Staying safe online

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  wingman2014

  11 years ago

  Basically use your instinct. There are a lot of fakes on here so if someone who contacts you doesn't sound quite right then you can be reasonably certain they are not on the level. Don't give too much personal detail too soon. Keep general pics in one gallery and explicit pics in another separate gallery and dont give them out unless you are sure .Text first , then if things sound promising ask for their phone number and speak to them directly to see if they match their profile. If it still sounds good meet for a drink or coffee in a public place and go from there. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It's about as safe as picking someone up from a bar. Life carries risks, protect yourself against them with common sense the same way you would "offline", but don't let the fear of the unknown stop you from taking the plunge. Keep your identity protected, control what information you release and don't release anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Remember that a friend today might not be a friend tomorrow, if things don't go well. There are lots of threads with great specific advice on how to stay safe, have a read around the forums. Follow your instincts, and your pets instincts :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You can also get them on cam to make sure they are who they say they there are. Photos can be very old or in some cases not even of the people you are speaking too. Also there I believe that some single men pose as couples, when you get to the stage of meeting something always comes up with the wife and he is the only one that shows up. So speak to the wife if you can...... that's if you are looking for couples. This question is asked a lot, one only a day or two ago so read the forums as you will pick up loads of tips, of saftey and dating, etc, etc.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Your-place-or-mineor-a-hotel-43314 Towards the bottom of page two "Indigine" gives her recipe for staying safe when she actually meets someone. As to your general concerns, guess it really comes down to yourselves... Some people don't put up public gallery pics of their faces, some do, it's up to you. Use your private galleries if you don't want your faces in public... I think most would agree that you shouldn't share your pics through external email, just use the rhp messaging system to get to know people. When you feel comfortable with that person then swap mobi numbers... Again some people have a "batphone" a mobile and number that they only use for contacts like rhp... When you decide to meet... Meet somewhere public... Most people here are good decent sexy people, and like you, they want to explore and experience... Welcome and good luck... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I agree with others who liken it to picking up at a bar. You never really know who or what you are meeting. There are some things I do to keep safe. I won't send unclothed pics of myself to anyone, online or over phone before meeting. Even after on most occasions. I found out a few months ago that my ex who I'd been with for a number of years had sent pics of me in compromising positions to friends without my knowledge and certainly not with my consent. So you can never be too careful with your images. I always meet in public first and organise through the rhp messages or my mobile phone via text so there is evidence of where i am going and who with. My best friends are in the scene and insist on me letting them know when I meet someone new. Maybe that seems paranoid but there are weirdos out there. Most people I've met have been really great though. - Posted from rhpmobile

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