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Swinger etiquette

August 01 2017

OK Club/group newbie question here so please be gentle. Condoms in any swinging scenario is a given. Definitely no problems understanding that. At a recent visit to a club my wife wanted the last fuck for the night with me. As I went for a condom, she refused the condom and said it wasn't needed. We have both been tested, are clean and we haven't used condoms when intimate with each other for over a decade. Do all established couples use condoms with each other in a club/swinging environment? Is it acceptable to go without a condom at a club group session if it is "the last dance" of the night and no one else is involved?

Comments

  • Curious1965

    Curious1965

    7 years ago

    I would never expect a couple that walks in together to use a condom - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    We never use condoms with one another if we are at a swingers get together - why should we if we are tested regularly and, should we play with others , always engage in safe sex / use protection? And yes, if it's the last dance, then quite acceptable as it's something intimate for us both to share - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I have generally seen the married or ongoing couples choose to play naturally, whether or not it is the end of the night. If you are happy to play without condoms at home all the time, and later go to events where condoms are used with other people, I don't think it makes too much difference the time frame, whether it's 2 mins, 2 hours or 2 days before someone else is with you who then uses a condom. As long as they do. So there's nothing particularly unique about doing it "last". I'm not up with any statistics on increased risk if someone is using a condom with you, after your partner has been with you naturally and perhaps finished inside you. However if you are both tested regularly, I can't see the risk to others. The only problem would be to make sure others know you are a couple and/or have an existing arrangement, so they don't ask questions and/or get ideas when they see you playing at a party without a condom.

  • pizzadogs

    pizzadogs

    7 years ago

    Really don't understand why if it's your wife that you fuck all the time why you would tarp up just because you are at an event .?

  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    7 years ago

    We definitely don't use them on our own or at clubs. Only with other playmates. I wouldn't expect to see couples use them with each other at clubs either. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Agree with above. Assume you will shower or freshen up between play partners so bareback between you shouldn't be a problem. Wash the germs away first. :))

  • megz85g

    megz85g

    7 years ago

    Hubby and I don't use condoms when playing together, in fact last week we had a 3 way with a guy who loved me sitting on his face with a Pussy full of hubbys cum - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks for the feedback everyone Very much appreciated. the last thing i would want is to be escorted out of a club for doing the wrong thing Cheers Oh and megz...........what a lucky guy :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Wearing condoms is an individual choice at clubs. It's not a rule. So please don't assume that all the people there are using condoms. Because you will see some will not. You need judge that risk for yourself.

  • married2aBBW

    married2aBBW

    7 years ago

    Why would we us a condom with our spouse when we never do at home ? When we went to swingers club was told the rule was condoms for play with others , and would assume that means others not our own couple self - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Megz85g u r so hot! ...love it. We could only imagine what u guyz get up 2 :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    7 years ago

    Hi, John never uses a condom with me at a club or party. If it isn't "the last dance" then John pulls out and cums on my boobs or tummy and I can clean up easily. That way I am still fresh should "future dance partners" that night want to go down on me (and not want John's creampie!). All of our friends practice the same method unless we are playing with our closest friends who we never use condoms with.Ann