Swingers clubs? What are you worried about

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Swingers clubs are not a fad. They have always been around. It's probably more that you have only just become aware of them. I was curious so I went. Simple really. :)

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  noeleena

  8 years ago

  Hi , Not from what I have seen and know there maybe in some citys or just a more become interested as something new to them. I,m sort of involved with our Group in Ch Ch ,NZ have been for a while , and I went for some very good reasons . strange as it my be , for an older woman though I,m fit as very involved with in our communitys in other aspects not related to swingers, So my reason, to understand men to know how to please them to know what they like and to be able to spend some time with a guy in a sexual way, is that strange to many people it is and more so at my age at over 69, never been with a guy in a sexual way ever , spent an hour with one guy touching and feeling and that's pretty much it, no intercourse ....none....you,s all here may wonder why a swingers group ,......... well where can I go........., and be safe . I,m very naive know very little about men lack understanding and not sure what to do. and total no experance, I was aware of swingers some 30 years ago .and much more at 50 years ago. so I,m not completely dumb. just , I don't know slow in my understanding of details , So you can write me off as very odd , strange or something else , yet I have many many lovely friends most are women and a few men ,, no sexual what ever at all, so this is my reason for going. Hope my reason is a good one,???...... ...noeleena...

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Hardly. They've been around for decades. Perhaps there are a few more around now and it's becoming more acceptable to attend. Before I went a club for the first time, I was very concerned about being pressured and harassed and made to feel uncomfortable. So for years I wanted to go but didn't. Then I met a guy on here and he wanted to go, he hadn't been before, so we went together. It's one of those things you put off doing and then once you do it you realise you were worried about silly things. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  FeistyFatty

  8 years ago

  A fad. For some individuals who are faced with going alone, that may be cause for your "chickening out". Bit in the end, where there's a will there's a way. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mezmerizingeyes0

  8 years ago

  Aren't FAD's those sweet musk candy looking cigarettes? mmmmmm sweet candy (aka Kiss Kiss) Like anyone its the fear of the unknown but as kiss kiss says we all usually worry about the small things. The first time I met a group from here I made it all the way to the restaurant carpark and then messaged the lady saying "nope cannot do this" she convinced me to come in which I did. And i have to say it was not anything daunting. Like most people its the fear of the unknown or the expectation you create in your head. My advice never fear the unknown give it a go you never know we are all normal in the scene well ok maybe not your Swinga

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  There is a cold snap right now.. We almost skipoed our last visit due to cold and wind..toughing it out and attending as often as we can, - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Been around for years. I haven't been to one yet. Anyone have any recommendations for one in Sydney

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I'd really like to go, but wouldn't go alone. My ex partner and I had planned to go together but it didn't eventuate. From what I understand they've been around a long time but perhaps are just more openly talked about now. - Posted from rhpmobile

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