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Swingers parties
February 09 2013
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uneventful
12 years ago
But not got there yet ... for much the same reason ..- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
am in your area OP and am happy to chat with you about being your support person.Let me know if you would like me to send you a message
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RHP User
12 years ago
Me thinks you are a lucky boy ... ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
it loves to throw curve balls at me at the strangest of times! I'm not to far from you underdog and I'm in pretty much the same "place" right now and was planning on attending one ah... lets say imminently (all be it alone and nervous as hell about it too!). Perhaps you misspoppins and I could exchange emails?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Doing your bit for the community. Lol. Hey underdogdown I am sure there are lots if people who have this interest. I find that a lot if people chicken out at the last minute. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
generous like that Meeks
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perhaps this thread is the right thread to release the details of my first experience??? Hmmmmm
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters' Perhaps this thread is the right thread to release the details of my first experience??? Hmmmmm *chants in the back ground*
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love hearing men about loosing their cherry. Nice! ;-) Short and sweet is the go though, but that's just my opinion. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I meant GB not DG. You guys are interchangeable. *smiles cheekily*
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wouldn't turn missPoppins offer down ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
You should all come to Sydney one weekend and we can have a little expedition. ;-) Best time is the first Friday of every month. :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just like transformers....we are more than meets the eye ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's rather long, so I may have to do this in about 3 parts...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Please forgive the formatting I'm on my iPhone:-Part 1 I met a friend of mine who was taking me, at a bar just up the street. Obviously by this time I'd organised all my alcohol for the night. We sat and enjoyed a couple of tension relievers, not to mention how hot it was, before making our way down to the doors. At this point I was absolutely petrified. So many thoughts were going through my head, it felt like Pitt St at peak hour. Thoughts of "what if my body reacts and becomes visibly aroused? What should I do? More importantly how should I hide it? What if a couple starts fucking beside me?? How do I move away respectfully to give them their space?? But then again too, what am I going to do if I'm invited to JOIN?? I don't know if I can go through with this...I'm not ready...where's my phone?? Damn, it's at the hotel in my friends room...I check to make sure I had the spare room key, my heart became strong, loud and painful as we wandered up the stairs. I was shown up to the locker area and shown where the toilets and showers were. The ladies opened up their lockers, and vanished to wait behind the partitions...was I truly ready to see these people naked ?? They I emerged out clothed fully and my stomach sat down into its normal spot. Next was the grand tour of the play area, after checking in the alcohol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We entered into a dark lit room that had a walkway set out like a 'H' one room with the sound of jingling chains as my friend rushed in to eagerly show me the sex swing they had. She invited me in to the room, and there was just something that screamed "if you cross over the threshold sexually aroused zombies will rise up from the floor and humiliate you by tearing off your clothes..you will be laughed at like the freak at the circus." I declined her invitation citing I could see quite well from the doorway. The beds up one end, would later be filled or at least occupied by SOMEONE I thought to myself.I saw a very light, makeshift dungeon type setup on the back wall of this 1st room. The restraints just hanging there waiting for their first couple of the night. I placed my neck through one to gauge height, and to try to imagine the perspective from others if I were naked and restrained against this wall of rio mesh. The other two rooms were pretty plain without much theme at all. I noticed the dimly lit rooms were a wash with bowls of condoms, tissues, lube, which I hoped had been replenished with new stock.We soon retreated up stairs to engage in some alcohol consumption and enjoy the porn that was playing. I dreaded seeing the first couple walking into the room. More thoughts of inadequacy washed over me again, so I practiced the phrase "just hear with my friend thanks." A few times in my head, while interacting with the 3 ladies that had taken me under their wing in an attempt to open my eyes to their beloved world of sexual expression and liberation. I desperately wanted a cigarette but remembered it was a non smoking club. After a while, my friend asked if I wanted to go check out downstairs, which I thought to myself "NO!!" But the words "if you'd like to, I'm happy either way" fell from my mouth. She held my hand and kept herself near her while entering the play area. The jingling of chains before I caught my first glimpse started a mass of judgements running wild like mustering a herd of brumbies to be broken in. I soon caught my first glimpse of other people physically have sexual interactions without inhibition. Without feeling judged, they were all their own self, engaging in their own experience, their focus being on their partners, not the gathering of 4 strange people in the corridor watching them. Their faces reflected their ecstasy like two proud parents looking over their first newborn. I was speechless, as I watched grown men and women shed their all for the purposes of their own unique experience. A truly beautiful, soul touching feeling.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Later on in the evening two of the ladies I had gone with decided they were going to try the strapon one had brought with them. I watched eagerly as the receiving lady was brought to an orgasm, her face submersed in her feelings, and bodily reactions as her muscles spasmed. I imagined what it would've felt like kissing her, while fingering her, her pelvic floor muscles squeezing my fingers in pure pleasurable spasm. Her vaginal juices oozing out all over my hand in a river of warmth. I was turned on to the nth degree in my mind, awestruck I just smiled. After they finished, I grabbed hold of my friend and kissed her, deeply, and whispered the words "THAT...was so fucking hot." She led me to the room that had the swing, she bent over the chest that was on the floor and she told me she needed her arse spanked like only I could do. I followed her in. She assumed a strip search type stance resting her hands on the chest. I started to massage her arse with the palms of my hand, before spanking her arse firmly and with assertion. "Not with your hand...with this!" As she handed me a ping pong bat. I teased her with it, lightly running it over her body in place of my hand, the backs of her knees, she went a little weak, and I spanked her with it. Holding it in place for a couple seconds before circling the area that I had just spanked before moving on. I felt the gaze of eyes burning through my body, and I felt embarrassed. I have no idea why. But it lasted all of about 30 seconds, then I was really enjoying it, as I soon realised that the people were watching were watching the act, not me, not her. Once again totally blowing me away.
