RHP

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Sugar dating

March 18 2017

I see it up alot, and who wouldn't love to have the experience but what does it involve and how does one come by it and talk about it wothout coming off rude - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    There's a website designed specifically for this. Men and women looking to pay someone to spend time with them. It's not always about sex. It may never be about sex. There are so many different scenarios that may work. But basically it's someone exchanging their time and possibly affections, for money or other benefits. The Sugar Daddy/Mummy advertises what they are looking for, and a Sugar Baby advertised what they offer and what they are looking for. Payment is discussed, it could be cash, gifts, or something else. I can't imagine that it would be easy to approach someone about this, on here. Unless my definition of Sugar Dadfy/Mummy relationships is incorrect. 😜😂

  • lovebitten

    lovebitten

    8 years ago

    Unless a woman has a profile indicating she's into it, don't bring it up. Myself, the idea does nothing for me, and hence any young man has wasted his message. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Kisskiss80, that's how I understand sugar dating as well. Judge me if you want people, but if I was 26 years younger I'd be jumping on that bandwagon 🙂

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    I can explain all. Maybe we can chat about it over dinner at Vue De Mode and finish off at your Penthouse. But let's not drag it on because we should be up early tomorrow to get done shopping done. Honey-Bee have a new release on that I'm sure you can find me a few things that you might like me to wear for you. Love you.........

  • Magik_Munk3y

    Magik_Munk3y

    8 years ago

    If you're a Sugar Mummy hit me up!

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    8 years ago

    A sugar daddie site once....let's just say there were no sugar daddies there 😔

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    8 years ago

    What if i was a Diabetic?

  • MnauMnau

    MnauMnau

    8 years ago

    And would appreciate from RHP filter not to show any sugar related dates if I don't want them. Thanks. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    For those who want to know more, there is a book written by someone who was in such an arrangement. Sugarbabe by Holly Hill. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I was offered $1500 to attend a Swinging event this Monday night ....i declined as a) im not a prostitute and b) you cant tell me that there wouldnt be an EXPECTATION to play even if i didnt want too.. plus after i told this dude that i do have enodmetriosis and it can flare at anytime the communication stopped... this person wasnt on this site at all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    If anyone contacted me with that in mind, they'd be sadly disappointed, can barely afford to feed myself. As a general answer though, I think there's something intrinsically wrong with this. The provider of the 'sugar' will most times have feelings for the receiver, but how does the receiver feel about them? Meaning, if they have to be accepting gifts to continue seeing this person, would they still want to see them without the sugar. If sex is in play, IMO it's the equivalent of paying for sex. Do I judge that? Not at all, just could never do that myself. If it works for other people and gives them some happiness, good for them 😃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    My date the other night paid for dinner and drinks, and I felt bad about that. My shout next time 😘

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' My date the other night paid for dinner and drinks, and I felt bad about that. My shout next time 😘 thats the old fashioned way that is not expected from women this day and age but chivalry from a man is lovely

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'MnauMnau' And would appreciate from RHP filter not to show any sugar related dates if I don't want them. Thanks. - Posted from rhpmobile what women asking you to be there SD?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    So at what age or age gap would you class it as 'Sugar Dating'! Or it doesn't matter what age or age gap, if you are young and ask someone older than it's classed as Sugar Dating? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 1soulsearcher

    1soulsearcher

    8 years ago

    Maybe I'm old fashioned but I always pay for the evening or what ever is going on. Concerts, dinner or a weekend away. It's not all about the sex. Though that is always nice, sometimes it's just good company and laughs.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I found this definition for sugar daddy "A rich older man who lavishes gifts on a young woman in return for her company or sexual favours" 😃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    like any of these terms, open to interpretation, I would imagine, according to the individuals and how it works for them 😃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You don't look old fashioned to me 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Mung; I totally agree mate. I always pay, foe ever thing, pull out her chair, open the door for her, allow her first to sit down. It's just how I was raised. You treat her like the Quren she is. I_touch_myself; I knew that terminology existed but I never thought I would ever be called a Sugar Daddy 😂😂 It just sounds so dirty and I definitely think there is a age gap limit. Might just stick to flying to Perth and taking you out on a hot date 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    To ones partner is fine, admirably even, but to a stranger ? That's just gullible. A past lover had a couple of girlfriends who would hit the vanilla sites daily for lunch and dinner dates, and that well was always full. Good on you fellas.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I neither want to be 'taken care of nor do I want to take care of someone'. I'm generous to a fault and will lavish people with gifts because I like doing that, on my terms and when I see fit or want to surprise. I love seeing people's faces when they've received something they've wanted or they loved that I remembered them in that way ... that's just special to me :) I hesitate strongly to be a gracious receiver of gifts but that's another story. I pay my way because that's what I was taught and I observe social norms and protocols when out with groups, or with friends. Any 'transactional' arrangements I've entered into have been with a male escort ... I bought sex, nothing more and nothing less (one was ordinary lol). IM NOT JUDGING ... but to me it's a little 'pretty woman' this whole sugar daddy thing. As far as a sugar mummy ... I hate the term and it screams 'I need to buy company' ... no thank you. Mary xx