Sugar Baby Dating - Ever Done it?

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  youngsyd_cpl

  3 years ago

  We find it fascinating ... Totally get your curiosity, we're also curious. And you're right, not a lot is discussed about it. A lot of ignorant people can't distinguish it from escorting, but those more informed know it's vastly different. A girlfriend of ours is a sugar baby, we'll ask her to post her stories.

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  Cucknshells

  3 years ago

  As with everything if it between two consenting adults and not illegal then so be it. However a friend of mind told me her teenage daughter went on a Sugar dating website. Told a guy she was in uni and needed money to pay off a speeding ticket. He transferred the money and she spent it on a new dress. Never met in person. She just used the site to obtain money. Not something I would consider doing especially not as a teenager. I understand that not all interactions are like this however.

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  Rising_Phoenix

  3 years ago

  I don’t even let dates pay for my meal because I don’t want to feel like I owe them anything. I’ve had plenty of offers, some so ridiculous they surely couldn’t be real and I’ve always rejected them, however now that all I want from the male form is sex I might consider it, might as well make it a win win situation 🤷🏼‍♀️

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  Ex007

  3 years ago

  Why do you want people to openly speak about it? I rarely if ever speak about my relationship/s with anyone because frankly, it’s no one else’s business. I'm a private person who is very respectful of my relationship/s. I would certainly never speak about my relationship/s without the other person's permission.

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  countrytouch82

  3 years ago

  I don't know how underground it is here considering about every third female profile lists sugar dating. Or maybe it's just a default fake profile listing. I used an escort once but that's not the same as sugar dating as far as I can tell. That scenario is a very finite hourly time while sugar dating is essentially paying to have your relationship, imho, so not particularly by the clock. And it requires the "sugar", in my case I can only shower someone in kisses, affection [insert gagging, eyeroll reaction] haha. I imagine providing sugar for an ongoing relationship would drain a bank balance pretty fast. I'm curious though also for other's experiences regarding what amounts of money or product is worth for a certain amount of time together, for a sugar baby/daddy. Does a sugar baby simply move on IF the sugar daddy runs out of sugar? Or does it lead to a more genuine connection?

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  jedi_knight

  3 years ago

  I am sweet enough ready no sugar required. 😂😂

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  Buying someone’s attention and affection? Nothing could disgust me more. That’s telling me they’re not interested in me, but my bank account. I’ve got more respect for street hookers than girls leeching off guys under the pretense of dating. Most only want Skype or Snapchat anyway. I spoil a girl because she deserves it, NOT because it’s some prerequisite to buy her affection above the rest of the guys bidding for her time. Seriously, what makes half these girls think they’re actually worthy of my hard earned coin?

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  xxezz

  3 years ago

  Just a modern take on ‘gold digging’. It’s as old as the hills. It is disconcerting though though how many young women seem to want that style of relationship. I think it speaks to something rotten at the core of an increasingly materialistic and affluent culture.

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  hotdigettydam2

  3 years ago

  A friend i havent seen in a while used to be on a sugar dating website and was seeing at least a couple of guys from there.. one was a doctor working 80+ hours a week, didnt want or really have the time to devote himself to a relationship but that doesnt mean he didnt want companionship when he had the time. He could easily afford to pay for sex any time he wanted if that was what he wanted but it really wasnt. I think they eventually did a number of times but mostly it was just going out for dinner or drinks, he'd take her out shopping, pay for car rego or bills if she was having trouble with it but from all accounts she enjoyed his company so it wasnt her just taking advantage of someone but he was extremely generous. By the sounds of it the website she was on was huge with 10's of thousands of guys. I dont see the issue with it if both parties are both consenting adults. Personally its really not my kind of thing but she seemed happy enough although she did have a couple of bad experiences, but im guessing most women have had a bad experience from time to time whether sugar dating or not.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  at the risk of being attacked on all fronts to me its nothing more than another scam under the guise Sugar Dating don't worry i have been there and no she didn't get any money. i was quiet happy to meet and maybe help her out all she wanted was money put into her bank acc without meeting with a promise of meeting later so its not hard to work out where this was going NOWHERE and most likely blocked

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  As I understand it sugar dating isn't as common in Australia as it is in other parts of the world. Mostly because most kinds of sex work are not illegal in most parts of Australia so there's no reason to put it under the guise of sugar dating. I'm sure many of us have it in now profile simply because we are aware that there are some men who have a fetish for Financial domination and although this is not the same thing as sugar dating it's certainly highlights the possibility of a monetary transaction between two people, consenting of course. Like some of the other commenters have pointed out there is quite a high possibility of being scammed for both parties. Everybody wants money to have a good time but I'm not entirely convinced that it always plays out that way.

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