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Straight answers.

April 07 2014

In the last week I've noticed that several RHP-ers (both men and women) have changed their sexual orientation. They were bi-curious and experimental. Now they're straight. My question: Have you ever changed your sexual preference on your profile? And why? Where you afraid of scaring off people? Attract the wrong kind? Did you have that bi experience and realise it just wasn't what you hoped it would be? I'm curious!

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I first joined I had bi curious and couples....but changed my mind after being contacted by a few couples.... I realized it wasn't for me....xx Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have never claimed to be anything but straight.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    We are still vanilla in our profile Probably should update it, though who reads them. Except for you Meander, just how do you configure such profile lists to pick these things up, have you got a team searching your hot lists? Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I had couples as well to start, but met some and played then realised that jumping into that scenario with relative strangers was a mistake for me. Need to take more time to get to know people and build up some trust and connection. But that change was more than a week ago.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    ..... I wonder miss M... if these "changes" have less to do with orientation, as they do with presentation. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I now have a vision of bespectacled blondes searching lists for sexual orientations.... I hope it's not like an ear worm:-) :-) xx Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' Meander, just how do you configure such profile lists to pick these things up, have you got a team searching your hot lists? Mado Tara xx All the people I'm talking about in my OP I have met at one time or another.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    What of the leather business suit, trendy spectacles and a bull whip, standing over the team.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Meander popped in between us.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    because they changed their mind?? They explored and was not for them? Maybe they tired and experimented and was not for them? Maybe they made a typo when they first joined and later realized it was a mistake? Maybe they are not who they say they are? Who knows?? Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    a lot of couples aren't advertising bi or bi curious male (or have decided to change it from their experience) as it tends to limit their pool of available couples due to some of the homophobic couples ruling them out as potential playmates. The funny thing is that there is a lot of experimental, bi curious and bi guys who list as straight...sorry to alarm you homophobes lol. In my thinking though, *if this is true*, why would anyone want to choose a homophobic couple to play with, if they are actually bi? The strange thing is that many females list as bi or bi curious for the exact opposite reason...go figure!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Maybe they are looking for something in particular and having bi-curious/bi-sexual doesn't serve their purpose and it is most likely attracting people and emails from people they are no longer looking for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Additionally there are a few people who started out with Straight in their profile and changed it to Experimental as their sexual horizon has expanded ... they are not quite Bi-Curious/Bi-Sexual but want to have that first Experiment to see if they could be (I realise that could be considered splitting hairs between Experimental and Bi-Curious, but as Meeka alluded to they don't want the flood of unwanted messages). Have always been a firm believer in "You don't know if you don't try"... and I'll give anything a try thrice before discounting it. SG

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    From straight to experimental. I actually don't think many men even look at it though. I have had women ask about it but men never. I changed it as I would like to eventually experiment just don't know that I'm ready yet to take that step with a couple. I think I am then I freak out ....lol... Still very vanilla on the inside Missb - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    11 years ago

    I have mine as straight and looking for 'Man' but I still get lots of contacts from Couples and groups. But I really like my sexy men. They just do it for me. I really cant see myself with a woman, just not me. Been proposed many times but women before in the past but never really got me going. With regards to couples, not into that head space yet. Not sure if I could but ... Never say never. Maybe more like MMF rather than FFM. Maybe two cocks are better than I? Gawd! Keeping it straight for now... Lily

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have no need to change what I'm after as honesty is best

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I had anal on there and everyone was wanting to be up my bum. I also thought of couples , but not sure how that would go at all, I had it on my profile but got a bit over run so I backed away from that. Some days I have my orientation as, being on the couch with a packet of crisps and no thanks NO sex at all. Do they have a lost libido button?

