Strip Clubs

April 17 2013

A little while ago I ventured into a strip club and after some time paid for a private dance in a private room. The dance was wonderful and I somehow think I got a little more than I paid for. In speaking to a friend (female) about my experience it appears I probably did get more than is usual.   I have also been lead to believe that there could be different rules between states and more than likely venues themselves. So what are the rules in your state, and for that matter club to club?   Inquisitive Lets

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  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    12 years ago

    What exactly was it?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I had a lap dance recently during a mates bucks night... She was kissing my neck and nibbling my ear lobe and she grabbed my hands and pressed them against her tits.. Other guys I was with pretty much had to sit on their hands and there was no rubbing against them involved... Still $100 to be tortured and gotten horny as hell with no relief so wasn't worth it!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    you are in Victoria and you received any kind of sexual contact with the girl you are in the realms of an illegal brothel under the sex workers act 1994. If said place was prescribed as such the fine for just being found on the premises is around the $6000 mark.Yeah, i know it happens all the time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm with Didactic, define a "little" more

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    LOL! interested on what this little extra was...Hmmmmm!Have experienced lap dancers from the clubs to private showings at buck nites. I must say there is practically no rules for the buck nite ones.Funniest was actually seeing someone we all knew at a club. We have never seen our friend in the same light again... thought we all only wish..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Without describing "a little more" it's hard to share my opinion . From my experience , a lap dance can sometimes be an opportunity to "up-sell" . As much as there may be Laws , Private arrangements can still be brokered . Arrangements that don't include the actual Club/Venue . GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In Brisbane we go to B confidential I get way more attention then my boyfriend does but she told me the rules no touching between the legs or butt we can't touch each other as well and no mouth contact which I think is fair who wants some seedy guy sucking on her tits anyway but I think I prefer more of a show tease than the real deal I get way more hot with the build up ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    12 years ago

    you are rather irristable, who could blame her .....and I have no idea about the rules and regulations.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    Take a tip..... dont pay for a lap dance but instead engage the girl in conversation about what ELSE she has going on in her life, and who she is outside of the job she has in the club.... (IE, dont be just another wallet paying her way in her eyes as a stripper)... and you can have her outside of the club.But that said, there are a lot of strippers that arent worth the drama they'll put you through.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Take a tip..... dont pay for a lap dance but instead engage the girl in conversation about what ELSE she has going on in her life, and who she is outside of the job she has in the club.... (IE, dont be just another wallet paying her way in her eyes as a stripper)... and you can have her outside of the club. Has that ever worked for you? I've known some strippers in my life and have been told so many guys try this "trick", but it never works, as it's soooo obvious. And what stripper would want to talk about her private life to a customer?

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    12 years ago

    Tongues were involved

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    How many tongues?? Where were they placed? My experience, in Melbourne, I was told I couldn't touch below the waist. Above was fine... I wasn't told what I could or couldn't touch with... And tongues were also involved *blush*.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Take a tip..... dont pay for a lap dance but instead engage the girl in conversation about what ELSE she has going on in her life, and who she is outside of the job she has in the club.... (IE, dont be just another wallet paying her way in her eyes as a stripper)... and you can have her outside of the club. Has that ever worked for you? I've known some strippers in my life and have been told so many guys try this "trick", but it never works, as it's soooo obvious. And what stripper would want to talk about her private life to a customer? Yes....it has.... because you know Im not one to be so false like those other guys, playing an obvious game taught by someone else, probably via the internet.All part of the journey.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The pussy whisperer. 😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If you read DG's comment it sounds like he regularly frequents strip clubs and knows all about strippers. So maybe as a regularly he is treated differently? :p

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    HAHAHAHAI see what you're up to. Two female friends of mine like going to them..... so I went a number of times.They claimed to like the music... I think, seeing as both were stereotypical high maintenance eastern suburbs types... they liked the notoriety of some well known people who frequent them more.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Still not buying the whole strippers exposing their private lives to clients. This is real life, not The Wrestler.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    DG sorry it was an assumption on my part based on your last comment that most strippers are more trouble than they are worth. Sounds like you know a lot or have dated a lot of strippers? Eastern suburbs types huh? Gee lucky I am not one of those. I grew up in the Shire. Hahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    MsD just think of Richard Gere in Pretty Woman. Clearly it does happen. :D

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    12 years ago

    MsD.....um.... sorry but it does happen it happened to me

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    In "real life".... hookers have relationships... something I've been told by an escort servicing Sydney's business elite. The dynamics of how they compartmentalise work and private life, and how their partners do it makes for an interesting discussion. Why would strippers be any different? Strippers are, after all, just people doing a particular job.... and people have lives outside of their jobs. And we like when others take an interest in us and not just ogle us and want to hump our leg for how we look. Is it any different to someone in here discussing their private life to another they're having an affair with?! I tend to think not. DG