its about hitting the right spot and building on it constantly without letting it all blow changing from one place to another.. keeping the desire and pleasure high making sure you know what things are getting her more and more turned on and adding some surprises in there.. with my last FWB we would go 14 hours on the weekends of play a day from pool to spa to bed to kitchen to the ground and balcony to the shower... when the sexual chemistry is there with the right partner u kind of can not keep your self away from that person even when you want to do something else.. u just end up smashing another round... till your both shaking and smiling with tears too
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
...... anyone???
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madotara69
10 years ago
patience is a virtue
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nope...I is biting me tongue...sigh xQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
it takes longer for me if i dont play with her first, to know she is excited and is enjoying what i am doing to her gets me excited. If we do not play she cums i end up the DIY expert.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' ...... anyone??? ....and resisting temptation.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
I just saw my own brain....my eyes just rolled up into my head....
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chevtrek
10 years ago
When I was younger you had a wank before hot sex but now itis easier to hold off and go for long sessions.I have not tried Viagra yet as I don't need it but told young guysuse it to stay hard to play the stud.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The question has been turned into a a thread about what sex is supposed to be, so I'll answer your question about 'average' at the end... The majority of stuff regarding length od time and what it all means in terms of 'how long' and what takes place during the entire period has already been covered in many areas by those who've posted previously... Firstly, as you get more experienced, especially if you take an interest in one of the many disciplines and study and do the appropriate exercises, all these things can be improved upon. (I'm not going to mention Tantra because when I last did so, it became a bit of a contentious issue...LOL) But suffice to say, first there's the practicing of control (for the man, of course) and there's many ways to learn good control. Also there are a number of ways to help you last longer (if that's where your primary aim lies or where your problem may be). There's a substance (naturally occurring in the body) that can be supplemented (called GABA. Look it up and don't O.D... LOL), which for men will improve the length of time he can forestall orgasm. A cruse method is a few beers beforehand, which can also help a man last longer (as we all know, one mustn't overdo it, otherwise the game may be over before it starts... i.e. NO game at all... There are also methods and exercises that make it possible for a man to 'dry cum' (orgasm without ejaculating), which he can do a number of times if well practiced, from which he recovers in only minutes regardless of age and that actually makes the 'final real (wet) orgasm' so much more intense, it's a wonder. But as many have pointed out, it's not a question of pounding away for ages on end... It's a process of stopping to do something else to keep the arousal level high but rest the body (taking it in turns to keep each other aroused and in a state of heightening excitement and so on). Some, as mentioned, allow the arousal to mane and get a cuppa and have a chat, then start again... Changing positions to make things easier on one partner... then the other. (I'm sure all men know that when the lady is on top, it's a very easy time for us and little energy at all need be expended) Pounding away for ages will just give you both sore genitals and a pretty boring time of it, unless that's what the lady wants (or the man if the lady is agreeable). Also, some ladies can tend to 'get dry' more quickly than others, so making sure the lube is handy is, for some, important. There are a number of things that affect the way in which men react and how long they last (don't know much about the 'chemical' side of things with women to comment with any authority or surety, as it's quite different). Men are affected by hormone levels at the time (which DO fluctuate, especially testosterone). Whether you are relaxed or tense, physically. If you're uptight or calm emotionally and psychologically. The time it's been since your last encounter (even with yourself). Surprisingly, studies have shown that wanking prior to sex will NOT make you last longer. It can sometimes have the opposite effect. But as always, "Necessity IS the mother of invention..." and sex is as much proof of that than pretty much any other pursuit... There is always a way to keep things going. Like one man on here has said, he doesn't mind if he doesn't orgasm, it's more in his interest and satisfaction that the lady is pleased. I get most of my satisfaction from seeing a lady satisfied and having a wonderful time and would be happy with just that, also... But as I've said above, there are ways to have the best of both worlds. After all, it is supposed to be a mutual experience, and it can be. To answer you actual question... I couldn't give you an average, as each encounter is different and takes on a life of it's own, even with the same partner. If you're with your wife, say... It can sometimes be a quick 30 minute affair because you both have to get up for work in the morning... She may have been with 4 kids all day long and just want some release and not be too interested in all the 'niceties' on that night (or morning, whatever). I honestly can't. It depends so much on the situation and the person (or couple).Good thread... Thanks.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I didn't realise...
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RHP User
10 years ago
The only times I've had sex for long periods of time were when he was stoned and couldnt, although that was really fun... and when we took ur time with foreplay and he'd take breaks when too turned on and attention went to me.Honestly, I'm not a fan of long drawn out sessions. I'd rather passionate, thrown-up-against-the-wall, unbridled, hot sex that lasts ten minutes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's all.
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