M50
Submission and Surrender
May 02 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
that's me, exactly how I like it. I'm a true sub and with ongoing fb's I trust, it turns me on to completely submit to them, mind and body, which in turn, turns them on. It's amazing. Just talking to one such fb at the moment, gaggin for him again. When it's that good, I seem to stay aroused and turned on between meets, ripe and ready for the next one. It's the snowball effect of both being turned on be each other and what's happening. For me, when they love my ejaculate and are vocal about that, when it turns them on so much, they want more, want to drink it, gives me pussy twinges just thinking about it. But whatever they're doing for me, they get it back in spades, I get off giving pleasure but moreso to guys like that. It's so hard to put into print, it just works sometimes and leaves me weak at the knees. But I've never actually talked in advance about boundaries, it just works or happens naturally when it's right. You need a woman who's up for it and very sexual, and very submissive IMHO
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zzzyyyxxx
9 years ago
probably covers a broad spectrum of things, not for everyone, but really really works for us....
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RHP User
9 years ago
It is a huge world to dive into. Strong emotions and deep rewards. Many, more experienced in this than I, devote their life to it. Remember also, as you suggest, the Sub can gain as much insight into the Domme as the Domme does the Sub. Everyone wins if its done well. Liberating.
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Travel_Bug
9 years ago
And you wonder why your inbox is full of messages and flirts! I can definitely see the mutual turn-on there, with each of you spurring each other along. Shall I give you a second to, um, compose yourself? Btw, every time i see you appear on various threads here, the Divinyls songs by the same name immediately starts playing in my head. Then I listen to the lyrics and wonder if that song was written about you. I don't think you could have found a better username!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Of topic a little but an interesting point for me. I enjoy wearing the blindfold and being teased and pleased by my partner or in group situations. Actually group situations are hot. For me it's a sensory pleasure we share, not dom and sub thing. I suppose it is a submissive position to be in, but I don't feel submissive at all. Even being tied up and spanked, it's a bit of fun. Candy
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Katkat
9 years ago
Sounds like to me you're trying to sell yourself here lol. 😉 I don't think I could ever be a sub just not my thing I like to be the one in control somehow. But I will let a man be in control if he knows what he's doing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Travel_Bug
9 years ago
I've only been a member here only for a little while, but probably the best thing so far is to see the variety of things that make people tick. We're all wired so differently and it's easy to see that one persons greatest fear could be another persons greatest ecstasy. And that one persons turn-on can, in turn, be a turn-on for someone else. Just see what that's done to Touch above! I'm sure there's a large number of people here (both men and women) that are only after some superficial action, and that's great too. If that's what you're after, then go for it. But there seems to be a bit of a core group that are quite comfortable freely discussing their various likes and dislikes on a whole range of issues. Getting this core group together would definitely make for some very interesting dinner conversation! If nothing else it's been enlightening to see some other perspectives, and I've been surprised to see both the enjoyment and power that the sub gets out of these types of scenarios, something that is not obvious at first. Now I just need to find myself a willing participant.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Disco__Stu' And you wonder why your inbox is full of messages and flirts! I can definitely see the mutual turn-on there, with each of you spurring each other along. Shall I give you a second to, um, compose yourself? Btw, every time i see you appear on various threads here, the Divinyls songs by the same name immediately starts playing in my head. Then I listen to the lyrics and wonder if that song was written about you. I don't think you could have found a better username Thanks, and confession, I recently put that song on my phone, listen to it every day now, I love it. My sneaky little secret shh don't tell anyone. I listen to it when I'm walking. It turns me on. I did need a moment after writing that post Thanks, you've just become my favourite op
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sick of seeing people using forum pages for self advertising, Ohhhhh 😛
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
I saw what you did there 😉😘
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
With a true connection and trust, there's nothing more exticing. I'm what they call an Alfa submissive, as in my day to day life I'm a strong, independent woman, but when searching for a partner, I look for a Dominant man. Someone that can take control, someone I can give myself too, someone to take me to a completely different place. It's quite intoxicating to be able to give yourself to someone wholeheartedly and trusting them enough, to let your mind and body go to where they need to go. 💋
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RHP User
9 years ago
sorry if we're boring you but you don't have to read it Care to contribute yourself?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Be a submissive. Whenever anyone has tried to control me I have reacted quite badly. My mind does not need or want that...and I do understand how the sub /dom relationship could be what others want. There are no shades of grey areas there for me.Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry sweetie, wasn't aimed at you 😄 must be us🆗 maybe getting a bit long in the tooth, as it's all old hat for us❗Must remember to have our afternoon nap ✔ Grumpy otherwise 😆 👍💑💋
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'spankthatbum' Sorry sweetie, wasn't aimed at you 😄 must be us🆗 maybe getting a bit long in the tooth, as it's all old hat for us❗Must remember to have our afternoon nap ✔ Grumpy otherwise 😆 👍💑💋 Might be a good idea
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RHP User
9 years ago
in the spa
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
I touch Have a read of their profile. You might find their tongue was firmly planted in their cheek when they uttered the comment about self advertising. That is. ....their post about self advertising was indeed one of the posts which I affectionately call the 'look at me/us' AKA self advertising. 😆😂 I could be wrong .....yeah nah. 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ms Jonesy, the original post; ..Submission & Surrender, would have better been placed in ( erotic stories ) it was an essay in self promotion! Yeah❔💡
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RHP User
9 years ago
Let's not destroy this post. Whatever it was - it got people thinking n exploring n sharing. I know that discovering this aspect of sexuality was, for me, very intriguing and exciting - Disco is just sharing that feeling. Good on him for putting it out there. His considered comments are far better than so many semi witty one liners out there. Take the time - explore and embrace the depth of sexuality that's out there. Getting back on topic - Yes! - isn't it magical when, perhaps contradictory to the labeling - the "Sub" and the "Domme" get to the same places of sheer joy!? Swapping roles from one session to the next is quite challenging for those not practicing the true permanent role thing. Would love to hear comments from those that can. Lovinit - ever been with a Beta Domme? - that'd be a real mind fuck! ;) Peace out! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Please put us on your dinner party list ;) (make sure Touch gets an invite too - wouldn't miss it for the world!) X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your right!...Let's all kiss & make up. Just1Life, now that was an informative bit of reading, covered all the key points, got us thinking? And stayed on topic. What ever it was, you've got us back on track, Yippee ki yay😆 As fo us, well? Disco Stu has covered it all i say. Peace out👌😉💋
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'spankthatbum' Sorry sweetie, wasn't aimed at you 😄 must be us🆗 maybe getting a bit long in the tooth, as it's all old hat for us❗Must remember to have our afternoon nap ✔ Grumpy otherwise 😆 👍💑💋 So who was it aimed at 'sweetie' ? Perhaps jonesy can answer that question ??
