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Swingers clubs?
September 25 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
this ones been done a few times in a number of different forums
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry to break it to you but 35 ain't young. Or are you asking on someone else's behalf? People from early 20's onwards go to swingers clubs. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
We agree at 35 your average age lol... Gray hair has more then arrived :) anyway we had our first swingers expericance at a swingers club :)) all we can suggest is to agree on the ground rules with each other before going :) we started at connextions on the central coast with a mixed age group and some very respectful people there... And remember no really does mean no...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok nice:) well I'm thinking 50 is older but I see your point:)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Brad7784' Ok nice:) well I'm thinking 50 is older but I see your point:) 50 is definitely older than 35 while 35 is certainly younger than 50. Always has been and always will be.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Brad and friend. Report back ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Or are you thinking of taking your wife? Depends... Have you participated in group play before? Go to Couples Club in Sydney on Angel & Demon night in a few weeks and report back. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Swingers clubs and swinging will make or break you as a cpl, seen many fall by the way side. If you do set clear rules for each other and dont break them, easy to do in the heat on the moment. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes with my wife we have talked about it many times and is a big part of what makes our sex so hot just not sure about moving it into reality we almost meet a couple of a site like this but are thinking a club for our first time is best because no pressure first time up
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
Swingers clubs are great. 90% of our fun has being at swingers clubs. Highly recommend them..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thre years ago I was dragged to a local club, I really was thinking it was a place for the perfect people. I do not consider my self perfect in any way. But I got there stripped off and found that it was far from what I had imagined, all ages, all body, and all personalities types are represented. I have not stopped going for than a couple of months. Its like a regular hangout, friends with the regulars and heaps of fun.I always go as a couple, depending on who is available at the time, sometimes I am lucky to go with a car full of ladies. Lucky lucky me. I love the open sensuality that a swingers club has. All the bullshit that you will find at normal clubs and pubs is dropped. You get so very used to seeing people naked and having sex its seems completely normal. I am addicted.Yet there are pitfalls for those that are new to this game. Jealousy can crop up at any time. Partners of mine have stormed off, and I to have felt its sting. For me especial it is when a partner goes off to play in a locked private room and I am excluded. I do say its ok but the bite of jealousy still gets me from time to time.So before you go set the rules. If you are going to play with others, make your rules, what every they may be. Always keep and eye on your partner and be ready to attend to their needs even if you are in the swing of things. If one says that is enough, then it is. Working out your boundaries will take trial and error, so be ready for it. Respect each others boundaries.First time just check it out. Meet the people and see how it goes. If you like it and return after time you find it great fun, or maybe you will have an awesome time from the start. I did.I in fact like to meet people from RHP for a first date there if they are interested in sex. Even if we don't hit it off there there are plenty of like minded people to talk to and play if that is there need. Some keep coming back, some every now and then and others try it once and don't like it.Try it there is no harm in trying. Wish you luck and lots of fun.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes this is why we have taken so long to make sure don't want to ruin our relation ship and the reason we are thinking swingers club if it's not for us we don't need to cut of any relation ships with another couple. I'm sure it will be a big turn on for us both very keen to see how she reacts and how dirty and far she will go with all that cock around:)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why don't you go the first time as observers only. That way there is no pressure and you have a fun night and also get to see what it's all about. When people ask you just say it's your first time and you are watching... And of course you both may get over taken by lust, strip off and jump into the mosh out of pink bits.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lots if guys dot perform the first time, stage fright! And that's cool! 😊
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RHP User
11 years ago
That should say mosh pit.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeah that's an option as I said we are not sure what is the go don't want to look like snobs or any thing but i know for sure I'd be turned on watching others for sure:) and I'm sure the bulge in my pants would let every one know to. Don't think I will have problem getting it up more like jumping to early:) now I can't get the pink mosh pit out of my mind:)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks heaps what club did you go to? Great ass by the way;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nope, you do want you want. Some couples go just to socialize, have a drink and a dance and never go to the play area, some people just go to watch particularly if they are new, some couples go and only play with each other, some do straight swaps, some run around and bonk as many people as possible, a lot of women like to play with each other, some women bring their Strapon 😉, some bring the whips and paddles.... As anywhere you may encounter a pushy person. It's the norm to say "I am okay" or "no thanks not right now" people in the scene will not get upset by that... It's the pushy people who are acting in appropriately. You get them everywhere though. Suggest you read the Couples Club - Sydney thread in this section. There are a few couples who have commented on their first time at a swingers club.
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RHP User
11 years ago
the Mosh pit is the orgy room and can get very busy... Maybe 50 people or more on popular nights. You still should ask before touching another woman.... And if she slaps your hand away that means no! The amount of guys who continually try and touch you.... GRrrr If anyone is touching you when you don't want it.... speak up!! They are the ones acting in appropriately. Be nice... But firm.
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RHP User
11 years ago
By the way all guys say that... It's a different story when you are there and a large group of people are watching you. ☺️
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks is all good stuff as you say sounds hot I'm hard as a rock now but I'm sure in the moment we will see:) I think my wife will be the one having to slap them away she is quite hot can't wait to go now:) will go have a look at that site cheers
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RHP User
11 years ago
Next big night is the 4th Oct.
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
:..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe the wife didn't know he was on here?
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RHP User
11 years ago
That was my thought Meeka......."sprung"Literally here one day and gone the next rofl
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RHP User
11 years ago
Would you like to join me;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Brad7784'I think my wife will be the one having to slap them away she is quite hot can't wait to go now:) Brad's wife slapped him away from his computer.
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