RHP

RHP User

M36

Submissive men like/dislike?

December 16 2020

What‘s the thoughts on a submissive man? Any ladies love it, like it, hate it? I’m in control in my workplace and having that feeling of being submissive in a sexual relationship is very much a huge turn on. I guess I haven’t seen a lot of it I guess I may be walking around with my eyes closed as well. Love to hear your thoughts.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    The moral of the story: Never walk around with closed eyes! 👀

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    4 years ago

    Speaking just for myself here before all and sundry have me tarred and feathered. Definitely a major turn off for me. I understand the impulse as I too am naturally and professionally dominate so enjoy the "letting go" of submitting sexually. But a submissive man, to me, is just not "manly" ..... and I respond very positively to "manly" men. Sidenote..... have been contacted by ALOT submissive men over the years, and have noticed an increase in recent months.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    I like assertive men. But then again I do like being put in my place, when I choose too. I also like putting men in their place too. If they deserve it. 😉 Ms Foxy

  • Phoenix_Rising

    Phoenix_Rising

    4 years ago

    I like to be dominated but don’t like to be all that submissive if that makes sense. I’m never going to beg my master or any bullshit like that and I don’t want a man doing that to me. Sure we take turns being in charge and are sometimes a little forceful with each other but I don’t see either of us as being all that submissive. I too like “manly” men but I do also like to be in charge sometimes too, so we’ll play it by ear but if ever he were to act like a wimp it’d be a real turn off for me. I know some might see that as toxic masculinity but rest assured, I wouldn’t want a woman being a submissive wimp either.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I suggest you get better info on fetlife. What most top/dommes dislike is sub men looking for a kink dispenser to serve their kinky needs. That seems quite common. I’ve had a sub boyfriend and I enjoyed some of the fun role play we did together. I’m not a domme though and wouldn’t want a strict d/s relationship

  • jessica__rabbit

    jessica__rabbit

    4 years ago

    I don't mind switching it up sometimes but I'm assertive and I much prefer someone more dominant in the bedroom. Men and women. But don't worry about what other people like. If that's your thing then look for it, be patient, and you'll find someone on the same page.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Not for me... But I'm also in control in my workplace... 😉

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    4 years ago

    I love a submissive guy but its not a necessity. Im not submissive myself, and enjoy dominating a guy and seeing it bring him great pleasure. Not into dominant guys, and there are many on here who are looking for submissive women. Each to their own.

  • 2EssesExploring

    2EssesExploring

    4 years ago

    Hmm this topic interests me, I have always yearned for a woman to elicit a submissive response in me and give up full control but have never found anyone where it happens naturally. I don’t consider myself that dominant, I’m more a soft and sensual lover but seems I carry some dominance else I just attract very submissive women. I could see a submissive man as an interesting proposition in a mfm situation especially as 2 dominant men is just too much for my partner but she wouldn’t choose a submissive man on his own. I think a lot of men mistake cockiness for dominance. Just being full of yourself does not make you dominant just as being submissive doesn’t mean you are not a powerful force to be reckoned with. Confusing eh?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Personally I love a submissive man

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love a submissive. Nothing too painful though. I just love tying my submissive up and controlling their pleasure they receive if any lol.

  • Chellek

    Chellek

    4 years ago

    I like the idea of a submissive man and that relationship but only if it is open to me having other men in my life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    There is something very sexy about a dominant woman! Would love to explore more with someone who prefers to take control.