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Straight Guys really?
November 01 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
you sound angry, who cares, really? - Posted from rhpmobile
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luvsilver
10 years ago
It really makes no difference one way or the other to us.I did read read the OP's profile though and it clearly mentions being non judgemental-maybe not so. Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
10 years ago
that label is a bit lame to tell the truth. I kinda think of it as sexually flexible. they may like sex with a guy, maybe just a bit of oral but do not take it up the bum they may not be emotionally attached to guys but like to suck or be sucked or what ever. does it matter? its not like your going to take him home to meet mum and over the xmas turkey say ohh speaking of good stuffing, young Gavin here likes a bit of gobble and stuffing himself. Lines are blurred here at times, so maybe you might like to try a few different flavors and see if you like it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
when a person is on your friends list, it might mean exactly that FRIENDS they may not have even met that person unlike me I only add people I know to my friends list, but this does not mean I have fucked everyone on that list.
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RHP User
10 years ago
OP, have you considered that not everyone's 'friend' list is a reflection of their 'looking for' criteria? Mine certainly isn't for a whole bunch of reasons. My hot lists and short lists are the real reflection of my 'looking for' criteria. Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have to agree with luvsilver and avalanche - this post sounds kind of angry and pretty judgemental.... People are allowed to have whoever they want as friends... This is meant to be a non judgemental site where people get a chance to live out their fantasies to whichever level they feel comfortable with. I would never judge somebody's sexuality by their friend list... Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can't men be just friends with men? Pusscat
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Missb4u
10 years ago
i am not baffled and no it doesn't concern me nor do I ever think about it. Oh correction, I sometimes think about it when I see a really hot guy on a guy's friend list and then realise he isn't into women... That's devastating :( cause you know there will be no chance of MMF. Hey but maybe they would let me watch 😜😜😜😜😜
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
It's a genuine question, which nobody has answered yet. Like you OP, I check out friends' lists as well. When I question some people on their friends list, most haven't even met or spoken to the people on the list, so I am baffled as to why anybody adds people to this list in the first place. I have no answer for you OP, and I don't think you will get a decent answer anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find the looking for section confusing, when you do a search for say (female or couple looking for a guy ) then when you read the profile it says in bold NO SINGLE GUYS or you will be blocked !!! like hello the single guys wouldn't be finding you if you filled out your profile correctly that's all have a great night everyone
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inspirit
10 years ago
Like me - try anything twice Because you can have a same sex encounter and be straight. I am straight and have had encounters with woman in the moment - though I do not l seek out woman. I think your post is little rude towards "so called straight men" and you may need to read up a bit on individual sexuality. Think about. There are some great forums on sexuality and I recall a good one on this very topic. People can friends with who they like on here and remember most have never hooked up - people make friends here through the forums and chat rooms. I have no friends on my list as I deleted them a year ago, because I have been judged in the past and in fact it has been used against me...... Hope that helps answer your question.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your profile says you're non judgemental, but this post isn't. I think you sound rather homophobic actually, but that's just my opinion. To answer your question: Why do you so called straight men have any desire to even look, knowing that they fuck arse? Like the others have already said, having people on your friends list does not have to mean you're having sex with them. Why would men look at other men? Perhaps for the same reason I checked out your profile: curiosity. Or simply because they can and they care comfortable with their own sexuality. Good on 'em. And yay for men's bum pics!
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Missb4u
10 years ago
answer the questions, just thought I'd point that out.
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
Gold star for you Missb
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can't answer this question as I am not looking for a straight guy. ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
So, there's three blokes on it. One lives in WA. We've never met but as far as I know, he's straight. He sent me a message and friend request a couple of years ago because he found that our opinions, as expressed on the forums, often tended to mirror each other's. Another is also a forum friend. He and I have met, once, at a meet and greet hosted by those wonderful and gracious ladies, Tuscan and Freya. The third, I have played with albeit without direct interaction. Jennylee has been the meat in the sandwich on those occasions. If a person looks at my friend list and decides they don't want to know me based on who they find in there, that's fine. They're obviously not the kind of person I'd want to know anyway.
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Seachange
10 years ago
is that there may not be a straight answer to that. Who really knows why as each have their own reason and friends criteria. Sometimes, as somebody pointed out earlier, they are just 'friends' and nothing else. They may share something in common and may seek advice or bounce ideas with another, male or female, to get thru the confusing quagmire that rhp is. Most of the people on my friends list are literally just friends, both male and female. So don't be so bothered they are friends with people that contradicts what they are looking for in their profile. Connect with the guy and take him and the experience with him for what it is. May that experience be good for you. Stay positive. Best of luck and have fun...
