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Swingers clubs; what do you think
October 24 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
think/know I just wouldn't want to be in the same air space as some from here, but not limited to. Honestly it makes me want to puke, the meer thought of it. There you are, there's an honest answer. Not happening, not ever, not in Perth, and I doubt elsewhere because of the type of revolting older men they let in. Dune cats and fat wankers from the nude beach have to go somewhere at night don't they? Seriously, not enough youth for me, the older ones just turn into creepy fuckin stalkers
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RHP User
7 years ago
before the usual suspect turns up, private rooms are not for me. I'm a shower not a grower 😉
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swingalingson
7 years ago
This is gonna be a positive forum. I can sense it.😉
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megz85g
7 years ago
Most weeks, have more hits than misses - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I was not expecting so many older people to go. My very first experience of a swingers party was illuminating and nothing like I expected. There was a woman there in her 60’s or could have been 70’s. She instroduced herself as kinky granny and told everyone she was old fashioned so if the guys wanted a blow job they would have to ask her.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's going to be funny hearing all the perceptions of people who have no idea and never been We have been hundreds of times it's like this Turn up, put your drink behind bar Mingle and chat to whoever you please If you choose you can go to a private room , or play in open There's no keys no body hassles you,if they do they have to leave,no pressure to do anything you don't want to do Don't know what people are so scared of! It's just like a bar, you don't have to talk to or mingle with people you don't want to! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
"the type of revolting older men" ????? I am protesting, I am not anything like that,
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
And whilst they have all been different, there were never any “keys in the hat” scenarious. Instead we had a glass of champers at the bar and surveyed the goings on, socialised & chatted with others. We enjoyed the sexual tension in the air, the naughtiness of it all, the seduction, flirting, the visuals ..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
Because I thought the clubs would be full of the young and beautiful people and being older and curvy I'd thought I'd struggle to find people willing to play but from the moment I first dropped my towel and awkwardly got into the spa I realised most folks were normal and a young girl who witnessed my first debut of swing club nakedness commented she just loved my confidence XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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ReyandJean
7 years ago
Everything you do in a normal spa/ club, but with less clothes. You need to be as groomed and charming. You get to flirt and maybe have to follow through with action, lol. Direct physical contact, even women kissing one another or men is generally not acceptable without prior engagement and welcome. We have never been to one where its a free for all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Up4HankyPanky
7 years ago
Friends of ours took us to one in Perth. It was just like being at a bar except some people dressed down (most didn't) and we may have been dragged away to the private room by our friends. We are keen to Melb but it looks like everyone has to dress down and we are not that extroverted. So unfortunately it looks like we won't get to experience the Melb scene. Our 1 experience in Perth was far different to what I_touch made out. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
😉
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
We have been to several Melbourne swingers clubs, and one is not required (or pushed) to change down. They are like bars / cocktail lounges - you can socialise and chat with others. You can dress sexily. You can flirt. There are normally some naughty movies playing in the background - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Wow I thought this forum would have died down. But people's ideas of the unknown are so important. Once they go they think back and compare what it was and what it is.
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
It is usually the private parties which require you to dress down. None of the swinger clubs I have been to (three) require you to dress down....unless you want to. 😉 In fact I have stayed fully dressed all night sometimes as I have been there to socialise rather than play.
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Up4HankyPanky
7 years ago
Thanks for that feedback everyone. I was looking at Shed 16 on a Friday (couples night). Have you guys been there and if so, is that the same deal (only dress down if you want too)?I was also told Blondeez and Wet (3rd Monday of each month I think) are worth a look as well. We are after a laid back, non-hard core environment, where we can just go, have a few drinks and meet people without any pressure. Definitely has to be a couples / ladies only night.How many people do these places get on an average night?Love to hear your recommendations.
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ReyandJean
7 years ago
Shed 16 it`s easy to sit in the bar area clothed. The spa is a different story. Numbers vary. It has never been more than ten couples when we've beenbut there may be busier nights. Wet is, well, wet, being a pool and all, but there are people who travel in swimmers. Wet is usually busy -dozens of couples. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Shed16 on a Friday night - couples only. Attunga on last Sat of the month -couples only Wet on Wellington - 3rd Monday All 3 have same owners. Blondeez was a shocker - extremely bogan and 36 single males to just 4 couples. Most were smokers. Best bet is Attunga & WOW. Attendees vary on the night - Posted from rhpmobile
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try1ngit
7 years ago
Shed 16 is a nice place on a Friday night, numbers vary like every place, but is friendly and good staff. You only need to dress down if you are going upstairs to play or watch, or getting in the spa, (not real good with clothes on). Wet is strip off as soon as you get in the door, very busy and crowded with lots of couples. Rooms upstairs very small and hallways very narrow and dark.We are at Shed 16 most Friday's, might see you there.
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hotdelights
7 years ago
Just asking being at mikes place is COUPLES nights sat and some single women whats the EXPERIENCE had there and age guest being open minder
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RHP User
7 years ago
Open minded in what way? That. Question is so broad how can we answer? Swinging clubs, in my experience, are not that open minded when it comes to men. No men sucking each other off, no golden showers, men don't normally turn up in drag..... is this what you meant?
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Many have open & Bi nights, where all of that happens . Certainly at Shed16 and Attunga - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes special nights, but not part of the usual swingers nights. Not in Sydney anyway, not as a norm.
