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Swingers club full or not so full

June 13 2017

Does a swingers club have to be packed to have fun? Or are you a less is more person to have fun? In swingers clubs some of the best nights and events have been where there is a small intimate crowd with many things in common. One of the best nights, was when I walked into a club and everyone left thinking nothing was happening. I was the only one left. Later 2 gorgious curvy girls walked in after work hours. We had the best evening on a slow night in the spa and pool. Very personal and quality. I guess it is what you make of things.

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

We prefer quality as opposed to quantity. Why compromise ? If a club is too full, not only does it lose its intimacy, but in many instances (in our opinion) you can't see the wood for the trees, too many distractions, you lose control and don't know who has done what and to whom. Mob mentality comes to mind (again in our opinion and based on our experience with regards the clubs / parties that we have attended) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I like busy nights.. Options are good. On the downside sometimes there isnt anywhere left to play if the club is super busy. - Posted from rhpmobile

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boobsandbusted

8 years ago

Of people to rooms and space to play in ,too crowded with not much play space or room in general can easily become intimidating and overwhelming and loose it funness in our opinion and as dc said can be hard to see the good wood through the trees - Posted from rhpmobile

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megz85g

8 years ago

Don't want to have to settle - Posted from rhpmobile

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lovenangel2

8 years ago

First time swinging and looking for swing joint in bali..recommendations anyone? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Where it was only just myself and one lady that showed up (as well as the host/hostess), so they left the both of us to ourselves for a couple of hours ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

As a guy i prefer less full. Nothing worse than being one of 20 guys hoping to play with a few girls that may show up. Ths happened at shed 16 a few times. But this isnt always the case. - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

Are there ever "less guys" on the nights they are allowed in ? It's normally a snag fest - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

We have been told that swingers clubs are not allowed in Bali. You will have to find a private party. - Posted from rhpmobile

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swingalingson

8 years ago

Great location, awesome vacations. From my experience is that countries with major religion influences really do not advertise swinging or see it as taboo. I have heard travelers not finding any open swingers club in Bali. Guys I might be wrong. Correct me if I am. Most people mainly line up meets in private and play later. Or arrange to travel together

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swingalingson

8 years ago

No snag fest that night Dynamic.....it was a MUFFIN cake walk!!! I was at a club which I was one of 2 guys and 12 single girls the rest were couples. The girls and couples mainly wanted single guys. WTF! Was a busy night for us 2 guys. I dont know how we made it out alive!

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megz85g

8 years ago

Yesterday, it was me and I think 3 other ladies, to about 25 guys. It becomes quite annoying being constantly followed around, and them feeling as tho they have a right to try and touch you because you are the only woman available - Posted from rhpmobile

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swingalingson

8 years ago

Ya that does suck. Worse when people do not play by the rules and do not ask.

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

Which is why they are nicknamed "Meerkats" and "Seagulls" Lol:)

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noeleena

8 years ago

Hi, I will say theres one thing I like at our group and we have between 45 to 60 people come its not over crowded and plenty of room with 4 bed rooms and one for other activites plus out side with a spar, I,m quite happy going and get invited each time we have an event . as I meet others I find are good and sure not pushy quite the other way as the single men about 4 some time,s don't even talk to you unless you say hi first, The hosts are lovely and we allways have a talk, we have one guy who does massage and most times he does 4 who come . The one thing for me is I,v never been hounded maybe because I,m just too quiet and don't say much, .just shy..... Our next do is next Sat 24 th july and expected is 63 attending just couples and single females , this time I wont be going so will miss out . The one detail for me is I don't have a partner and not being a couple I do missout on play time, oh well..... Still I will be at Saints and Sinners a bit later in the evening 7 th July, and I belive will be quite different from what I know, ...noeleena...

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