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inspirit
10 years ago
I want the Golden Strap on. Who the fuck really cares about their friends lists - means fuck all. (Such a way with your words Inspirit)
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
both a straight guy and a ts on my friends list. The reason for that is both of them were people I met in the chatrooms, and generally had good times talking with them. We developed good repertoire with one another over a period of time, and we could discuss many things with one another without 'fear or favour'. I have not met them in person, and am not perturbed by that. It is just a way saying to the other that we appreciate each other for the fun that we offered each other. No woman on site has made any comment whatsoever about the people on my friends list - nor would I really expect them too (unless they wanted to speak about common friends). As pusscat said - what's wrong with men being friends with men ? On the flip side, there are plenty of straight women who have many women on their friends list too - what do you make of that ? Tall PS Inspirit - you say you have no friends now as you decided to delete. I don't know you all that well, but I do like your posts more often than not. Wanna new friend ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
My thoughts: 1/This is the wrong site to be on if your that judgemental...most people on this site, have some kink/quirk/persuasion that is non Anglo/Christian/Disney shit.... If you like the look and sound of someone, should it matter whether they have sex/have thought of sex within there own gender????....could be worse....jeez could be a Dockers fan.. Seriously though, the GLTG movement has been fighting for the (totally justified) right, and freedom to admit and express their sexuality in the wider context for decades....if you can't be open/ curious / experimental on this site, without experiencing homophobia, then there is something seriously wrong. 2/If everyone I met on this site was conventional and beige, I would be very disappointed..this is just another flavour of life surely...suck it up! (Excuse the pun :-)) 3/if someone chose to keep this private, is that not their right?. Maybe it has changed? Maybe it constantly changes? Maybe someone doesn't know what pigeon hole they are in, or are supposed to be in? Maybe if people where less judgemental, then others would be more honest. I mean fuck, really who cares.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just hopped out off the Tardis and it's 1959....I thought I was in the twenty-first century OP...with an attitude like that,it seems I was wrong.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Straight on my hot list.....😍😍😍😍😍 Really are you serious, it's a friends list, not a this is who I've fucked of want to fuck list. Sorry and just because someone's straight, does that mean they can't have or be friends with anyone that identifies as gay/bi/TV/TG?(fuck I hate labels)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your profile reads as if your looking for a copy and paste yourself...
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' PS Inspirit - you say you have no friends now as you decided to delete. I don't know you all that well, but I do like your posts more often than not. Wanna new friend ? Err - No thanks - I have no friends listed for reasons.
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' PS Inspirit - you say you have no friends now as you decided to delete. I don't know you all that well, but I do like your posts more often than not. Wanna new friend ? Err - No thanks - I have no friends listed for reasons. Thanks for your response. Question was semi - rhetorical, was just intended for a bit of fun with you. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
this is funny. I think you are angry that men give each other blow jobs.
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RHP User
10 years ago
is your profile says "non judgmental" lol
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
Is your talking about a friends list (ie your friends and maybe not fucking) and your judging based on a profile which is basically a photo and some details that are geared to showing what am I looking for sexually ........ A profile gives you no info about what they are like as friend but you are making massive generalisations based on that without meeting them at all. It's not likely your male friends in RL that so inclined are going to tell the you and the whole world in flashing neon lights that that they love anal toys or occasionally like to suck cock but are very much still feel they are straight orientated. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its a shame that there is still so much stereotyping and dare I say bigotry in this world towards gay and bi people. Of course we are all entitled to our own opinions and are fully within our rights to voice them as long as we do not attempt to incite any hate or violence. You would be surprised at the number of men that are bi, as I was surprised at the number of women that are as well. Personally, and many I know, think that bi is the natural human state, but that is open to debate, and i do not think we will come to any conclusions any time soon. Many do not like the label bi, they say they dont like labels, yet vehemently hold onto the hetro label, but the label you have is not really your choice, you are what you are, adopting an inaccurate label does not change you.. If the world was a little more accepting then a lot more people would feel comfortable with the correct label. So OP we don't bite and sexual preferences are not contagious. This site is much more of a social networking site than just a place to find a fuck, we make friends, occasionally we find lovers and on the whole we try to have fun. If in future you feel you need to express your distaste take a moment to consider that we are much more alike than we are different, when you come to understand that the whole world becomes a better place for all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
In real life , none of my mates would send me a picture showing their arse. But then again none bat for the other side .
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Really an attempt to see if the OP is not alone in her bigoted views. Maybe she wants to form a posse, slip on some white sheets and run them there homosexuals out of town. Ala 1800's. This is 2014 last time I checked. I'll be friends with any decent person and the fact that I have straight, bi, gay friends in my list is no indication of sexual preference or desire to go to bed with them. Get with the times. You have no idea who is in bed with who these days but guess what? It's called safe sex if that's a problem to you. Slip on a condom and not a white sheet........Annie
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
Why would you choose who you associate with, on here or anywhere else, based on sexuality.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im a straight male. But something about a profile pic of a hot male body with a good looking cock interests me. as my profile states I'm not bi but in the moment anything can happen. i think my manhood is attractive and i find some other mens manhood attractive. in saying that i don't have any males on my friends list. I only friend people i meet in person.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well said blindman.....it's a shame your common sense and open mind isn't contagious though, because some people could do with catching that
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RHP User
10 years ago
and 1 Couple on my "Friends" List. In reality, I've only met 2 of the Men to this date. Neither had "sexual relations" with me. So what does this tell other RHP Members ? Don't judge a RHP Member by his or her "Friends List" !!! It means NOTHING at all !!! Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Non-judgemental people judging the OP's motives......and their person. But to answer you OP, they may fuck arse, but I'm sure they're entitled to engage in platonic friendships too wouldn't you agree?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would still be flat on my back if I fucked all of them. I think I have a few girls on there too, I am straight but I might have fucked a few of them too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would venture that many of the members here are so for a myriad of reasons.For myself, it is a great part due to the lack of judgement and the ability to simply pursue life and taste all the flavours that take my fancy.Yes I identify as bi, because to say I am straight would give the wrong impression. If I am in the throws of sexual ecstasy, any rules imposed upon me by my society tend to go straight out the window.But my 'friends' list? As of now it is rather small, I haven't been a member for long and these things take time, but my friends can be from anywhere in the world, so actually meeting them or 'hooking up' .My friends here, like in the 'real world' are varied and their sexual tastes and appetites are irrelevant to my friendship.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I recently came across a quote that was aimed at Facebook, but probably apt here too. "The number of 'followers'[/friends] does not make you better than anyone else. Hitler had millions, Jesus had 12". And for that matter one was Judas, so you just can't tell. Look at the person for their qualities and you might find that your assumption about why they are friends is wrong. Maybe try asking the person why they have so and so as a friend, rather than assuming that all relationships are defined by sex.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was going to answer, but I got distracted by a cock in my face :-/
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