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    11 years ago

    I have noticed that there are a few women's profiles that actually state No bi men only straight men. So if you don't wish to limit your availability then have Straight on your profile. Given the ratio of men to women on here, why make the ratio smaller than it already is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    that is one part of my profile that remains the same .. A straight male who adores sexy feminine females full stop. The closest I ever get is when Im the invited by a couple where the spouse is present but only enjoys watching.. So far no one has tryed to mount me lol... but i make it clear from the start Im only a ladies man..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Warning69' I have no need to change what I'm after as honesty is best I believe people change their profile because they are honest. In my case, I started off being bi-curious because my wife would only let me play with males and I was honestly curious. Now I've satisfied that curiosity, I changed my profile to bi-sexual. Recently, after talking to the wife, she will now let me play with females (but do females want to play with me?). So now I've amended my profile for women and couples. The bottom line is that profiles change because circumstances change for one reason or another. Final note: Yes, I agree, there are many straight men looking for guys and only they know why and good luck to them.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Have always been straight and have never changed that part of my profile, but after being on here for a couple of months, it did change what I was looking for..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    to bi curious (I think - haven't looked at our profile in a bit) because he wanted to make it clear that he wasn't scared of being in the same space as another man's penis :) we have had some experiences where other men are all keen to play as long as it's them and girl/s or girl + girl but super keen to not go anywhere near anyone that is male - in any way, even seem scared of brushing past them to move to a better spot. They don't seem to understand despite us saying 'He isn't going to try and have sex with you just because you're male and he's curious'. He (as I would hope everyone!!) would only be physical with consent and encouragement. we have had several people who we have ticked all the boxes for go back and reread our profile, see that and say sorry but we don't do male on male so we can't see you. Their loss I think!! because he is brilliant at male on female ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have noticed men have straight then when I read what there preference is it has receiving anal.. I personally am not into bi-men and my best friend is gay .. Maybe I just don't want the competition with him ? Lol From also him and my experience on here it opens you up to more chances of sti's ... I never knew you could catch something from sucking his dick :( - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When I first got on here... I listed my sexual orientationas "Experimental".. Meaning (To ME) that.. you name it girl.. and I would try it with you.. in the open.. on my motorbike at 120km/hrin front of your mum and Dad.. on an plane.. a train, underground, hanging from a chandalier.. or a hangman's noose in a tree in your back yerd.. I got told I was not a decent fck to be considered because I was Bi quizative..I replied.. "Say fckn WHAT???"THEY said.. we want a STRAIGHT man to fuck... not a bi curious or bisexual...I scratched my head... and thought.. "Fck me.. I might go have a wank.. and THINK about the last time I fucked on my biike at 120km/hr...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I did think about that once meander.... As like DG said for "marketing purposes" only.... But Gaz scares me, so I dare not tempt fate in getting one of his messages bahahaha ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Reggie010' I have noticed men have straight then when I read what there preference is it has receiving anal.. I personally am not into bi-men and my best friend is gay .. Maybe I just don't want the competition with him ? Lol From also him and my experience on here it opens you up to more chances of sti's ... I never knew you could catch something from sucking his dick :( - Posted from rhpmobile What does a man liking to have anal have to do with his sexuality? Maybe he is partial to women fucking him with a strapon. You really need to broaden your mind and stop making judgements like this one.

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    11 years ago

    I was contact a couple of weeks ago by a mature nice polite gentleman and he had bicurious on his profile seeking Man and Woman and the Lot for connection. Fair enough, however, my preference is to connect with a straight man. Just a personal preference. I response, I turned his chat requests down and his meet up requests many times, even wanting to meet me interstate when I was there a couple of weeks ago. It was getting annoying to the point of about to block him. When asked why I would not engage a conversation with him, I told him I just didnt fancy bisexual nor bicurious men. I prefer Straight men. His response was that he was not really into men and have not hooked up with any men. He put that on his profile so he can attract more responses to his profile and to engage in chats with other RHPers. Quite deceitful really, in my opinion, leading on other people like that with no intention of hooking up with them. Time waster.. hmmm. Just a bizarre behaviour I have come across here. Wonder if anyone has come across people like this? It goes without saying he has been included in my exclusibe BLOCK list. One thing I cant stant, dishonesty and time wasting.