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Sugar Mumma

April 09 2014

I saw something recently that has me wondering about the existence and potential rarity of Sugar Mummas. I realise that Sugar Daddys are somewhat of a common occurrence, with mature guys finding a younger lady who fulfills sexual desires while having an understanding of financial assumption. I see many sexy mature women on rhp, and while it is obvious they have no trouble finding willing younger men, the thought has me pondering the question of whether Sugar Mummas exist. Mature ladies, have you ever been, are you currently, or do you have any desire to be a Sugar Mumma?If no to the above, do you know anyone who has been, is, or desires to be a Sugar Mumma?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I certainly would never want to keep someone financially (not that I have the capacity to) and I find the whole 'Sugar Mama or Daddy' thing really tacky. I am not interested in anyone's financial viability as long as I don't have to support them and vice versa. Seems along the same lines as prostitution for me and I probably have more respect for the profession because at least it is what it is and if I had to 'pay off' someone so they will stick around then that wouldn't be worth it for me. Can't say that I know anyone who is or wishes to be from either sex. Then again I don't know anyone with that much money.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    more an equal granny xx Q

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    That prostitution comes in many forms ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world apparently. So what people?? Who cares at the end of the day. Half the relationships around are some sort of trade off, and someone paying for someone else. If I win powerball tomorrow night I am buying a mansion in the country and I will have a stable of lovelies for the debauchery parties I plan to have.

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    He would cook and clean and look after the house and be on hand to pleasure me sexually and mentally. Ahhhh it's so nice to dream :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world apparently. So what people?? Who cares at the end of the day. Half the relationships around are some sort of trade off, and someone paying for someone else. If I win powerball tomorrow night I am buying a mansion in the country and I will have a stable of lovelies for the debauchery parties I plan to have. I don't think you would need to pay them Meeka, you may have to beat them off with a stick I think.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world apparently. So what people?? Who cares at the end of the day. Half the relationships around are some sort of trade off, and someone paying for someone else. If I win powerball tomorrow night I am buying a mansion in the country and I will have a stable of lovelies for the debauchery parties I plan to have. you just rent one and hose it out once a week

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    11 years ago

    I've been a sugar mumma since I was 19... Even to older guys. It has to do with mindset, fear and power more than age and says a lot about the recipients character. I won't be doing it ever again. Xxviolet

  • Bideas

    Bideas

    11 years ago

    Despite the comments saying it is the same as prostitution, there is a difference. Prostitution is a short term emotionless encounter. A Sugar Daddy or Sugar Mumma relation very much has the possibility of emotional connection.Like every kink many will be against the idea, while those who it suits will embrace the idea regardless of negative opinions from outside parties. Each to their own, who are any of us to judge? VioletIncredible, I find the subject quite interesting based mainly on lack of knowledge on the subject. If you don't mind me asking (I don't mean to pry, more clarify) Were you saying that it was a Sugar Mumma relationship specifically, whereby you enjoyed having the power at your fingertips, or were you more referring to everyday relationships where you were more of a financially sound participant?If it was infact a Sugar Mumma type scenario, was it viewed in a master/obeyer sense? It kind of has distant similarities to a cuckold relationship, whereby a master type has an obeyer type using financial humiliation as opposed to sexual humiliation.I mean no disrespect to anyone who has participated in such an arrangement, I'm fascinated by the topic. I, like most people, have been in numerous relationships where financial input has not been equal from both parties, however this is more to do with my traditional views on courting a lady rather than a power/Sugar type position. I appreciate the responses so far!

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    11 years ago

    Most guys who are sugar daddies have to be to get the younger women interested.Why be a sugar mumma when they can be a cougar and do it on the cheap ? ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My younger lovers seem to have the the misconception that I was in that category. Asking for loans, gifts and other things. They got the look! That was enough.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Give birth to chocolate babies ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Hi OP, I have not desire to be a Sugar Mummy..at this stage of my life. I believe I don't meet the age bracket, (is there is one??). What do you think is the age bracket is OP for one to be a Sugar mummy?? I do however work with a couple of women, who maybe fall under the category of "Sugar Mummies". I would never label them that or call them that. Both are in their late 50's early 60's. One lives with their partner and the other is seeing/dating another. The one living with partner, financially assists him to go to UNI. On saying that the younger man treats her with the upright respect and dignity she deserves. These ladies appear to be both happy in their relationships...so why not? Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Hugh Hefner, he's got it made... Awwwww what a life surrounded by all those little bunnies. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    One power ball and I will buy me a man or three. If it works who cares, if both parties get what they want to compare it to prostitution is silly, prostitution is a whole different ball game and as we know most of it is NON consensual.just look at the adds now in the paper with trafficked women, or women who have drug problems rare is the woman that has the brains to make it a career of her own, and they are normally the top end of the trade. think of it as a woman who is a Mistressthere has to be a male version of the same. I would buy a couple of nice guys to work around the house. Eye candy the sex part well I can manage that free , only because I am a woman I do get why men pay and I feel for them. Women do not have to pay for sex ever, as you can be as ugly as a hat full of arseholes and some guy will still fuck you. And really marriage is pretty much the same thing, especially if you are staying home and husband works and pays for it all. Lady T the kept woman tis the power of the pussy. so to answer your question, yes sure I could be a sugar mummy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would just like to point out that sex is not always part of a sugar daddy arrangement . It can encompass whatever the daddy and the sugar baby agree on...and it can be completely platonic. I'm in a FB group that has a few girls with sugar daddys, and they don't all involve sex. Some just provide companionship etc.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I do however work with a couple of women, who maybe fall under the category of "Sugar Mummies". I would never label them that or call them that. Both are in their late 50's early 60's. One lives with their partner and the other is seeing/dating another. The one living with partner, financially assists him to go to UNI. On saying that the younger man treats her with the upright respect and dignity she deserves. These ladies appear to be both happy in their relationships...so why not? Foxy I wouildn't class those as sugar mummy arrangements...they are actually in relationships with these men. Just because she is older and she is supporting him financially doesn't mean she's a sugar mummy, just as an older man who has a younger partner that he is supporting financially isn't necessarily a sugar daddy, even though we use that term colloquially to describe such partnerships.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    a difference between an older woman living with and supporting a man and just "dating "' a younger man as LD said....xx Q

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Living together or dating; Both women whom I mentioned are older, and the men are quite younger as in one late 20's and the other early early 30's. As LD said and I also agree, it's probably more to do with companionship, if all people are happy with arrangements I don't see an issue. Foxy