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Swapping Pics Taboo ??

October 29 2021

Hi RHP community My wife and I are very new to this scene and we’re very nervous understandably, we’re both very interested in extending our sexual experiences however we’d like to take it slloowww… eg swapping pics/vids with couples to get us going knowing that another couple is seeing us in our intimate moments in turn hopefully leading to a build up of confidence so we can take the next step eventually. So far it’s been far from that so we’re just wondering if we’re in the right place ? On one hand we don’t wanna waste people’s time yet we’d still like to get naughty. Any recommendations or advice would be amazing. Hope this isn’t an ignorant question. Thanking you Z & S

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RHP User

3 years ago

I’d think there are other couples like yourselves, a lot to be said for taking it slow and cautiously. Ease into it at your own rate.

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Sawadee

3 years ago

You already taken the first step by posting here. Like all things , if you dont tip your toe you never know. Im a firm believer in meeting in a neutral environment before anything ? You can tell alot by chatting face to face then going home to weigh up if you liked what you felt and want to go further or pull the plug.. Worked for us..

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SpicyKale

3 years ago

There’s definitely others on here that are on the same level as you. Our best advice is update your profile to clearly state what you’re after. The clearer you are in your profile the more likely you are to both find a match and not lead people on. Good luck!

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teamaj2

3 years ago

Hi Z and S Welcome to RHP . Rule no 1 it’s okay to proceed at whatever pace you are comfortable with . You write your own rule book , make your own boundaries and there is no right or wrong path. Just be clear in your profile what you seek . Some maybe hesitant to picture or video swap . Sadly , there is quite a few fake profiles and picture/ video collectors . Most of us proceed with caution . As has been said many times attending a meet and greet , event or party , perhaps not an intimate event , maybe a good strategy . This would allow you to observe others , meet some like minded people with no pressure to play . Good luck . Ax

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MsSuperFoxy

3 years ago

Welcome. Your question is valid. You do you. You take the pace at your rate, after all it's about the two of you. I have one rule. I do not exchange any full naked/explict pictures until after I have had sexual activity with a person. And I do not include my face. It's certinally ok to be flirty etc prior meeting. However you don't want to set yourselves up only then be dissapointed when you met them. If a person is into both, they'll wait till you are both ready. And will respect your boundary. It's certinally OK to say No, as well. Do not under under any circumstances feel like you have to do anything here because you don't. There should be no expectations or pressures. Consent is the key. Ms Foxy

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FeistyFatty

3 years ago

Someone else was posting about soft swapping the other day have a look down the most recent forum topics list Whilst soft swap and pic swaps are definitely not my cuppa tea, there will be others like yourselves. Just have to find them. Good luck.

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MsSuperFoxy

3 years ago

If you are into videos, why not try the chat room? There's plenty of couples that go in there on cam. There's private chat rooms too. It might be worth checking it out. There's also plenty of wankers too, if you like that. 😇😈 Ms Foxy (doesn't mind the good old perv in the chat room).

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RHP User

3 years ago

First off we both just want to say wow and thank you all so much for your warming messages and support ! We did not expect such a great response. This has put our mind at ease and also brings to light why it’s not just a swap meet for pictures ( very understandable now) ☺️ We’re definitely going to take on board all your amazing advice and further our experiences. Thanking you all again so much. Z & S

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Margo_Lover

3 years ago

We're only 6 months in on our real life ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) journey. But we've been sharing ourselves online via a social network that starts with T for a year or 2. It was a fantastic introduction, and helped us become comfortable sharing our sexuality with others. We still enjoy sharing there, although most on RHP doesn't know it exists, or find it weird when chatting. It's also a great place to connect with others around the world and chat about experiences etc, with the caveat that there are huge numbers of fake/aholes there... like everywhere else online. We share a bit here on RHP chat... but we don't find messaging with people here much fun compared to the social networks. This is more of a meat market... where most are just looking to fuck, in our experience. Nothing wrong with that, but we like to get to know people a bit before meeting. Good luck - Alex.

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blix_and_queen

3 years ago

Set your boundaries and stick to them. Do whatever you feel comfortable with.

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3 years ago

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3 years ago

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