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RHP User
12 years ago
After experiencing all of this, I emerged a very enlightened man. I had seen things that I'd never seen up close and personal before. I felt things that terrified me, but excited me....but I learned something, about me which I'll keep under wraps. But it was an unbelievably positive experience that I had that night, and look forward to doing it all again......
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well written GB! OP, you're not too close to me, but should you find yourself in Sydney, let me know. Like Ghostbusters said, there are definitely some girls here that would take you under their wing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm in the same boat. Any girls that would do the same for me. I work away but I'm in Perth every couple of weeks?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey GB the place in your story sounds like the couples club in Sydney, but you can smoke up stairs in the bar area. We should all arrange to meet on the first Friday in march and go to the couples club. We are old hands at the swinging scene between me and my wife it's over 10 years. But in that time a lot has changed in the swinging scene, it used to be just one big fuck fest. But now it's more like pre-school, a lot of people are to scared to do anything without asking. The last few times we have went I have had to ask guys in there to go and play with and fuck my wife. It's not like it used to be,, BRING BACK THE GOOD OLD DAYS.
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I offered to pair up with a local female to investigate the same. I was hounded down by some of the same females offering the same ? Double standard... Naaaahhhhhhhhhh...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm just a little bit horny right now I am definitely up for a road trip to the city Meeks....bring it on!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Of where the club is, as the intended purpose of my post was to offer an experience that hopefully encourages people to take a step outside their view, and just experience something that could just blow their minds as it did mine....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Absolutely, double standards. I guess it's more acceptable to be a cougar than an old man. :) Oh well, lucky for the boys MissP and MsD are offering their services! :P Not me though so please no more emails boys.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That young lady in question did not ask for your offer, whereas this gentleman requested help from women specifically. But you're right, there are definitely double standards. And GB... Go on. Gives us names.
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
Loved reading your story and think I would be just as $%^& scared the first time...Thanks W
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why are people shit scared? Makes no sense to me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
... did say she would like to visit a swingers club to see what it was like, but not alone. ? There is no difference what l offered and what the poster of this thread requested... l also made it clear it would be as friends only, the same as the poster of this thread ? lt should have been her choice to accept or decline and left at that. Meeks, dont worry, my interest still lay with the less moody 25 - 35 age group who dont have age phobic attitudes.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been wanting to go for a while too but always feel too conscious... I’m fairly confident but think what if I get there and all these people a having getting it on but no one is interested in me... what would you do then... stand or sit there like a 'shag on a rock' or in this case 'no shag on a rock'... so then in comes the wingman or wing-woman (assuming they aren’t off having fun) with a supporting comment like it’s ok they just don’t see the sexiness of six toes... So like you Under I’m always looking for someone to join me for my first for support... Oh and yeah I was thinking about adding a little Topgun quote with the whole wingman thing there...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' Me thinks you are a lucky boy ... ;-) Me thinks those gals are wonderful!
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one_for_the_road
12 years ago
Are there many swingers parties in the area? One of my friends and I can keen to go but don't know how to go about finding one!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'one_for_the_road'Are there many swingers parties in the area? One of my friends and I can keen to go but don't know how to go about finding one! Check out the Events section. Newcastle appears to be a happening place! Here's a start: http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Event/BIOLOGY-newcastle-26785
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