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megz85g
7 years ago
Thurs night is bi night, hubby and I have had fun with a few guys there - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
7 years ago
I'd love to get myself along at least once just to experience the scene. I know I've been saying this for yonks but i never seem to get the time to get down and serious to make this happen.. and I won't go alone because I don't like the idea of being branded the dreaded single male.. Not that I'm a snob , but I do have perimeters. DC.. I haven't forgotten your kind offer and still have the raincheck should I ever get myself down your way.. The only thing stopping me is distance , i just hope the raincheck doesn't expire any time soon .. lol.. And if I should ever find myself in Perth' reckon I'd have a partner in crime with ' Touch '.. Seems we're on a similar wavelength , both train wrecks.. lol.. Just need to find someone in Sydney who wants the same experience.. 😊
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
You know that we are very patient and believe that all good things, that are meant to be, will happen in time. As for being a “train wreck” you are far from that, for now :) 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
The rain check has no expiry date 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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mikesplace01
7 years ago
Quoting 'hotdelights' Just asking being at mikes place is COUPLES nights sat and some single women whats the EXPERIENCE had there and age guest being open minder Mikesplace Friday Parties are for Couples , Ladies and limited numbers (unto 10) single male members Why 10 and why Members. I our experience (well over 10years in the scene) single guys would much rather be at a party where they feel and are welcome. some couples like having a few extra guys to play with and some don't. So the fridays are designed for those that do. End result a night where the guys feel and are made to feel welcome and the ladies both single and married leave satisfied (in general.....as no to parties are ever the same....results may vary).So in general satisfied , happy and with a smile.Mikesplace Sexy Saturday parties are designed for couples and Ladies who like and want to play with other couples and ladies and vice versa. So in both cases all in the scene are catered for with thought to all.It is not in anyway discriminatory it is driven by market requirements.From time to time people may hear this and that. But folks THEMS IS THE FACTS.....
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couple_88
7 years ago
We've been to 2 (QLD & VIC) and they've been great. Will definately go back to "TMC" in melbourne though. If you're around our age, look them up and you'll know why.. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
7 years ago
MIKESPLACE by the way, no pun intended. Reading it coming from the "horse's mouth(the organiser)", it is not what is heard or not fully understood. It is great that the owner explains & goes through the fine details in full. Mike's Place sounds like it is a very open place to all of us swingers being singles and couples. And caters to a vast options That there is an opportunity for everyone to attend over time on designated events and ratios already considered so many benefit thru the month .
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes. Do it! My first experience (and only so far) was with the monkey club in Melbourne. It was amazing and going again this weekend. Strict visual criteria and phone interview to ensure you are not a weirdo. Once approved, you'll get details. On the night. 2 hours of socialising and waiting for everyone to arrive. Absolutely NO pressure to play. Once its time, head to the play area where it is on. Depending on your socialising skills and charm will determine the number of playmates. Everyone is friendly, but dont expect to play with everyone. Its all about that first two hours of socializing. Lastly... Everyone is attractive due to the strict critrea. And trust me, as a guy I nearly busted a nut just checking the girls out in their play time outfits. Not that there isnt anything wrong with +40s swingers, but I prefer the age group at TMC l20s to late 30s. There was one overly pushie drunk guy who was kicked out straight away. So this is a really good safe environment for single girls as the majority of guys are on the same page and step in when they sense the girl is not interested. If you are kinky, curious, or straight up deviant I recommend doing your research and checking out the party scene. May not be for you in the end. But at least you scratched that itch. Solace! - Posted from rhpmobile
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twoplusone
7 years ago
Once we got there we couldn't have been more surprised. We were expecting it to be a room filled with older, seedy guys who strocked you as you walked past. Still went with an open mind...but we couldn't be more wrong. Had the pleasure to be at the same club as swingalingson for our first time. & very glad too - he showed us a great time. 😉 We've learnt a very valuable lesson... be open minded - it's not for stuck up people or people who like making othes insurecure about their body! Most importantly have no expectations! Definitely something both myself and my partner enjoyed but it wouldn't be a place we could attend every weekend. Look forward to all the big events though 😉 - M x - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mark_and_Kathy
7 years ago
best to go with some one you know well if its first time so they can point out how it works the lifestyle is safer than most pubs or clubs swingers clubs are heavily regulated and monitored by the authorities
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LissnJules
7 years ago
Any recommendations on cubs got couple seeking bi woman. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We went to oiur first on Sat night in Sydney and it was like a normal bar upstairs. We had arranged to meet a couple for dinner and go as it was our first experience.We sat with them and chatted and then went to a play room and had our first experience with them. We then went into the main play room and again played. To us it was interesting and a great group of people from old to super young. Buffed to a little paunchyThe main play room was interesting as people just moved from couple to couple and in some cases looked mechanical. We decided was fun but we are after more of a connection and couple situation. We watched one guy have at least 5 girls and we did see a lot of non safe sex occouring which was disturbing.
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swingalingson
7 years ago
What an animal!! Hopefully you got his details in case some girls needed a "bull".
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RHP User
7 years ago
It takes all types and we wouldnt judge and good luck to him we are after a more intimate setrting!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Though was so dark in there was hard to see so i should retract my last statement Was a great venue and a fun crown for sure and we are just starting out so we will warm up to the idea and see how we go at the next one
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RHP User
7 years ago
Though was so dark in there was hard to see so i should retract my last statement Was a great venue and a fun crown for sure and we are just starting out so we will warm up to the idea and see how we go at the next one
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
But don’t want to go alone. Might put the call out for single girls near me who also want to go for first time and want a wing chick? I’m not bi ( I guess never say never but). Would couples club in Sydney be best bet? I’m thinking that might be better than my secret spot for my age? Thoughts? My thinking is you can just go to socialise and have the experience and no pressure to play unless you want to. I guess the vibe would be largely dictated by individuals there on the night? - Posted from rhpmobile
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just4fun48
5 years ago
We are regulars at shed 16 on a Friday night. Thursday and Saturday we have decided to stay clear due to so many single guys who don’t like the word no. Heaps stay clothed at the bar but then will dress down up stairs or spa. We haven’t been to any swinger parties yet, happy just with shed for now.
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