Starting over again

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hey happyguy now you can breathe the air and go forward i hope it was all good though..

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Heya Happy, Sorry to hear of yet another relationship on the rocks, I hope you are both faring well post break-up. As for getting back into the public arena, that is entirely your choice. Personally, I wouldnt consider hooking up with anyone just out of a long term relationship. Reason being I do not wish to end up knowing more about the ex than the person Im 'out' with. Cos that seems to be all they can talk about..that and how distraught they are...all perfectly normal but leave that for the counsellor! If it's just a random bang you're after...conversation is minimal so knock yaself out mate...just try not to compare the pair mid thrust.... Best of luck! Anna xxxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  After so many years together, i wouldn't even dream of hooking up for a while. Problem is you carry baggage, and that needs to be sorted before you can really progress.But hey thats just meHaving spoken at length with mrs Rough on this subject, guys tend to exude an aura that women, bless their hearts, pick up with their "Sixth Sense".If you have only just ended a relationship you will eminate a certain vibe that women will steer clear of. Similar sort of vibe as the desperate bloke trying hard to hook up.You need time of rid yourself of that vibegood luck mate

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If you are ready dip your toes then go for it. Life is too short for hanging around. Just don't expect to jump straight back into anything serious. Have a bit of NSA fun until you are ready to commit again. Good luck with it!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  It sounds like it was over a while ago, and it just fizzled to an end. I made the mistake of joining a 'dating' site the night after I had a relationship end (mostly to spite him), and I never felt comfortable. But, that is me...I wasn't ready because I had never been dumped before...you're happy with the outcome, and seem more than ready to dip your toes in again. Have fun doing it!!! xxCalam PS That guy and I are still very good friends...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  ..we learn from our experiences, thats what it was.. a great experience , now stop wasting time and get out there...make mistakes and have fun, try new things while you still can ...we are all on limited time. i wouldnt be wasting your time on RHP as a single guy...try ninemsn dating or oasis ...talk to LOTS of girls, dont look for a new gf, just friendships for now...learn about YOU and waht you want and who suits YOUR style :> Neo

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Thanks Bernie,I guess the reality is it was over a longtime ago, just neither of us was prepared to move on!She is out doing her thing and has been for a while so i feel its time to just get back into it ,Hopefully find someone that really wants to do the swinging thing togetherCheersBret

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Thanks MynameI guess the reality is it was over sometime back and we were just going through the motions.I just want to meet a lovely normal happy woman and take things from thereCheersBret

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Thanks for that customer,I guess the reality is that it ended a long time ago and we just stayed together out of convenience.I feel now i would like to meet a fun easy going happy woman and get to know each other and see what happens.I dont want to just jump into something with the first female that comes along, however i wouldnt rule it out if it felt right.Not sure that that makes sense.Anyway thanks for your adviceCheersBretHey liked your profile and pics

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  There's nothing better than the feel of a different woman to help you move along. Learning to say "Next" is the best advice a man can get! Hugs Stalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Throw yourself in the deep end!! Think of your smuttiest fantasies...and go for them!! Of course.. this may NOT be the best advise.. but, it is all I can give :) kio

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Just make sure you collect all your baggage, spend some time unpacking it and sorting through it by yourself. Keep the good items and send the rest to vinnies. How long this takes can't be said it's all up to the individual.As for jumping on the horse again, sure it can help but choose carefully. I found it much better therapy to just mingle with many fine women as friends only first then when the time is right, the right one will walk right into your life.Good luck

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