Struggling to find anyone on here

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Your Profile Pic is of your legs , yet you say to others "no pic no reply"...? GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hi Doze, you're definitely not alone with your problem, most single guys struggle a bit on here, largely because of the sheer factor of numbers - there are a lot more men than women on here. When it comes to couples as well, there are a lot more single guys who want to play with couples, than there are couples that play with single men. To me, your profile definitely does have things going for it, e.g.- no close-up dick pics in your public photos- you've written your own words rather than using the crappy generic profile builder- you've paid for membership so you can send messages (a must for a single guy, really, as sexist as it is) A couple things you might want to consider to improve your chances:- your main photo isn't too bad, but tbh (in my opinion anyway) guys' ab and body shots start to all look pretty much the same after you've seen literally hundreds of them. Not saying that you can't have one, but perhaps for your main pic you can try to think of something a bit more interesting that will make you stand out a bit more, and compel more women to look at your profile (and no I don't mean a cock shot or an action shot of you having sex, those are a turn off for many women). Even if you can take a pic in a more interesting location, e.g at the beach, or while you're doing some sort of outdoor activity, just so it's not the usual abs in the bathroom thing...- I would change the bit about only being here for a "casual fling". Yeah ok you don't want anything serious and that's fine, but that wording is likely to put a lot of women off. I would just say, you're not looking for anything too serious at the moment, something like that. Also, lots of guys have posted on the forums previously about not getting much interest, so if you do a search you should be able to find a few threads in which they have been given advice which you might be able to use yourself (particularly check out the 'Profile Clinic, Tips & Advice' sub-section under Hot Topics, and also the Guys Ask category).Good luck!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  MisterGreen reminded me....I was going to say ditch the other photo of your legs. It's kinda....pointless, and boring. Try and be a bit creative with the pics, they really help you to stand out from the crowd. A few of the regular male posters on here have some great pics (including MisterG ;-) ), maybe check some of them out to get some ideas.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  Have you received any response to your messages? (And no response... IS a response). Are you messaging real profiles? Are your messages interesting? Engaging? Do they COMPEL others to reply? Does your profile and message "package" interest and intrigue others, making them curious to learn more? These all work together to make product "you" more noteworthy in a sea of dick photos, boring "hi" or sleazy sex offender type messages to complete strangers. DG- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Has great pics in his PG2 and I've been lucky enough to see them. Doze, pick the first one as your profile pic, just maybe remove anything below the hips. You are a good-looking guy (definitely not average as your profile says), so show it off!   The legs pic is indeed a bit useless (I should talk, hehe) and don't leave any "Ask me"s on your profile. The women here don't have to ask and they may just move on to the next profile.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I know your current pic is the one I'm talking about, but I meant to keep your face in it.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I feel your pain Doze.. It's amazing how hard it is for a couple to find a normal real life girl that isn't actually a 57 year old guy who lives with his mother and pretends to be a 20 something year old girl.. On the odd occasion when we do chat to (what we think is a real girl) we get dismissed because the male in our couple has a shaved head and apparently there are a lot of 'hairist' women out there. The other problem we've found (while I'm having a sook) is that we'll be apparently going ok while talking to someone, then for no apparent reason, pooft - she disappears off the face of the earth without any explanation or indication of what we have or haven't done wrong?Very frustrating that after months on this and another site, we've only properly 'met' one girl. We too don't know the secrets of the online dating enigma..

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  We are in the same situation. Help :/ no people reply to our polite messages :( - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I would meet you asap your profile seems fine maybe ditch the legs pic and put up something a lil more interesting and def change your looks to attractive not average:)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I still don't understand why anyone bothers with it. Go to the events and meet people. That is the way I meet hot and horny people. Not by sitting behind your screen. That goes for the couples too.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It doesn't say much about you. And I'm sure your post will help a lot too

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I agree it can be difficult especially depending where you live I guess. Good luck but don't give up it will be worth it perhaps as previously mentioned going to events but for me non near where I live so try that if it suits best of luck :)

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