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'just1Life' Please put us on your dinner party list ;) (make sure Touch gets an invite too - wouldn't miss it for the world!) X - Posted from rhpmobile I missed this before, sorry and hmm
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'spankthatbum' Ms Jonesy, the original post; ..Submission & Surrender, would have better been placed in ( erotic stories ) it was an essay in self promotion! Yeah❔💡 I only just saw this comment. So let me get this straight. You've come into a topic and you're bagging out on the op for starting a topic which you believe to be self advertising? We're all on here for a reason are we not? I get accused of self advertising all the time, I don't care, I'm here for sex, works for me. I'd hazard a guess most people on the forum are here for the very same reason, it's just not as obvious. But poor form on your part to criticise the op for starting a topic which the rest of us have enjoyed. Absolutely nothing wrong with it. Any wonder people are hesitant to come in and start new topics or come into the forum at all for that matter. Can I ask what bought you here? Was there any other purpose for your visit, self promotion of your own. Good luck with that
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Travel_Bug
9 years ago
Thank you for some great contributions so far and hope to see many more. It’s an intriguing world and it’s great to get some different insights, view and experiences. We may be getting a little off track at times, so can I ask everyone to take a couple of deep breaths. A few of us are getting a little hot under the collar here, myself included, and there’s a bit of back and forth that I don’t think is doing anyone any favours. It’s also shutting down the discussion. I’ve avoided the discussion myself for the least several days as a result, and I was the one that kicked it off. I’m not going to get into what has happened or a debate about ‘advertising’. I only want to reset the discussion and raise 2 points for people to think about: - a forum is a place where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged (I looked it up - I’m not that smart). Unless you’re value adding to the discussion, can I ask that you reconsider whether you post or not. It’s obviously your decision to post, but please think if you’ll be promoting or stifling the discussion. Not just here but any discussion. - if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. I borrowed this from another part of the site, but I believe that it applies equally here. I seem to recall being told this growing up too. In forums like these you can’t read somebody’s body language, you don’t have the tone of their voice, it is just words that are easily misinterpreted. As a result, what you think is a tongue in cheek comment may be interpreted by someone else as an insult. Even a single character (a ‘?’) can lead to miscommunication, and I’ve got a separate apology and explanation to make to Touch over that very thing. Ok, so now that we’ve had a couple of deep breaths and calmed down a little, let’s get back on track. So, what’s on your dirty little minds?
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Travel_Bug
9 years ago
Quoting 'just1Life' Please put us on your dinner party list ;) (make sure Touch gets an invite too - wouldn't miss it for the world!) X - Posted from rhpmobile Ha ha and will do. I have some apologising to do to Touch first though. It would definitely be a dinner party to remember though.
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RHP User
9 years ago
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RHP User
7 years ago
That’s what I am! I surrended my self to my master and being his slave is the best life descision I have made!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've had fantasies about this for a very long time but never played them out. My fantasies range from me and "him" and surrendering to a sensual tease, to waiting blindfolded, naked and kneeling at my front door for a stranger to come and have his way, to having "him" tie me, blindfold me and have me on display at a party where the guests are welcome to touch me...I could go on. The thing about these fantasies though, is I'm not necessarily sure I want to try them all but pretty much all of my fantasies revolve around submission and surrender. The OP's fantasy sounds like a lot of fun and just as much about heightening other senses by restricting others than simply just submission. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have to say a bit of chemistry happening from (I_touch_myself2) and (Lord__Flashheart) who had enough gumption to put a post of asking or even stating what his desires and could be fantasy going by what my husband and I witnessed go for it lol. If a dinner party was invited only we may take you up on this one as my husband is a dom and I am not your average subby a bit of a rebel i am afraid.. however nice thread indeed.. well done
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