Straight Couple/Bi Guy

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  Hottie1

  10 years ago

  A problem for us. In any play session be respectful of the boundaries that are established. It might sound a little unsexy but discuss what is or isn't permitted in the play, well before you play. Maybe at the very least look for couples who are experimental, that way there may be less of a 'worry' that you are in fact bi. Good luck and enjoy. Mary xx

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  And just write pretty much exactly what you just said in your profile. I think if a straight couple judged you for it - Eh. Their problem right? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  A lot of them will be fuckin mortified... Lol. But there are some good ones out there... You should play your game, seek those who enjoy your rules... Good luck. Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  When I first started exploring my bi side and using online adult dating sites, I had to quantify my sexuality somehow, not only for my own understanding, but to give other people a barometer on what to expect. I rate myself at about 97% straight in who I am physically attracted to and romantically inclined towards. Still, like yourself and others, in the right circumstances I can, have and will engage in MM interaction feeling pretty natural about it all. IMO, if any straight couple is homophobic in the slightest, it is a situation you don't want to be in. There will be no consensus I imagine, but my suggestion would be to be as honest as you can be. The words I have used in the past to straight couples are something to the effect of if there is not a mutual inclination towards MM, there is no inclination at all for me. Good luck with things.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  My friend is why many bi guys don't put it on their profile.

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  Fabolous69

  10 years ago

  i know my partner would not entertain another male who had any curiosity, even if they are willing to not interact. That's just mine though

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  We are both straight and have no issue with bi females so why would we have an issue with bi males?

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  People in the swinging scene are usually much more accepting than the one off experimenters. I have played with a few straight only couples and its been fun for all. I am not that hungry for cock that I can not restrain my urges for it, the same goes for pussy. As always in any sexual meeting it is best to be fully transparent concerning your preferences as some people are still very anti bi/gay and the last thing you want is people like that finding out afterwards that you are bi.

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  donnamick

  10 years ago

  Its funny, when I first started out swinging I would have said I was straight, not interested in any mm touching. During a time with another couple, while going with the flow of things I ended up having my cock being sucked by the male of the couple. I guess I was never homophobic, so I thought that it felt pretty good, my wife was getting pretty turned on by it, so no problems. Over the years while arranging mmf sessions for the wife, I actually look for bi curious/ sexual guys, so I can have freedom of playing if the urge is there. I mean when you're doing a dp in the pussy its pretty hard not to touch penises. So, in short, say on your profile what you are and what you are happy to do or not do. That saves the awkward questions and at least in our case improves your chances of a call to action.Cheers Michael

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  Pandora_couple

  10 years ago

  Each couple has their rules. Those rules are important as they are set as part of boundaries in their relationship. Some physical some emotional. You are entering their life their relatiinship. A part if their fantasy world sure. But boundaries do exist even in fantasy. My wife likes seeing me play with a guy or helping that guy playbwith me. That's one of her sexual wants. We talked about it and confirmed we were comfortable before ever mentioning it to a guest. I'm okay. For me its just sexual fun. I don't see it as any more than that. But it is very very personal. Once Mrs P has selected someone (s) contact is via my phone. I set down rules before we meet. I explain roles expectations and limitations. At that stage I also state Mrs P likes guy on guy however this is optional. The guest either says yes no or see how we go. If they choose to cancel. Fine. But I am clear it is optional. If the answer is no. That is it. I don't try. Just as if Mrs P says no to certain activities because the mood is not right for her. Then no it is. Respect the golden rule no means no. Then simply ask. But never cross a line that as been drawn. No is no. The rest is all fun with all having a great time. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  as mentioned, you won't get a consensus. Be honest up front. Address it with them. From there, above all else... RESPECT their wishes and boundaries! Many couples will say no simply because they don't trust a single male. It's sad for those who conduct themselves with integrity, but many do not and ruin it. They are selfish, pushy, arrogant... Thinking they can convince people of things. So it will very often have nothing to do with you, but a previous experience or the fear of taking a risk in an area full of dipshits. There are soooooo many single males to chose from, why take the risk? A great example is our profile... We clearly state no single males, and that if they contact us it's a sure way to get no response. But guess what? Yep... Plenty of single males who think that doesn't apply to them. Wonder how they would behave in the bedroom?

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